FR++: Virginia Chick. (Slept with her, LMR)
FR++: Virginia Chick.
10-27-09 Tuesday.
*Back*Story*.
Okay, so I met this girl about a month ago. She is an old friend of one of my natural buddies, pretty damn cute looking. I’d give her a 6.5 to 7. She actually opened me now that I think about it. I greeted all my friends which was everybody there. This was a small get-together in the woods by a fire, after I greeted everyone but her she said “That’s messed up, you said hi to everyone but not me?” then I just smiled and introduced myself to her.
I don’t remember much about the night, I just know that she was laughing at most of what I was saying and I didn’t really try to do anything. She was starting to annoy some of my friends that were there though. Ended up going to Denny’s late that night too. Looking back on it, she actually number closed me the night we met. I didn’t even pay much attention to that. She randomly asked me for my number.
There was a lot of mutual interest here though. She gamed me back and helped a lot of things happen, it went pretty smoothly and it was almost like we were both on the same page the whole time. She helped me logistically along the way too as you’ll see in the end. Some decent push-pull on my part I think. Maybe a little more than necessary. This is going to be a very big read, I just like being thoroughly detailed.
*The*Report*.
I found out she was leaving soon, so I decided I’d text her and try to make something happen before she moved. The majority of what came into place was through text game, which I will include in it’s full entirety here, except for a few beginning texts that I deleted.
I guess pay attention to the times and the frequency of the texts. All the times and every single letter and spelling error and capitalization and punctuations are all 100% accurate.
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10-26-09. Monday.
11:27 PM Wind: Hey ur moving?
3:00 PM Her: I think so.
3:02 PM Wind: When
3:05 PM Her: Idk. I gotta think hard tho.. But if I do then before halloween. Why
3:06 PM Wind: We never got to chill much
3:08 PM Her: Never said much.. And besides I miss my friends.. Been kinda lonely
3:15 PM Wind: I understand, we need to chill b4 u leave though, who knows when well c eachother again
3:19 PM Her: I know. I gotta figure things out in the next couple days. Idk how it will go
3:20 PM Wind: Definitely, just so u kno, ur pretty fun to be around
6:32 PM Her: What r u doing tonight?
6:34 PM Wind: Got mma until 9 then nothin, u
6:38 PM Her: Chilln w/ some ppl.. I’m drinking tonight.. Wanted to see if chad wants to chill.. U trying to drink w/ me finally J ha
7:00 PM Wind: Stop tryin to get me drunk im not that easy
10-27-09. Tuesday. In the AM.
12:17 AM Her: Hey what’s up
12:21 AM Wind: Jus took a shower hbu
12:30 AM Her: U know u should consider drinking with me.. What if you never see me again
12:32 AM Wind: Maybe, only cuz ur kool, promise not to take advantage of me I kno itll be hard
12:38 AM Her: Haha. How would that be hard?
12:40 AM Her: You will have a good time with me.. Ur deff doing a shot gun with me
12:55 AM Wind: I don’t smoke sillyyy
12:56 AM Her: Haha. Not talking about that.
1:02 AM Wind: Oh lol ight, im off to sleep peace nukka
The next day.
3:01 PM Her: Beer pong tonight?
3:06 PM Her: Someone just asked me but I don’t wanna go alone.. It woud be fun
3:11 PM Wind: Where/when
3:22 PM Her: Near the ____ mall..
3:24 PM Wind: Im busy til 830 so ill let u kno
3:32 PM Her: After 9
5:28 PM Her: So I’m thinking u should drink sparks with me. No go on the beer pong.. Could just go out and have a fire near chads.. I’m heading out soon to va.
5:36 PM Wind: Kk
5:48 PM Her: Caitlin is coming with me
5:49 PM Wind: Iight, im off to mma txt u later
5:51 PM Her: What’s mma?
5:59 PM Wind: Martial arts
8:53 PM Her: Did u have fun?
9:03 PM Wind: Yehh wut up
9:05 PM Her: So. Ur drinking tonight w/ me J I can’t wait..
9:24 PM Her: Wind?
9:24 PM Wind: Driving
9:31 PM Her: Ur cute.
9:41 PM Wind: U too.
10:11 PM Wind: At chads
10:16 PM Her: K. Just got out of the shower
10:36 PM Her: Wind. Tell chad to go pick me up some black sparks.. And i will pay him when i get there.. Which will be a lil bit
10:36 PM Wind: How many
10:38 PM Her: Actually 1 four loko and 2 sparks.. R u drinking tonight?
10:39 PM Wind: Yea i guess
10:41 PM Her: Well I wanna shot gun a beer with u.. Ask chad what it is..
10:41 PM Wind: He don’t think hell make it in time but he has beer
10:42 PM Her: Damn. I was really feeling those tonight.. I can’t drink them all the time haha.
10:42 PM Wind: Poor kid
10:43 PM Her: Its cool.. Now u gotta shot gun 3 with me so I can feel good haha.
10:45 PM Wind: Ill make u feel good
11:03 PM Her: On my way.
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So she showed up at my friend’s house, it was her and 3 guys (including myself) just chilling there. She grabbed a beer, I think everyone was drinking and I never drink. She tried to get me to drink and I just sipped and said that she was just trying to get me drunk and take advantage of me. I promised her I’d drink tonight so that’s why I even did, otherwise I never do.
I didn’t really say much to her once she arrived though, just greeted her and I hugged her at the door or she hugged me at the door when I let her in my friend’s house. Whenever my friends insulted me she would actually defend me, it was a bit strange to have this happen. I was a little surprised, but didn’t act like it.
She kept trying to get me to drink and I kept saying “Fine, but promise not to take advantage of me tonight.” Flipping the script on her, lol. Friends ended up taking her cell phone and hiding it to mess with her. She got mad and tried searching them. She didn’t search me once though, she said to me “I don’t think you have it, you’re not that kind of person.” Meaning I wouldn’t steal it from her, wow, where did that come from?
She laughed at pretty much all my jokes and played along with any role playing games I threw up. Towards the end of the night she got mad about her cell phone and said “Fine, I’ll just leave without it.” She went to her car outside and my friend gave it back. I went to the car and asked her “Are you still leaving?” She said “Yeah, I guess so.” I said “Don’t leave, come back inside” then I walked away and went back inside. She followed me without saying a word.
When my friend Chad decided that he wanted to go to sleep we left his house and I asked her “What are you doing tonight?” She said she doesn’t know, I told her “You should come over to my house.” She asked “And what would we do?” I said “Just chill for a little.” I could have probably given a much better answer but I’ve never tried to seed a bounce to my house at night before.
When we left I told her “Are you coming over? Because if you’re not I’m going to go home and go to sleep right away, I have to wake up early tomorrow morning, so let me know.” She asked “How far is your house?” I said “About 15 minutes away.” Which is true, I could’ve lied and gotten her to go though? I don’t like lying though. She said “Oh… Um… Call me in 7 minutes.” I said “Alright” and drove off.
I figured she just rejected me and that was a soft way of doing it. I saw her pull into a gas station as I drove towards my house. She texted me though right when I was by my house, wtf. What was she doing at the gas station for 15 minutes?
Now I’m using texts after we left my friend’s house to get her to my house. I was near my house by the time she texted me so I had to turn around and speed up to meet her somewhere without her realizing how far I was going just to get her, lol.
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More Texts.
1:15 AM Her: Wind! Which way do u live.
1:15 AM Wind: Where ru at right now?
1:16 AM Her: Gas station still haha. Near chads.. Before the light..
1:17 AM Her: Kangaroo shit.. About to hit up checkers
1:17 AM Wind: Wait at checkers for me
1:19 AM Her: Hmm.. K.
1:26 AM Wind: Were joo at
1:27 AM Her: Checkers
1:28 AM Wind: In the drive thru?
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I was not even near checkers, I was near my house, which was 15 minutes away. She has a horrible sense of direction and I didn’t want to waste time though so I sped up there to get to her. Later on she asked how far I was when I turned around to get her, I said 5 minutes. I lied there, I was 15 minutes away. Haha.
*My*Place*.
So we pulled into my place. I live with both my parents so I was getting a little nervous wondering how they would react to a girl spending the night with me, seeing as I have never done that before and they are very strict and still have the old moral traditional beliefs about sex and yada yada yada.
We got in my house, I had her take off her shoes. Went to my downstairs room (I have 2 rooms). Stood there briefly, she went to use the restroom, she got back and I said “Let’s go upstairs, I have to find something” without really thinking about what I said. She asked “What do you have to find in your room?” and I just ignored her question and walked towards my room upstairs, she just followed me.
Once we got in my room she sat down in my bed, I turned on some music that I like, and sat on my computer briefly. She sat on my bed because I only have 1 chair in my room and I was in it, plus there’s stuff in the chair too, leaves no other places to sit. I forget what I talked to her about while in my room, the conversations are for the most part running blanks when I try to recall them.
We talked about sky diving briefly. I had just went sky diving so I decided I’d show her the DVD’s. She jokingly got mad because she really wanted to go but didn’t manage to. I said “Let’s go downstairs and watch them, I have a DVD player downstairs.” My downstairs room isn’t a better logistical offer, the purpose of me going to my room upstairs was so she entered it once and then we could leave and she could go back and not feel as uncomfortable.
She said she didn’t want to go downstairs. She actually said I should go watch it on her laptop, I asked “Where’s your laptop?“ She said “Uhh.. Oh shit it’s at my house.. You should come over and watch it.“ That was obvious… I decided I’d try to play it on my computer, which is really slow, but it worked. She thought it was an amazing video, I enjoy watching myself jump out of an airplane anyways, so it was good for me too.
She briefly asked how she was going to get home tonight because she didn’t know her way around and wasn’t paying attention while she was following me. I had a feeling that was going to happen, haha. I said I’d give her directions later or I’d just lead her back home.
After watching it I said “Don’t look, I’m changing” and took all my clothes off but my boxers and changed right in front of her without looking embarrassed or anything. She said “I’ve seen enough guys” something, something to not be embarrassed, I forgot what she said. She didn’t look away though while I was changing. I left the room briefly and she asked if I had any shorts for her, she said it is because “jeans are uncomfortable” so I gave her a pair of my athletic shorts and left the room, she changed by the time I got back a minute later.
While she was on my bed she looked at my blindfold thing. It’s something I sleep with on my face so light doesn’t get through, she said “Awww.. That’s cute, you sleep with this?” she played around with it briefly while sitting on my bed, I walked up to her and said something like “Stop messing around” and I told her to put it on really quick, she did and made a comment like “I can’t see anything.” Then I went in and kissed her while she had that blindfold on her face.
She said “Whoa, whoa, what was that?” I just played it off and walked away and said “Nothing, what are you talking about?” She took off her blindfold and looked at me briefly. Then she put it back on and said “See I‘m blindfolded, do that thing again” I don’t remember her words exactly but she was trying to get me to kiss her again. I didn’t walk back over to her though. She left the blindfold on for a few minutes though trying to get me to come back over to her but I didn’t.
She took off her blindfold and said something I forget what, and I walked over towards her and got close to her. Then she just grabbed me and made out with me, basically shoving her tongue down my mouth. It was nice. Then after about 30 seconds I tried pulling away saying “Whoa whoa whoa” and she grabbed onto me and pulled me back in and made out with me some more.
Then I pulled away completely away from her grips, and said “That’s all you get.” Got back on my computer to do stuff. Somehow the conversation steered towards contact lenses and then she said her eyes are sensitive, I asked her if the light was bothering her, she said yeah it was, I asked if she wanted me to turn it off, she said yeah. So I turned off my room light and locked the door. (She didn’t notice me lock the door) So the only light on in my room was my computer monitor.
I locked the door so my rents wouldn’t walk in. They never bothered me ironically. The next morning my dad actually thought I stayed up all night TALKING to her. HAHAHAHAHAHA. He can’t comprehend that I’d be doing anything with a girl, it’s so funny.
I wasn’t even drunk or tipsy, I only drank half a beer but there’s a lot of gaps in what happened. After I turned off the light I think I went over to her and started making out with her more, I reached up her shirt and she said “Whoa whoa what is that?” and pulled back. Kept making out and I got on top of her this time and started reaching up her shirt again, she didn’t stop me and I just felt up on her.
Then after a little bit I stopped and said “Take off your shirt.” She asked “Why?” I said “I love your body and I want to see it.” Tried to take off her shirt and she stopped me, made out with her some more, repeated like 2 more times and she took off her shirt. She was wearing 2, so I managed to get 1 off. Then shortly afterwards she asked me “I suppose you want me to take the other shirt off?” I said “Yeah” and she took off her bra and her shirt and we continued making out.
I tried escalating it further by just being on top of her and making out with her. I think I rubbed in between her legs while we were making out and her shorts were on. I told her to take off her shorts and she questioned that, I think I gave her the same answer as before. It took about 3 tries to get them off, the first time I asked she didn’t do anything, I tried pulling them off gently and she pulled them back on, then made out some more and she took them off.
She was only in her underwear at this point. I was kind of just having fun with it so I decided to lick her face whenever she did something I didn’t like. And I did it a few times just for fun. Her reaction was funny, she tried wiping it back on me, or she’d lick my face back. I just said once “Oh, I’m sorry, I thought you were an ice cream cone for a second..” I joke around too much.
The majority of the time I was escalating on her I said “See I knew this was going to happen.. I knew you were going to try to take advantage of me.” This confused her quite a bit. I joked “You had this all planned out didn’t you?” I just loved her reaction, seeing as I was escalating on her.
I managed to take off her panties, after a little bit of effort. They came off the easiest. I told her to take them off a few times, she didn’t refuse ever actually, she simply questioned “Why?” I said “Because I love your body and I want to see the rest of it.” She said “It’s dark you couldn’t see it anyways.” I put my hands on her panties and started pulling them off slowly, she put her hands back on them, then I said “Don’t worry about it, just trust me” and she eased her grip and just let me take them off.
When she was completely naked I just said “Fucking beautiful” and started feeling her body and went to make out with her some more. This all happened over a long period of time. I got to my house around… 1:45 a.m. and she fell asleep around 4:30 a.m. So if it sounds like it happened quickly, I probably left out some unnecessary details.
I tried to pull her on top of me a few times and she wouldn’t let it happen. She just stopped me and said “Noo.. I’m a bottom person.” Also I told her “You’re different than most girls, I don’t know how to explain it, you’re just more open-minded and not as judgmental than most girls, why is that?” trying to qualify her. She didn’t understand what I said at first.
She tried to get me to explain myself several times then she explained herself by answering the question and basically qualifying herself to me. Although this step didn’t seem too necessary. This might have led to her saying that I’m “different than other guys” though.
We ended up giving each other back massages with some lotion I have. It was her idea, I don’t even know how to massage somebody. I was on top of her the majority of the time. She kept biting my neck and shoulders, which might have been a kinky move, if it hadn’t hurt so much! It did NOT turn me on at all. And left a lot of bite marks on me.
I kept trying to escalate it further and she wouldn’t let it happen, every time I rubbed her pussy she’d put her hand on my hand and pull it away. I am sure she liked it though because each time I did it, the next time she’d wait even longer before she pulled my hand away. I think I should have just fingered her when she gave me enough time to do so. Or ate her out, whatever, lesson learned.
One memorable moment was when I was on top of her and she was biting me or something, I told her to stop then I held both of her hands down and hooked both her legs with my legs so she was spread out helplessly while I was on top of her. She laughed and then I said “See, I knew you were going to take advantage of me tonight, I mean just look at me.. I’m just naked and so helpless right now.” I said this as I was on top of her holding her down and she was naked. She laughed really hard at this and then bit my neck until I let go, ouch!
She told me she doesn’t like it when guys feel her up from down there. That doesn’t make sense to me. I think it’s because of something that happened with her ex-boyfriend, oh well. Every time she brought up something negative I just ignored it. But I did ask her if she liked it if guys fingered her or ate her out. She said “No, I just like to have sex, that’s all.” I asked if she liked giving handjobs. She repeated her answer except she reworded it.
If she likes sex so much then why LMR? A little later on as we were just holding each other she asked me “Wind, what do you want out of tonight?” I said “What?” I heard her, I just have a habit of making people repeat themselves. She repeated herself and I said “I just want to enjoy tonight, that’s all.” She asked “Yeah, but what do you want to happen?” I said “Would you get mad at me if I said I want to fuck you?” I’m sure that was a bad thing to verbalize. She said “No.. Would you get mad if I said I wasn’t going to tonight?” I said “No.”
I believe I asked her “Why?” and she said “Because you’re a really cool guy, and I like you, so we shouldn’t rush this.” I didn’t really understand that statement and I still don’t. She also said “Because you’re so different than other guys.” I asked her to elaborate and she just repeated her statement. I still don’t understand what that meant!
Should have disengaged her logic asap. Just continued making out and feeling each other’s bodies basically. While I was behind her holding her and just caressing her lower body, she’d pull my hand away when it was between her legs but she really liked it when I caressed her legs. I mentioned my handcuffs. She said “Ooh, you should go get them and put them on me so I can’t do anything.” I asked “Really?” Then she said “Wait, no, let’s save that for another night!” Hmm..
Ended up holding her for the rest of the night basically. With my arm around hers and just kissing each other. Cuddling I guess you could call it. It was pretty nice. I also enjoyed it as I am genuinely attracted to her physically. We talked briefly too. One thing that really caught me off guard was “Hey, if you think I’m so sexy and you felt this way about me, then how come you didn’t say it at first?” I said “Um.. I didn’t feel like it.” Then she said “And how come you were such an ass hole to me?” I didn’t know I was an ass hole to her, I think I said “Cause I do what I want” or something as a joke response.
Some more stuff happened but I don’t recall it all and the chronological order of it all is a bit hazy. I held her while we lied in my room in the dark. She fell asleep in my arms and I laid there for a while. I was on the edge of my bed, so I couldn’t sleep. I left the room to do some random stuff and got on my computer. Came back and laid with her again. It was the morning a little later so I took a shower and came back, she woke up by then but was really tired.
The night before she kept saying she wasn’t staying and she was going home soon, but never did. She lied down in my bed and I kissed her again. Then I got dressed and just lead her on her way home. She is horrible with directions! She got lost on the way I was trying to lead her, lol wtf! Once we got outside my house in the morning she hugged me when I wasn’t paying attention and said “Bye Wind, I’m going to miss you!”
*The*End*.
It was a pretty good night all in all. Never actually SLEPT with a girl before, or had a naked girl in my bed, lol. Or in my room for that matter. It was an amazing feeling. Also that I didn’t have to fake anything or pretending to be something I wasn’t. And I didn’t have to lie either.
Learned a lot from that experience though, a few months ago I probably would have been pouting and angry had she refused or slowed down the escalation the way she did. But this night I was relaxed and somehow I just knew I could push it further.
She’s still hitting me up, she told me 3 times she’s “leaving tomorrow.” I think she is trying to create a sense of urgency but I don’t know why. She won’t have sex so she just wants to repeat what happened this night? So confusing!
*Questions*.
- My bed is big enough for 2 people, but she slept in the middle of the bed leaving me little room, do I just wake her up or do I shove her over while she’s asleep? Lol. Seriously, this is a real question. I got almost no sleep because I had no room on the bed.
- How could I have gotten over the LMR? I have 2 options in mind.
1. Just physically escalate further, finger her, eat her out, put her hand on my dick, instead of waiting for “permission.”
2. Just put a condom on and go to fuck her, she’ll stop me if I put a condom on anyways.
- Is joking around too much or using too much role play like I did, a bad thing?
- Any other words of advice to throw in would be good.
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As an extra mention I’m pretty sexually inexperienced. This happened very smoothly but LMR stopped me this time.
