Met, instantly hit it off, slept together. Planned a date a few days later, where she said because she is new in town and we have many of the same friends, would be best to ‘not have any sexual or romantic context for now’ because she doesn’t want to risk any drama or losing the great friends she has recently made as she is just starting to build her new life here.
She seems very confident in general, but also shy and uncertain in ways. She says she had a great time on the date, but it felt a bit off to me. We had a fun time but not the same lighthearted (and physical/sexual) vibe from the first encounter. She told me she suffers from anxiety, has past trauma, and can excessively worry about stuff (she even admitted she may be overthinking things with me). She actually asked if she could stay over after the date but unfortunately logistics made it impossible.
I think she is uncertain about what she wants and is still weighing me up? The sex was incredible and I made sure she orgasmed at least twice. She messages 2-3 times per day though the vibe feels a bit stale recently compared to our first two encounters. It is just hard to gauge where she is at.
She seems very confident in general, but also shy and uncertain in ways. She says she had a great time on the date, but it felt a bit off to me. We had a fun time but not the same lighthearted (and physical/sexual) vibe from the first encounter. She told me she suffers from anxiety, has past trauma, and can excessively worry about stuff (she even admitted she may be overthinking things with me). She actually asked if she could stay over after the date but unfortunately logistics made it impossible.
I think she is uncertain about what she wants and is still weighing me up? The sex was incredible and I made sure she orgasmed at least twice. She messages 2-3 times per day though the vibe feels a bit stale recently compared to our first two encounters. It is just hard to gauge where she is at.