Zac-
ZacAdam said:
I am confuse here, Chase.
I mean if you drive Ferrari's or Porche's, wouldn't women want to put you in a provider role? or rather it's a house and bank account you mean that don't show it or at least provide too much value. Yea i know the cars exude cools and stuff.
Maybe a $2000 shirt will be fine, but don't show her everything like houses and bank account?
Zac
I think what's happening here is that women are differentiating between guys with money who look like good providers, and guys with money whom it's clear are NOT going to be providers.
e.g., a guy roles up in a Bentley... yes, potential provider! Along these lines, when I owned a Mercedes, I used to never let women see this until after we'd been sleeping together a while too.
However, a guy roles up in a super flashy car (e.g., a Ferrari)... he doesn't exactly seem like provider potential. Ferraris and Lamborghinis have "I just want to sleep with you" writ on them in big, bold letters. Porsche's I wouldn't put quite in the same category... they're more a middle-aged man's car when he's going through his midlife crisis than they are a man who's conspicuously consuming and going big's car.
The same can be true about other flashy things, like bottle service in clubs, expensive jewelry, etc. A man who's a good provider doesn't buy these things. He saves his money to invest in his woman and his children. I've had friends whose entire approach to seduction was going out to nightclubs, buying bottles of champagne, getting extra glasses, filling them up, hanging at the bar in a choice location, and offering drinks to women who happened to walk by (and I can attest to the method's effectiveness... I've done it with them and pulled, although it's a little too rich for my blood to be something I'd do on my own - and of course, you still need to be charming and be able to talk to women well, providing them with alcohol is only a boost, not the whole process).
A nice residence is usually going to reduce your ability to take girls to bed, UNLESS you take yourself out of boyfriend territory before they see it. Once you've accomplished that though, a nice residence actually enhances your odds of taking girls to bed. I've found that having a great-looking place (even if it's a small studio, you can get one that's beautiful and modern and attractive and warm-feeling) and combining that with being decidedly
out of boyfriend territory makes for a very solid combination for getting very quickly to intimacy.
Chase
