Raqimus said:
I don't think this is a something that a beginner can do or should do rather. I feel like that goal state is for men who are already quite experienced with women and as a beginner we need that initial experience with women who play the games and shit to get the experience to reach this "goal state" if that makes any sense.
Well, I certainly had to go through my rocky journey to arrive here...can't argue that! It is nice when you finally "get it" and you're like "oh, none of that stuff actually matters" after a while. The real key to is, I think, is that I am super excited about many other things in life besides pick-up and upon prioritizing them, realized how much more rewarding certain things are for me than getting laid. Still love to get laid and do it all the time--but it's like an afterthought, a fun naked vacation from the real work of my life.
Guys that start from that place will have an advantage, as I did not start from there at all, and was completely consumed by women and pick up for years. I hope everyone can arrive at this state, and that I can maintain it long-term, because all it really is, is keeping all my personal power to myself--which amplifies it enormously.