December 22 to 29 - In Laos again
So I'm here again, visiting my children for Christmas and new year. Vientiane the capital is a nice place, a sort of countryside version of Bangkok. Girls wise, my first week is quiet, apart from my interaction with Lily (below). It's only this week that I become active.
Here is my LR with P. a 22 years old Lao girl.
https://boards.girlschase.com/viewtopic.php?f=5&t=12628
It was really magnetic. Two hours meet to lay, little exchange, very simple.
Lily
I had met her early October when I was last in Vientiane, and back then we met two times, but I had strictly no place to isolate her - I called her R. in my post "October 9". Since then we had kept intermittent contact, chat, pictures, and a couple of video calls. A week before I inform her I'll be in Vientiane. We get in touch when I arrive and setup a dinner on Wednesday 23.
She comes late as she closes her shop later than expected. We meet at my hotel 9:05pm. She’s very sexy and pretty. Heels, a dress revealing sexy legs, delicate makeup, sexy long, black hair with a pony tail. She drives and I let her chose the venue. She drives us to a nice restaurant in Vientiane and I gently caress her shoulder as she drives. We’re the only customers and they put us in a private room. I order a nice bottle of red wine (a Pauillac 2010 - variety of French Bordeaux wine). We chat and I have my hand on her leg, just above the knee, giving her a gentle kiss once in a while. Dinner is over. I was careful not to finish the wine, in order to take the bottle away for later consumption. Next she suggests we go to a bar, owned by a friend of her, and she wants to introduce me to them. The owner is a nice gay guy. I have a “Sex on the Mekong” cocktail, lol, she has a whisky. In fact she’s bragging around about our date on social networks, showing our dinner, our selfies. She’s getting some likes and she shows me. Drinks finished, she wants to order some more. “No, let’s go!” I say. “Where?” “Let’s go have the wine in my hotel room” said with no hesitation. “OK”. The deal is sealed, we go straight to my hotel as we both always knew it would happen. In my room I serve the wine and she starts browsing her Facebook on my bed. After a couple of minutes I gently take her smartphone away, and start to caress and kiss her. She has a beautiful, sexy body. We will end up naked, me rubbing my dick against her pussy, and more sexual teasing of the sort... But damn, she has her period. We finally switch off the light and sleep.
After that, it all went to hell. She will turn out to be many things I don't like in a woman. A commanding woman, used to have guys pleasing her every whims and obeying to her. Very much interested in social validation, showing off a foreign boyfriend to Facebook and social circle. Very interested in her own self validation by getting a guy spend tons of money on her (which is an automatic next, in my book), but show very little interest in what I want. At the same time, party girl, getting dead drunk several times a week.
On Friday 25, it's 11pm and I get a text from her. "Now I am out, alone. I would like you to come". Don't like it, not realistic. Going out for drinks at 11pm, coming back at 1am to room, sleepy and drunk, crap performance. I know some of you younger guys do that all the time, well, not me. "Too late" I tell her. From there, she starts insisting and convincing me it's not too late. Then she threatens interrupting the relation: "good night, enjoy your life. I will yell you good bye now". Hoho, never give in to this sort of emotional blackmailing. This girl needs to be challenged, she had a too easily life with guys before obviously. I just answer a sober "Good bye" then turn silent and let her text me more. Not worried. She'll be back.
She's back very early the next day, tells me how drunk she was (which seems to be happening often, but trying to make me feel guilty about it). I tell her "why you were angry last night? I just said it was too late" and "why you didn't come to my room instead of getting drunk?" She asks me out on a wedding party this evening. Will be the only foreign guy in a large group of lao people, speaking lao, and will get bored quickly. I say no. She says we'll meet right after the wedding, like 10:30pm. At said time, of course she texts she won't be able to make it. She eventually go back home at 1am, drunk again.
On Sunday she's back, and suggests we do something today, her young son (2 years old), herself and me. Two times I said no, so this time I can't really refuse. We meet at 3pm and she tells me we're going out of Vientiane, some boat on a river. We reach, she speaks to the owner, and we end up on a private boat the three of us, with a large meal and 5 bottles of Heineken... Well it's 5pm and I'm not really hungry, but well, I have to honor the food. Nice time, maybe 45 minutes, lots of selfies and little kisses. Pictures of me holding her son in my arms. All pics loaded on her Facebook immediately. Looks a lot like a date, maybe some buyer's remorse of ending naked with me last time. Also, it's the start of a "betaization" process. Plus social validation. The boat trip is over. I don't know why I thought she was treating me and felt a bit pleased about it. How stupid of me. The bill comes, she directs it to me and walk out with her son while I pay. About 50 USD, not a big deal, but it's the way it was done that upsets me. Her son walks a bit far away from us, she commands me "take him back". I tell her it's her son, she gets him back, but now I'm really put off. After driving me back to Vientiane I tell her that my friends are planning a dinner out, and leave her.
The next day she texts me. I let her wait and answer in the evening. She asks: "Are you angry with me?" "No, not angry. You and me, it's not working" and let her go. There are plenty of other girls out there. Right after Lily I had this same day lay with P. (link above). I am currently chatting another girl that seems interested to meet me. Maybe more good news down the road ;-)