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nordic american girl

Swati

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Nordic American girl, 6' model height, around 8-8.5

on the App we match, chatted back and front with her for a couple of days and managed to get her out

At first, she saw that I was a tourist in the town, and she wanted to decline to meet me because I'm not a local. But later on, I double-texted, saying that we could have some memories together and I was here for another week.

she replied was pretty enthusiastic, saying I'd convinced her to come over.

"I have to make sure you are not a murderer blah blah, let's meet for pizza, etc"

I respond

"hahaha sure, we could meet downstairs and get some food"

She came, we met, it was super casual, we got pizza, I pay, ate at a place where it's closed but managed to finish our food and drink, and then walked back to my place. she proposed to go before I did. so we just casually went back into my hotel. within 5 minutes I pull her to sit on my lap, I go to escalate she stops me,

"we're not having sex, are you ok with that?"

"It's fine, you don't have to do anything you don't want"

we watch the movie

this movie is called "Serbian Flim" and is a rated NC-17 movie because they have explicit sexual content and gore, etc.... is not for the faint of hearts, if you decide to watch.

the film sets a lite sexual frame to it, but the gore and graphic is able to create PTSD, not seductive at all i must say. I don't know if that's the case where it screw me up with the escalation.

Anyway, I should have escalated during the movie when it was playing the boring parts, but I was not feeling super excited. The movie was like 2 hours, the girl had to go after the 3-hour mark cause of parking. when the movie finished I tried to escalate again, she kissed back with a deny for escalation type of style of pause. or maybe i'm looking tired, having slept 6 hours.

when I left she gave me one of those one-arm hugs, I knew something was off.

any thoughts on this?
 
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funkyjam

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Maybe the horror movie killed the vibe? I just googled it - "An aging porn star agrees to participate in an art film in order to make a clean break from the business, only to discover that he has been drafted into making a pedophilia and necrophilia-themed snuff film." May have hit a little too close too home.
 

Swati

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unfortunately, yeah that's what my other wings came to the conclusion of. fucking up my lay, Nordic girls tend to be more square and coming from a more safe environments.
 

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Maybe the horror movie killed the vibe? I just googled it - "An aging porn star agrees to participate in an art film in order to make a clean break from the business, only to discover that he has been drafted into making a pedophilia and necrophilia-themed snuff film." May have hit a little too close too home.

lol, that's gotta do weird things for the vibe!

@Swati, next time just go through the top 10 classics and find one she hasn't seen yet... then watch that one together:


  1. The Conjuring
  2. Halloween
  3. Scream
  4. A Nightmare on Elm Street
  5. Friday the 13th
  6. The Shining
  7. Sinister
  8. The Cabin in the Woods
  9. The Ring
  10. The Texas Chainsaw Massacre

Or use It Follows... such a great creepy horror film, with sex as a constant undercurrent... you can even joke with her that you've got something you want to pass along (lol).

Chase
 

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Purely coincidentally, but I'm diving through some extra research on arousal ATM for the arousal chapter I'm writing for my romantic attraction book.

Per the 2005 study "The impact of anxiety on sexual arousal in women":

Results suggested a curvilinear relationship between state anxiety and physiological sexual arousal (vaginal pulse amplitude; VPA). Trait anxiety and anxiety sensitivity were correlated with self-reported sexual arousal outside the laboratory.

Here's the chart from the research:

curvilinear-arousal.png

IOW, get her feeling moderately anxious, and her sexual arousal spikes.

TOTALLY FREAK HER OUT (like with necrophiliac pedophilia... lol) and that arousal is going right back down to baseline :LOL:

So yeah... classic horror films... not the indie weirdo ones made by directors who have some sort of sick fetish types :D

Then you're golden.

Chase
 

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this movie is called "Serbian Flim" and is a rated NC-17 movie because they have explicit sexual content and gore, etc.... is not for the faint of hearts, if you decide to watch.
OMG! 😆 you sir, are a daring man to watch A Serbian Film with any female, let alone one on a first date.

You had no clue of what it was going in did you? Poor girl.

One thing, if she fucked you after watching A Serbian Film, she’s a freak for sure. Probably one you should sleep with one eye open around. My god..

Ay kudos to you for trying something different. It was definitely the movie..

Had it been a more normal one, you’d’ve likely sealed the deal.
 

Swati

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SMH missing a hot girl like this is so disappointing. but whatever I'll find another one 🫠😶‍🌫️

DONT WATCH THE SRPSKI FILM
 

Skills

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The whole point of watching at home is to escalate to sex, this how I do movies:

-romantic comedies

Nothing else, everything else low odds... Unless already dating...

I don't touch or escalate for a bit 5 to 10 minutes cause she has anxiety about sex...

Then I start micro escalation via massage, then I say, you are tense and focus on regular massage for 10 to 20 minutes without trying anything goal is relaxation and killing anxiety... little by little I transition to more erotic super brief, back to normal till my last move dick inside..

P.s. more powerful is 3 bounce cause when back home she is ready, no need for anything...
 

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I agree with @Skills, rom-coms are both great and reliable. Wedding Crashers is my favorite to put on. There is a montage about 10 minutes in of all these topless girls getting thrown into bed for hookups that I find great for setting the right mood at the opportune time.
 
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