The reason why I like to think that quote applies to men only is because women simply by default are good with men for simply just being born or simply just existing
You don't know a thing about women, man. I say that as gently as possible.
Well, another way i look at it, is that men are always the ones that have to bring value the interactions, conversations, we are always the ones that have to make it fun and interesting.
Not just men. Males of EVERY species -- mammals, reptiles, birds, insects, you name it.
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Women are just responding to the options they have available.
Your problem isn't women. It's all the males you're competing against who are doing a BETTER JOB than you are.
If you want women, but don't want to learn how to out-compete other men, you are gonna need to find some way to eradicate every other male on the Earth. Do some real supervillain stuff. Some kind of Y-chromosome targeting lethal virus that wipes out men but leaves women untouched, and only you have the antidote. Then you can be as lazy and boring as you want and women will be desperate for you anyway because they have no other options.
Reminds me of another statement that changed my mindset and perspective on talking to women, heres what one guy told me, he said:
"why do you think throughout history, almost all stand-up comedians and public speakers are almost always men, male?, easy answer, they wanted to become better talkers, communicators, in order to attract women"
Duh?
But who are they competing with? Who are they trying to be better than? OTHER MEN!
You are COMPETING WITH MEN while RESENTING WOMEN.
I can't get over how guys can be in the ring, getting beat up by other boxers, then at the end of the round the match is called, the guys who beat them up get the trophy, and the loser goes, "Those trophies just have totally unrealistic standards. I can't even..."
Men compete with men for women.
Women compete with women for men.
How is this difficult to understand?
Another huge source to my anger and resentment over the game, seduction, courtship in general, is that, i know i'm not alone in thinking this way, and i still get mad and angry at myself for the times i accidentally made a woman feel uncomfortable when approaching, either got labeled creepy or thought of as that way. Certain interactions or situations i highly doubt i'll get over, even if i do get better, the times i messed up socially, those will be painful scars on me for the rest of my life.
It's the learning process. EVERY guy goes through that. Every GIRL goes through similar things, where she reacted in some awkward way to a guy, shooed away a guy she regrets shooing away and now assumes probably hates her, etc., etc.
The way you deal with it is by continuing to improve socially, so you can be SMOOTH instead of awkward.
This is what everyone does, men and women alike. It is part of the GROWING UP PROCESS.
Is that, women normally never risk having their social awkwardness or social ineptness be dismissed or perceived as weird or creepy when talking to, interacting with the other sex, but men do unfortuneately, its impossible for a woman to get labeled creepy or be accused of having made someone uncomfortable in social interactions between the 2 sexes.
Women get accused of being bitches and sluts.
A socially rejected man is a creepy. A socially rejected woman is a slut. Both are doing things that are generally considered LOW VALUE by the opposite sex. Plenty of people will defend both of them and talk about how actually they are not that bad, but the high value women don't want the creepy guys and the high value men don't want the slutty girls.
Some girls are sluts because they're nymphos. But a lot of girls are sluts because they are socially awkward and inept and are bad at reading men and understanding what men want and holding onto men, so they throw pussy at guys hoping one of the guys will stick around. Sluts are the female creeps (except for high sex drive nymphos, who are in a different category -- they do it because they want to, not because they don't know what else to do).
So its like, women can get away with doing poorly socially, have poor social skills, poor social IQ, be socially retarded, but men can't get away with it.
No they can't.
Again dude... you're just talking out of your ass here, repeating a bunch of red pill talking points from equally clueless dudes.
Q: How much about women does a man who's failed with women know?
A: Not a whole lot at all...
And the guys saying this stuff are all guys who are failing, again and again, with women.
Blind leading the blind, homie... time to wake up and OPEN YOUR EYES.
You're the virgin in the virgin vs. chad meme, but rather than realizing that you're losing because chad is out-competing you, you think you're losing because women have it really easy or something.
We need to have some kind of female version of this so incels can understand it goes both ways... oh wait...
Chase