Nah man you are very civil in tone, thabks for the reply but it is interesting how we all come into a question from our own perspective or how we are about it in this very moment.
So why do girls with a lot of options feel the same panic when it happens to them? They are the polar opposite but feel the same stressed out feeling, even girls in their prime.
Well that would really depend on how much experience one has when it comes to dating and seduction.Of course you are more immune to rejection and chasing girls it doesn't go anywhere with if you have been around the block a lot more than the guy who is starting out.
You already have a set process that you follow with girls by then and have done it enough times and seen success with it that a girl pulling away won't bother you as much.
Also you having options makes you confident enough to know you can replace a chick at any given time.That said with time your process becomes mistakes -free or close that you don't waste time or mess things up with chicks to begin with that you are then forced to chase them after they have abandoned ship.
If most people could get rid of indecisiveness,act fast and lead strongly while still having other options...chasing would be non -existent.
Anyway on with chicks in their prime who also may have multiple options:
A girl will chase you down if she finds you attractive enough and open windows for you to act upon and maybe cut you a little slack if she is really into you.Fail to make things happen or flip the script and chase her yourself and it's dead.
If you have a good process chicks will chase you in the beginning usually and also later after you have shagged them as long as she finds you attainable and within her reach .
Also girls move on a lot faster than men in general.She will chase you maybe for a while then move on completely than you'd think.She may be remorseful and try to get you back if you were their best option but most of the time she'll move on because she has no time.I've had hot chicks who were into me go stone cold on me, during my early years and not even with good game and my silver tongue could I win them over again.
Again she'll pick the "wrong guy" if the "right one" isn't free or available . Usually best to move on yourself with such girls .No amount of trying to "save" them will help in any way.If you are doing it once she has walked away herself,you are chasing.
So yeah she may chase you up to a certain point and then compromise on her less valuable options instead once she realizes she can't get you .Also most girls chasing you are doing it cause they are attracted and would want to see where things may lead to.She is hoping you don't mess it up and that you'll finally give her what she is seeking...a roll in the hay obviously
She is not chasing like men most men do out of desperation or wanting to own you unless she is desperate but more of her being really into you and is curious of how things would go.
And besides most guys don't know how to get girls chasing them so most girls lay back and pick who she wants best.
Bottom line:girls may chase yes but only to a certain point
She'll tend to cut more slack for guys she has known for a while or her boyfriend than she would a stranger-lover
She may be a lil bit panick-ey when she feels she's losing you but not so much than it is with guys since she has options and may settle for just "good enough".
She won't try her darnedest to get you back like most guys will to get her since she has no time and has to avoid overt rejection lest she be considered unattractive and unable to get a guy.
Hope this helps
Chad Tyrone
