Dr.X's journal II
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Next 3 outings (missing Saturday):
- Street: Fist bump to a girl in group of 3. She smile but turn it down.
- Grocery store: A girl comes across me. She probably likes my clothes. Then I chat with the staff and she comes across me again. Later on I comes near her when she is picking fruit, saying something about the fruit. She responds but then goes away.
- Beach: Talking with a lot of people (5+).
- Street: Fist bump to a girl in group of 3. She smile but turn it down.
- Grocery store: A girl comes across me. She probably likes my clothes. Then I chat with the staff and she comes across me again. Later on I comes near her when she is picking fruit, saying something about the fruit. She responds but then goes away.
- Beach: Talking with a lot of people (5+).
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Chase’s 30 days challenge - first 3 days:
12 girls, I first compliance point with one.
Grocery store, she is picking fruit, I come near and say something about the fruit, she looks at me, I ask what’s your name, doing a handshake.
She has gloves on, after the handshake she goes away.
How to get laid:
- Talk with everyone so I don’t need to warm up when come across a girl + raising my social baseline.
- Logistics: Going to her place. I have seen female roommates bring guys home before => possible but my sexual values must be high enough to justify doing so. Thus the point below:
- Fundamentals: Currently I’m applying grooming tips in Tony’s 15 grooming tips articles. Searching the Internet for more tips.
12 girls, I first compliance point with one.
Grocery store, she is picking fruit, I come near and say something about the fruit, she looks at me, I ask what’s your name, doing a handshake.
She has gloves on, after the handshake she goes away.
How to get laid:
- Talk with everyone so I don’t need to warm up when come across a girl + raising my social baseline.
- Logistics: Going to her place. I have seen female roommates bring guys home before => possible but my sexual values must be high enough to justify doing so. Thus the point below:
- Fundamentals: Currently I’m applying grooming tips in Tony’s 15 grooming tips articles. Searching the Internet for more tips.
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Next 2 days: I find a girl like me, complying with everything, living close by. However she has a dealbreaker so I don’t continue.
Next days will be finding a girl like that without the dealbreaker.
Other things:
- Porn: I quit porn for 2 weeks (one relapse last Saturday). Clearer mind, better decision making. To be precise it’s a combination of quitting porn, cold bath, and push-ups. I plan to continue. This year if I watch porn I’ll post it here.
- Fashion: I follow a few fashion recommendations around here. It works great so far.
- Social: Actively I also talk with people when going out pickup girls. Passively I sit in parks in my laptop and hearing what people talking.
Next days will be finding a girl like that without the dealbreaker.
Other things:
- Porn: I quit porn for 2 weeks (one relapse last Saturday). Clearer mind, better decision making. To be precise it’s a combination of quitting porn, cold bath, and push-ups. I plan to continue. This year if I watch porn I’ll post it here.
- Fashion: I follow a few fashion recommendations around here. It works great so far.
- Social: Actively I also talk with people when going out pickup girls. Passively I sit in parks in my laptop and hearing what people talking.
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Next 4 days: All approaches fail.
Girls complied with initial fist bump but no follow up.
Other things:
- Motivation: Since I quit porn and go nofap the internal motivation is back. Now I just go out and talk with people everyday easily.
- Social: Boring stage. Just going out and talk with people.
- Health: Strength increases a bit compared to last week. I’d go full home workout without the need to go to gym.
It’s not exactly bad. I believe in boring process but working.
Girls complied with initial fist bump but no follow up.
Other things:
- Motivation: Since I quit porn and go nofap the internal motivation is back. Now I just go out and talk with people everyday easily.
- Social: Boring stage. Just going out and talk with people.
- Health: Strength increases a bit compared to last week. I’d go full home workout without the need to go to gym.
It’s not exactly bad. I believe in boring process but working.
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Next 3 days: I identify that fashion is the problem.
Before: T-shirt, chill vibe.
After: Button down shirt, maroon color.
To be honest I feel like a try-hard ... but it works. Some girls are more testy (“Do I know you?”, “What did you say?”) which probably I should mirror, but there are girls giving me invitation, which I capture on.
Other things:
- Health: When I first quit porn I’m at 7 push-ups. After a week I’m at 12 push-ups. And today I’m at 17 push-ups.
Before: T-shirt, chill vibe.
After: Button down shirt, maroon color.
To be honest I feel like a try-hard ... but it works. Some girls are more testy (“Do I know you?”, “What did you say?”) which probably I should mirror, but there are girls giving me invitation, which I capture on.
Other things:
- Health: When I first quit porn I’m at 7 push-ups. After a week I’m at 12 push-ups. And today I’m at 17 push-ups.
There can be a lot of different reasons behind the tests, and I'll probably have to experience them myself in order to say with certainty why you get them. However, it seem like you aren't speaking loud enough and aren't getting to the point. If you don't set a sexual frame, she will not know why you are talking to her, hence the reaction you got.