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I'm not going to talk about money today. I have faith I'll give it all away and honestly I'm not even worried that I'm going to give up. I'm worried that I'm going to be stuck here for the long haul.
So I just read this thread. And it seems I'm not anywhere near there at all... Ok that's fine. I'm not going to get anywhere near that very soon... I ACCEPT THAT.
I'm quite moody writing this so haha. Will be interesting to come back and read this when I'm not as moody.
Now I'm going to be honest with myself and ask what my 3 biggest problems are:
1. I JUST KEEP GETTING BLOWN OFF. On the street. I swear. It's all amounting to nothing because girls just blow me off. Doesn't matter whether or not I get AIs or IOIs. I get blown off. I've gotten blown off so many times that I'm just afraid that the next girl is going to do the same thing and blow me off again. Wow. I am so sick of this. So so bloody sick of this. It's going to be the first thing that I'm going to deal with. Getting blown off. Getting ignored.
2. The girls have boyfriends. Like they are literally not budging. None of them are budging. 50-75% of the girls that I successfully stop on the street are not budging. Telling me they are not single. Sometimes I open with "are u single" in a needy way and they just blow off the question. Not a very good testing ground in that case. Gotta fix the above problem first. This is really hindering my progress. I am going to stop getting blown off.
3. There's a hell lot of other shit. AND the fact that I've never had a friend who is a girl in my entire life. That is just aggravating the bitterness. I've read the Traveller's Gift and it keeps me so strong. Thanks to that I'm really keeping my cool right now even as I write this. No point thinking about the other stuff first.
Two things I'm going to fix
1. 4 OUT OF 5 girls I approach will pay attention to me and talk to me. If I get dates, that's fine. If I have sex, whatever. If I go out and less than 4 out of 5 girls pay attention to me and talk to me, it will be a failed outing.
(I don't care what it is I have to do. I'm going to fix this. If this takes more than a month something is wrong. Today is the 11th of August. By the 11th of September, I am no longer going to have this problem)
2. I don't know how possible it is to build a social circle from cold approach. But I'm not going to risk being stuck in this bitterness and lack of understanding of women any longer. If I have to learn to take dance classes, if I have to learn to sing, learn to do whatever, I will do it.
No matter what, I am going to make myself some female friends. Period.
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(REPOST FROM A REPLY) EDIT: Apologies for the typos. I began to write a simple response before heading into work and then out of passion it grew into something much larger. They will be fixed by tomorrow. Over the years I've talked with plenty of women about bad dates they've had. I've also...
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So I just read this thread. And it seems I'm not anywhere near there at all... Ok that's fine. I'm not going to get anywhere near that very soon... I ACCEPT THAT.
I'm quite moody writing this so haha. Will be interesting to come back and read this when I'm not as moody.
Now I'm going to be honest with myself and ask what my 3 biggest problems are:
1. I JUST KEEP GETTING BLOWN OFF. On the street. I swear. It's all amounting to nothing because girls just blow me off. Doesn't matter whether or not I get AIs or IOIs. I get blown off. I've gotten blown off so many times that I'm just afraid that the next girl is going to do the same thing and blow me off again. Wow. I am so sick of this. So so bloody sick of this. It's going to be the first thing that I'm going to deal with. Getting blown off. Getting ignored.
2. The girls have boyfriends. Like they are literally not budging. None of them are budging. 50-75% of the girls that I successfully stop on the street are not budging. Telling me they are not single. Sometimes I open with "are u single" in a needy way and they just blow off the question. Not a very good testing ground in that case. Gotta fix the above problem first. This is really hindering my progress. I am going to stop getting blown off.
3. There's a hell lot of other shit. AND the fact that I've never had a friend who is a girl in my entire life. That is just aggravating the bitterness. I've read the Traveller's Gift and it keeps me so strong. Thanks to that I'm really keeping my cool right now even as I write this. No point thinking about the other stuff first.
Two things I'm going to fix
1. 4 OUT OF 5 girls I approach will pay attention to me and talk to me. If I get dates, that's fine. If I have sex, whatever. If I go out and less than 4 out of 5 girls pay attention to me and talk to me, it will be a failed outing.
(I don't care what it is I have to do. I'm going to fix this. If this takes more than a month something is wrong. Today is the 11th of August. By the 11th of September, I am no longer going to have this problem)
2. I don't know how possible it is to build a social circle from cold approach. But I'm not going to risk being stuck in this bitterness and lack of understanding of women any longer. If I have to learn to take dance classes, if I have to learn to sing, learn to do whatever, I will do it.
No matter what, I am going to make myself some female friends. Period.