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Hello,
So it's about a week left to the date that she will come to Poland (she postponed it because of doctor appointment).
I had kind of strange situation with her.
In Sunday i told her to order my stuff but i didn't persist but i asked her in Wednesday and she told she didn't do it yet and i was not satisfied but didn't react at all just said OK.
Thursday we have talked and she started some kind of bad beginning and i tried to disarm her and neutralize all her arguments.
-She told we can meet in cafe and i told her no way , cafe for me is considered as place to meet in more official situation , and i was already at your flat so you know it is just fine
-She told we are only friend and maybe will stay friend , i answered which kind of friends talk about such private and personal stuffs and which kind of friend hold hand and talk like us.
-She told well i believe from the beginning we have to feel that love and i don't , love comes with some minimum knowing and seeing each other , it would be so strange if you would live me after our first and only meeting which was in hurry , did i ever mentioned we have to love each other or i love you ? We have to build it together.
-She told i had love with the first sight before , i told her so how did it end , are you together whole life and it ended beautifully? she told no and i answered it was illusion of love and nothing with deep knowing and feeling .
Then she was disarmed and she got pissed off and told me you have overconfidence and you think you know everything , i told her everyday i learn something new and i realized overwhelming amount of things which i dont know , i only shared what i experienced in my life and learn it
Then she started to talk about past and her ex .... and it was the time i raised up my voice and told if you wanna live in past then it's sad and I'm sorry , i love to have everyday better and more beautiful than yesterday not stick to past and then i told if you wanna discuss then i have no energy for it i have to rest because i have important things to do and need to sleep enough and i we hanged up .
Then after some minutes she wrote i got your stuff because i ordered things some days ago. i wrote back that i cant write then she called.
I told her it thanks that's awesome did you wanna surprise me that you didnt tell it ? she said maybe and i was also pissed off and we didn't talk so much.
Then i changed the subject to us and told her you went in that way with your logic and i am not sure if the result was positive but i strongly believe if we do it together and be patient then the result will be beautifiul and charming for both of us .
Then she answered OK i will try .... , kissed and goodnight!
I know i shouldn't get into the argument but i didn't know what elso to do.,
It is strange when ever i talk to her more serious or even raise my voice and tell her faults then she become kind of tamed and get closer to me and start to have compliance.
We will see each other in the next week and i dont know exactly how to have conversation and act to cause some sexual tensions and turn her sexually on .
I know there are so many articles but those are indeed many and similar so i dont know exactly what do i need to read .
Thanks for help
David
So it's about a week left to the date that she will come to Poland (she postponed it because of doctor appointment).
I had kind of strange situation with her.
In Sunday i told her to order my stuff but i didn't persist but i asked her in Wednesday and she told she didn't do it yet and i was not satisfied but didn't react at all just said OK.
Thursday we have talked and she started some kind of bad beginning and i tried to disarm her and neutralize all her arguments.
-She told we can meet in cafe and i told her no way , cafe for me is considered as place to meet in more official situation , and i was already at your flat so you know it is just fine
-She told we are only friend and maybe will stay friend , i answered which kind of friends talk about such private and personal stuffs and which kind of friend hold hand and talk like us.
-She told well i believe from the beginning we have to feel that love and i don't , love comes with some minimum knowing and seeing each other , it would be so strange if you would live me after our first and only meeting which was in hurry , did i ever mentioned we have to love each other or i love you ? We have to build it together.
-She told i had love with the first sight before , i told her so how did it end , are you together whole life and it ended beautifully? she told no and i answered it was illusion of love and nothing with deep knowing and feeling .
Then she was disarmed and she got pissed off and told me you have overconfidence and you think you know everything , i told her everyday i learn something new and i realized overwhelming amount of things which i dont know , i only shared what i experienced in my life and learn it
Then she started to talk about past and her ex .... and it was the time i raised up my voice and told if you wanna live in past then it's sad and I'm sorry , i love to have everyday better and more beautiful than yesterday not stick to past and then i told if you wanna discuss then i have no energy for it i have to rest because i have important things to do and need to sleep enough and i we hanged up .
Then after some minutes she wrote i got your stuff because i ordered things some days ago. i wrote back that i cant write then she called.
I told her it thanks that's awesome did you wanna surprise me that you didnt tell it ? she said maybe and i was also pissed off and we didn't talk so much.
Then i changed the subject to us and told her you went in that way with your logic and i am not sure if the result was positive but i strongly believe if we do it together and be patient then the result will be beautifiul and charming for both of us .
Then she answered OK i will try .... , kissed and goodnight!
I know i shouldn't get into the argument but i didn't know what elso to do.,
It is strange when ever i talk to her more serious or even raise my voice and tell her faults then she become kind of tamed and get closer to me and start to have compliance.
We will see each other in the next week and i dont know exactly how to have conversation and act to cause some sexual tensions and turn her sexually on .
I know there are so many articles but those are indeed many and similar so i dont know exactly what do i need to read .
Thanks for help
David