Draw Orgasms Up Your Spine For Self Mastery, Well Being, And Pleasure I have been receiving a number of questions regarding the cultivation and circulation of sexual energy in the body, so I have decided to make this post in hopes that it can serve as a practical primer on the subject, and...
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A common misconception about sexual kung fu is that you never ejaculate. This is false. For one, never ejaculating is not good for your health. Instead the idea is that you learn to confront the sexual impulse, refine/redefine your relationship with it, and manage your drive in a balanced, dynamic, and multidimensional manner. Which includes blowing a nice be load from time to time (if not semi frequently for balance and good health)
Yes if you're having a ton of sex (especially with multiple partners) it becomes far trickier to manage, but it is not impossible. Especially the better you get with the big draw method (as outlined in that post I linked above). The more proficient you get with those sexual management techniques, the easier they are applied in real time, and integrated into your life regardless of circumstances.
That said, if you want to become proficient with semen retention it is recommended you have a training period where you abstain. To allow yourself to explore the techniques and build a foundation.
Really it is a life long practice, and there will be fluctuation in how you approach it. With periods of focused discipline (with or without a partner) and periods of abandon. The more you integrate the practice in your life the simpler it will be to find a balance.
It's all tradeoffs. If you are having a very sexually active lifestyle, you will be trading off a more simple approach to the discipline, but will have more opportunity to practice with a partner, or just enjoy some hedonic abandon.
As for women being upset you don't come for them. I have found that it only makes them want you more. Up to a certain point that is.
If you explain to them the practice, and demonstrate your ability to maintain sexual vigor without ejaculating. They are fascinated and impressed. While at the same time wanting to make you cum badly. If you frame the interaction in a manner where you are inviting them into that world and practice, and give them solid aftercare. They not only understand (I mean how much sex do women have where they don't cum?) they will chase you for more, chase making you cum. That said, past a certain point, save for the girls who are devotees of sexual kung fu themselves (and even them), they will begin to wonder why you wont give it up (and maybe even take it a little personal). So, when it makes sense, give her a load. Watch how special it makes her feel. You can even build it up "You've been so good to me lately, I've decide I'm gonna give you my load tonight".
Trickier to run this program on multiple women. And tricky to run it at all, seeing as it is really hard not to orgasm when you are having amazing sex. If you have a partner who understands and is practicing as well it is definitely a lot simpler, than say some girl who doesn't give a flying fuck about your practice (she'll probably understand too though, as long as you fuck her well).
But like I say, practice the methods and increase your proficiency.
So the short answer to your question is both yes and no. That's just the yin and yang of it all. Find balance.
Also want to note that since you are not getting laid all that much right now, it might be the perfect time to learn some of the practices. Definitely trickier to stay disciplined when girls be knocking down your door. Capitalize on the opportunity while you have it.
