How do you spot a woman that's an escort?

[kinsej9010]

Sup guys,

I've got a question about spotting women who work as escorts as a living as I don't want to be involved with them. I recently went out to a higher end nightclub with some friends to celebrate my buddy's birthday. While enjoying myself, I saw a woman who was dressed very classy, obviously keeps in shape, good convo. Anyway, long story short we exchanged instagrams and had to go with my buddy for another party.

Later on as I'm looking through her instagram with my buddy, I noticed she has an 'onlyfans' link. Her followings also involved some celebrities from local scenes and she also had pictures around some big name celebrities. My buddy stated she might be a 'high class escort', which I wasn't sure I knew what he meant.

Another scenario is meeting a woman who seemed classy. She was draped in all designer clothes/bag, etc. After talking I did come to find out that she was an escort. (She told me directly).

And there are other few instances like this that made me curious.

How can I find out if a girl I'm talking to may be a higher end escort? Obviously, the lower ones ask for money for sex, etc which I'm not willing to do. But I want to know how to spot a woman who may be an escort or stripper for living so that I can avoid em. (Personally not my preference)

Any tips?

 

[Surveyor]

Funny enough, I was just thinking about adding the following possibly on-topic incident to my journal:

Around 1 am, I went (by bike) to the nearest 7-11 some distance away. On the way back, I sped (that is, 20 mph “supercruise”) past a parked silver Ferrari convertible with a petite blonde just chilling (not on her phone as far as I could see) in the driver’s seat. It didn’t look like she was actually the owner or driver.
This happened on a deserted residential boulevard-let in a generic middle-class neighborhood that doesn’t have any demographic (age or ethnicity) features that might correlate.
I almost stopped for a friendly/curious approach, but this was at 20 mph “supercruise” and I didn’t think it was worth turning around for. Although I doubt the late hour would have been a factor, because she was in someone’s Ferrari (am I projecting how I’d feel?) and more importantly I would probably have been giving off kind of boyish vibes (on a mountain bike with a fancy helmet, a backpack, and a random peacocky blue shirt and khaki shorts that I threw on for comfort).


I honestly don’t really know what to make of the incident. I’m reminded of the time I visited the Beverly Hills branch of my bank and some 50s-60s black dude withdrew tens of thousands in cash while default-flirting with the teller (as my little brother told me, there are pretty much only two reasons for large cash transactions: drugs and high-end hookers).

 

[Surveyor]

As @Swati said in chat this isn’t much of an issue. You can generally tell if the girl you’re approaching an escort.

BUT.

In a place like California (where I’m at),
there are two main ways a young guy might meet current or former escorts in the general population. The stereotype he mentioned of 30-something Russians asking for compliance is irrelevant.

1) As far as I’ve been informed, the main demographic providing call girls in NA is actually college students wanting/needing easy money (typically generic humanities majors), who usually leave the industry before hitting 100 clients once the psychological toll hits.
2) Literal influencer hoes are usually not even that hot, and might be open to a decent lover to supplement their sugar daddy(ies).

If that bothers you, you can screen for both types. The second is easier than the first obviously.

Also, read the GC article about women’s forgotten sexual past (basically if you want honesty, be completely non-judgmental and a lover archetype).

 

[Teevster]

You can't. Most hot girls have done some form of escorting at least once. Get over it.

-Teevster

 

[ulrich]

Escorts and service girls have obvious surgery and they act all seductive even when you give her no prompts.

I think it tends to be pretty obvious from the interaction.

 

[Skills]

Sup guys,

I've got a question about spotting women who work as escorts as a living as I don't want to be involved with them. I recently went out to a higher end nightclub with some friends to celebrate my buddy's birthday. While enjoying myself, I saw a woman who was dressed very classy, obviously keeps in shape, good convo. Anyway, long story short we exchanged instagrams and had to go with my buddy for another party.

Later on as I'm looking through her instagram with my buddy, I noticed she has an 'onlyfans' link. Her followings also involved some celebrities from local scenes and she also had pictures around some big name celebrities. My buddy stated she might be a 'high class escort', which I wasn't sure I knew what he meant.

Another scenario is meeting a woman who seemed classy. She was draped in all designer clothes/bag, etc. After talking I did come to find out that she was an escort. (She told me directly).

And there are other few instances like this that made me curious.

How can I find out if a girl I'm talking to may be a higher end escort? Obviously, the lower ones ask for money for sex, etc which I'm not willing to do. But I want to know how to spot a woman who may be an escort or stripper for living so that I can avoid em. (Personally not my preference)

Any tips?

because she has an onlyfan does not mean she is an escort, there are many seducers dating women with only fans that are not escorts.... Also, don't go for insta go for number, another reason why.... Finally, you should not care at all, go for the seduction process, this post smell to me like you have anxiety of gaming the girl cause you are intimidated by her insta.... Exactly why i say no to exchange insta.

 

[topcat]

Escorts and service girls have obvious surgery and they act all seductive even when you give her no prompts.

I think it tends to be pretty obvious from the interaction.

no this is not true at all. I have had relationships with girls that have escorted here and there, and they had no surgery, and though naturally seductive weren’t over the top with it.

You can’t tell. And will only know if she wants you to.

 

[ulrich]

no this is not true at all. I have had relationships with girls that have escorted here and there, and they had no surgery, and though naturally seductive weren’t over the top with it.

You can’t tell. And will only know if she wants you to.

Might be a local thing, perhaps.

All service girls look exactly the same where I live, lol
Fake boobs, heavy makeup… sometimes fake ass, wtf?

 

[topcat]

Might be a local thing, perhaps.

All service girls look exactly the same where I live, lol
Fake boobs, heavy makeup… sometimes fake ass, wtf?

Yeah surgeries aren’t my cup of tea either, but if you ever did some probing you might be surprised to find some of the plainer chicks were escorting too.

It is what it is.

 

[kinsej9010]

You can't. Most hot girls have done some form of escorting at least once. Get over it.

-Teevster

Nah. It's my preference.

And shoutout to my boy @Swati as well, hope youre okay my boy. Everyone has emotional days.

 

[Swati]

Nah, I don't wanna get 'over it'. It's my preference.

Shoutout to my boy @Swati as well, hope youre okay going through your period.

I understand you miss me, crying my name for notoriety. you that little whining ass little cuck from south east asia that can't get laid, venting virgin problems on the chat. lol time for you to pay a few bahns to get on that tranny train, since you can't get real girls.

*skilledseducer/ girlschase does not advocate prostitution, people here are skilled in seduction unlike you. maybe you should look elsewhere

 

[kinsej9010]

I understand you miss me, crying my name for notoriety. you that little whining ass little cuck from south east asia that can't get laid, venting virgin problems on the chat. lol time for you to pay a few bahns to get on that tranny train, since you can't get real girls.

*skilledseducer/ girlschase does not advocate prostitution, people here are skilled in seduction unlike you. maybe you should look elsewhere

Love you too my lady

 

[Chase]

@kinsej9010,

Some are going to be obvious. Some are not. Like @topcat notes there are plenty of Plain Janes doing OnlyFans, on sugar dating sites, being Insta-whores, doing escorting, etc. You often can't know from looking at her.

If you want to know, be non-judgmental in how you deal with girls and inquire a bit post-sex while doing passive screening early on in the relationship if you keep seeing them. If it's in her past it's usually going to come up in the first month or two unless she's really trying to bury it.

Often though they will float it early on because girls in these professions just don't want to deal with "the Big Reveal" and have to worry about dealing with guys who aren't fine with it. Lots of guys are fine with this stuff, lots of other guys aren't; these chicks figure that out quick and try to put it out there enough that they avoid messy/uncomfortable situations with the latter.

The ones who are going more stealth you just have to sniff out on your own by being chill and non-judgmental and asking questions as you get into seeing them more. IME the "stealth mode" call girls are either younger chicks who just got into the game and don't know how to frame it right, or older call girls whose biological clock is ticking loudly, with a few bad failed relationships under their belts, who have decided you might make a good boyfriend and they want to conceal it from you until you're much more hooked. Being chill + asking pointed questions about suspect things is enough to get the young girls to open up about it, or to get the older chicks to indirectly out themselves by being overly evasive.

A lot of the standard stuff for screening out crazy girls and red flag girls will alert you to potential call girls too. So it's not like you need a separate approach, if you're already screening for girls who are higher risk.

Chase

 

[Teevster]

Nah. It's my preference.

So, what exactly is the issue here? I fail to understand this post

-Teevster

 

[Surveyor]

You can't. Most hot girls have done some form of escorting at least once. Get over it.

Mind defining your terms?
Also what geographical area are you suggesting this holds for?

 

[Teevster]

Mind defining your terms?
Also what geographical area are you suggesting this holds for?

Most hot girls will do something related to only fans, and at least once in their life exchange money for sexual services. It is more the norm than the exception. I am referring to Western Europe - mostly the big cities.

-Teevster

 

[kinsej9010]

The ones who are going more stealth you just have to sniff out on your own by being chill and non-judgmental and asking questions as you get into seeing them more. IME the "stealth mode" call girls are either younger chicks who just got into the game and don't know how to frame it right, or older call girls whose biological clock is ticking loudly, with a few bad failed relationships under their belts, who have decided you might make a good boyfriend and they want to conceal it from you until you're much more hooked. Being chill + asking pointed questions about suspect things is enough to get the young girls to open up about it, or to get the older chicks to indirectly out themselves by being overly evasive.

youre the man chase!

 

[kinsej9010]

So, what exactly is the issue here? I fail to understand this post

-Teevster

Yes.

 

[BIGGUS DICKUS: PUSSY MAN]

I’ve got a funny story about escorts:

One time I was approaching in one of the grimier parts of the city. And I see this thick black chick sitting on a bench

I sit down and open

She starts talking about having fun and a good time, and I’m intrigued because usually women don’t imply sex so early on. And bc of her nonverbals I could tell she wasn’t just talking innocent kind of fun

Then she mentions me giving her something in return, and now I’m really suspicious

Now she’s the one trying to sell me something, and her vibe is so warm and nonjudgmental but I can tell it’s all a fucking fake facade

But godamn I could picture her drawing in clueless men with this siren song

I left shortly after I figured out she was a street hooker

And it’s kinda funny, later on in the day I walked by her when I walking to my car and I heard her cussing out this guy over the phone very loudly

Funny how she can 360 when she turns off her charm

Nasty woman but damn her butt was big

 

[RedNeck]

I’ve got a funny story about escorts:

One time I was approaching in one of the grimier parts of the city. And I see this thick black chick sitting on a bench

I sit down and open

She starts talking about having fun and a good time, and I’m intrigued because usually women don’t imply sex so early on. And bc of her nonverbals I could tell she wasn’t just talking innocent kind of fun

Then she mentions me giving her something in return, and now I’m really suspicious

Now she’s the one trying to sell me something, and her vibe is so warm and nonjudgmental but I can tell it’s all a fucking fake facade

But godamn I could picture her drawing in clueless men with this siren song

I left shortly after I figured out she was a street hooker

And it’s kinda funny, later on in the day I walked by her when I walking to my car and I heard her cussing out this guy over the phone very loudly

Funny how she can 360 when she turns off her charm

Nasty woman but damn her butt was big

"Funny how she can 360 when she turns off her charm"
It should be 180, not 360. 360 means she is back in her original place. haha JK
Nerdy comment haha