One of my more direct plays, language barrier sometimes nullifies my more advanced verbal's unless using google translate so i switched to more grandmaster to handle Emotional stim and Sexual arousal + after a break this the style I tend to be more relaxed with and naturalised with minimal thought.
not sure if I had enough social frame here... so many frame grabs
Am curious how you guys view this... have my personal assessment at the end and have talked it over a bit with @Marcellus
Start of Report
NG, Lounge Event
Got to the event as it was heating up, got stuck on public transport for ages cause public transport here has an issue like every 2 - 3 weeks...
But after warming up a bit talked with some friends I ended up seeing a mutual from a party the other week and i ended up getting introduced to their class at this event and after a game of cards in this lounge and a bunch of people leaving (IG closed one) there was a few people left
Open
I ended up talking to this girl after talking with her friend for a bit
they apparently knew me from before (turns out I hit on her friend like 2 weeks ago direct in same bar/ event...)
so i start talking to the hot one (HB-Aura) in a mix of english and spanish to set the social frame a bit better, the usual what your name, what do you do etc
get her to move over a bit so i can move closer as well so i can talk easier
Hook?
it eventually comes up she's unemployed at the moment and I use that to transition into more banter sexual topics based off some quote about no one calling her back... something about not giving out her number properly (memory is hazy here)
eventually comes up she's engaged
at the time I'm like well shit
(am thinking this chick is 18 and engaged... probs BS, will continue to play)
it also comes up her engaged is super young
I manage a transition into her being admitting to being a cougar and we talk a bit how it's not age that counts but the chemistry between two people that matters (good frame)
afterwards she asks my age (I just answer straight up) since shes close to mine
I end up getting thrown frame grabs as we talk about her life here and why she left her home country to be here
and got her to teach me spanish swear words, she mentioned something about my vibe and star signs as well
I brought up Spanish Pillow talk to attempt to hit that SA key (could have done this smoother) in which she says she does it silently when i'm asking about complements in the bedroom like complementing a woman's ass she calls it weird, i say she must have shit sex...
and say something regards to passion and how when your with someone you admire all of them
After my statement above i just get barraged with the frame grabs listed below, the first 4 in what felt like quick succession then the rest I've listed just as we talked about being here, this lets me capitalise on passing those tests...
Random frame grabs
Not committing to the Pull...
I think i botch my pull opportunity as well
at some point i think it comes up where we live (I live fucking ages away), she's like im 35 min out (needed to pay more attention here)
she mentions where she lives and mentions she has roommates
comes up where I'm from (far...)
(think mainly decent responses to those tests is what assisted with the set up here)
this while I keep making jokes about her wanting to bang throughout talking, also chucked in some light teases about her english sucking to ensure Emotional stim was in place didn't want to go overboard but lost focus on my social key here (likely needed more similarity here)
Some of the Sexual/ Chase Frames (ES/SA combo) used
also had some super basic qualification in there
qualified on her personality
"your bad... but your fun" (used this more than once with different wording so... need to come up with more, another way i dont think i had SF handled...)
Final movements
unfortunately due to missing closes i don't get much of this set
i used cold reads on her for immersion
being from a well off family (leads to talking a bit about how i know that, and how she tries to hide it)
to immerse but eventually lose it when 3 including her leave for bathroom
I just chat to her female friend who is hung around about Latin America and how she knows the others...
then they come back where i use the cold read of what she was like in HS (troublemaker) (flows well when i lead it into more SF stuff here) re-immerse a bit and lose it again, think I just had no idea what to say at point...
the other 2 gals leave
making this just me and the HB and her friend
think they asked how long I'd hang around here (escalation window?/ Missed Pull? (still 2 set))
then she starts speaking to her lesbian friend later on in high level Spanish...
I end up shortly ejecting after that, as my spanish is too limited to jump into that convo and I wasn't getting much out it felt more closed off after i returned with my drink
(in retrospect this probably occurred due to lack of moving the interaction forward and my loss of steam, needed to pull or bring something else to convo, instead of just ejecting.)
I end up engaging other sets for a bit before talking to another set (HB Flag)
but as i walk up to engage this one HB Aura assumes im headed back to talk to her but i end up with the walking out the building for a bit
(probs led to that frame grab later)
the last i see her when i come back into the bar after finishing that convo i see her solo by by a table, waiting on her friend
we talk shortly
she also thought i was drunk earlier (cos of my directness) (maybe a sign of lack of calibration?)
then her and her lesbian friend left
ended up leaving a bit after they left
had a short text convo as i was walking to station
random social frame issue that came up mid convo when grabbing socials (before Ejection, mid convo with frame grabs)
I remember seeding that we'd hang out and that I could learn more spanish with her and i insinuated causal stuff through direct sex jokes i don't really remember
Conclusion (my personal thoughts on this set/ Main issue i think)
not sure if I had enough social frame here... so many frame grabs
Am curious how you guys view this... have my personal assessment at the end and have talked it over a bit with @Marcellus
Start of Report
NG, Lounge Event
Got to the event as it was heating up, got stuck on public transport for ages cause public transport here has an issue like every 2 - 3 weeks...
But after warming up a bit talked with some friends I ended up seeing a mutual from a party the other week and i ended up getting introduced to their class at this event and after a game of cards in this lounge and a bunch of people leaving (IG closed one) there was a few people left
Open
I ended up talking to this girl after talking with her friend for a bit
they apparently knew me from before (turns out I hit on her friend like 2 weeks ago direct in same bar/ event...)
so i start talking to the hot one (HB-Aura) in a mix of english and spanish to set the social frame a bit better, the usual what your name, what do you do etc
get her to move over a bit so i can move closer as well so i can talk easier
Hook?
it eventually comes up she's unemployed at the moment and I use that to transition into more banter sexual topics based off some quote about no one calling her back... something about not giving out her number properly (memory is hazy here)
eventually comes up she's engaged
at the time I'm like well shit
(am thinking this chick is 18 and engaged... probs BS, will continue to play)
it also comes up her engaged is super young
I manage a transition into her being admitting to being a cougar and we talk a bit how it's not age that counts but the chemistry between two people that matters (good frame)
afterwards she asks my age (I just answer straight up) since shes close to mine
I end up getting thrown frame grabs as we talk about her life here and why she left her home country to be here
and got her to teach me spanish swear words, she mentioned something about my vibe and star signs as well
I brought up Spanish Pillow talk to attempt to hit that SA key (could have done this smoother) in which she says she does it silently when i'm asking about complements in the bedroom like complementing a woman's ass she calls it weird, i say she must have shit sex...
and say something regards to passion and how when your with someone you admire all of them
After my statement above i just get barraged with the frame grabs listed below, the first 4 in what felt like quick succession then the rest I've listed just as we talked about being here, this lets me capitalise on passing those tests...
Random frame grabs
Not committing to the Pull...
I think i botch my pull opportunity as well
at some point i think it comes up where we live (I live fucking ages away), she's like im 35 min out (needed to pay more attention here)
she mentions where she lives and mentions she has roommates
comes up where I'm from (far...)
(think mainly decent responses to those tests is what assisted with the set up here)
this while I keep making jokes about her wanting to bang throughout talking, also chucked in some light teases about her english sucking to ensure Emotional stim was in place didn't want to go overboard but lost focus on my social key here (likely needed more similarity here)
Some of the Sexual/ Chase Frames (ES/SA combo) used
also had some super basic qualification in there
qualified on her personality
"your bad... but your fun" (used this more than once with different wording so... need to come up with more, another way i dont think i had SF handled...)
Final movements
unfortunately due to missing closes i don't get much of this set
i used cold reads on her for immersion
being from a well off family (leads to talking a bit about how i know that, and how she tries to hide it)
to immerse but eventually lose it when 3 including her leave for bathroom
I just chat to her female friend who is hung around about Latin America and how she knows the others...
then they come back where i use the cold read of what she was like in HS (troublemaker) (flows well when i lead it into more SF stuff here) re-immerse a bit and lose it again, think I just had no idea what to say at point...
the other 2 gals leave
making this just me and the HB and her friend
think they asked how long I'd hang around here (escalation window?/ Missed Pull? (still 2 set))
then she starts speaking to her lesbian friend later on in high level Spanish...
I end up shortly ejecting after that, as my spanish is too limited to jump into that convo and I wasn't getting much out it felt more closed off after i returned with my drink
(in retrospect this probably occurred due to lack of moving the interaction forward and my loss of steam, needed to pull or bring something else to convo, instead of just ejecting.)
I end up engaging other sets for a bit before talking to another set (HB Flag)
but as i walk up to engage this one HB Aura assumes im headed back to talk to her but i end up with the walking out the building for a bit
(probs led to that frame grab later)
the last i see her when i come back into the bar after finishing that convo i see her solo by by a table, waiting on her friend
we talk shortly
she also thought i was drunk earlier (cos of my directness) (maybe a sign of lack of calibration?)
then her and her lesbian friend left
ended up leaving a bit after they left
had a short text convo as i was walking to station
my icebreaker (cool to meet u)
haha
what are u doing?
headed to station
wyd?
good
what?
left it until next day/ busy trying to reach station (+ need my data for the map)
got home safe lol
how was the party?
happy for you
i didnt go
tired?
going to a friend's party later
(dead text lead rn)
what are u doing?
headed to station
wyd?
good
what?
left it until next day/ busy trying to reach station (+ need my data for the map)
got home safe lol
how was the party?
happy for you
i didnt go
tired?
going to a friend's party later
(dead text lead rn)
random social frame issue that came up mid convo when grabbing socials (before Ejection, mid convo with frame grabs)
add me on insta cos my phone data isn't working
(me)
she looks on my phone...
u have wifi (her)
yeah but it doesnt work
your such a fucking liar
shut the fuck up bitch add me
okay but u better add me back
(figured i had to hold frame here, usually my phone signal and data never works until this moment... talk about luck)
she looks on my phone...
u have wifi (her)
yeah but it doesnt work
your such a fucking liar
shut the fuck up bitch add me
okay but u better add me back
(figured i had to hold frame here, usually my phone signal and data never works until this moment... talk about luck)
I remember seeding that we'd hang out and that I could learn more spanish with her and i insinuated causal stuff through direct sex jokes i don't really remember
Conclusion (my personal thoughts on this set/ Main issue i think)
besides rough target selection... but we go for what we want.
at first i figured maybe i couldn't get past the bf/ fiance issue but i was using direct pretty strong and she wasn't leaving until i messed up my 3 keys at the end
also remember Hector saying something about when your hyperdirect and they dont leave you take it as a positive and push forward
Main issues I believe
Was not closing/ Committing to the close, i had some SF (played with class earlier also as flirting with her friend in front of her), ES (chase frames, cold reads), SA (sexual direct frames) in place however didn't escalate compliance beyond food and some base touch
i did ask where she lived (35 min away)
said she should show me around but dont remember pushing after this, i keep switching topics to blur interaction.
think the only thing i could have done here is escalate compliance with...
a move? (not likely with presence of friends)
her place (again her friends but we need to play to win...)
Honestly it reminds me of something my coach used to say when I played sport
same application here, shooters shoot
TDLR: Need to commit to the target and shoot, pull to theirs, hotel or in public, do what it takes to score.
Lack of focus on the social frame side (Similarity)
I should have talked more on star signs and her life
As i talked a bit about her but not super deep, a lot of this came up as I think she needed more of that deep dive connection vibe as this was largely Emotional stimulation and Sexual arousal charged (overfocus on banter, need similarity)
It's vital to remember it's 3 Keys, knock one out and the 3 legged chair falls over.
at first i figured maybe i couldn't get past the bf/ fiance issue but i was using direct pretty strong and she wasn't leaving until i messed up my 3 keys at the end
also remember Hector saying something about when your hyperdirect and they dont leave you take it as a positive and push forward
Main issues I believe
Was not closing/ Committing to the close, i had some SF (played with class earlier also as flirting with her friend in front of her), ES (chase frames, cold reads), SA (sexual direct frames) in place however didn't escalate compliance beyond food and some base touch
i did ask where she lived (35 min away)
said she should show me around but dont remember pushing after this, i keep switching topics to blur interaction.
think the only thing i could have done here is escalate compliance with...
a move? (not likely with presence of friends)
her place (again her friends but we need to play to win...)
Honestly it reminds me of something my coach used to say when I played sport
same application here, shooters shoot
TDLR: Need to commit to the target and shoot, pull to theirs, hotel or in public, do what it takes to score.
Lack of focus on the social frame side (Similarity)
I should have talked more on star signs and her life
As i talked a bit about her but not super deep, a lot of this came up as I think she needed more of that deep dive connection vibe as this was largely Emotional stimulation and Sexual arousal charged (overfocus on banter, need similarity)
It's vital to remember it's 3 Keys, knock one out and the 3 legged chair falls over.
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