I'll be honest, I'm not the best at keeping a dominant frame. In fact I'm usually too easy-going and when I decide to be dominant it's usually in a 'screw you this is what I'm doing, if you want to join good, if not that's cool too' kind of attitude.
I never really learned how to be dominant without being demanding, and particularly in the bedroom.
How do you start insinuating or getting BJ's and sex (what words do you use), and how do you instigate it in a dominant manner? What do you say or do?
I know I have to establish a dominant frame outside the bedroom too. My demeanor is protective, warm, and almost treat them too well - I do ensure I'm getting compliance throughout all this, and I'm fairly busy chasing some personal goals, which offsets some of this overly 'niceness' for now.
Thanks for the advice!
I never really learned how to be dominant without being demanding, and particularly in the bedroom.
How do you start insinuating or getting BJ's and sex (what words do you use), and how do you instigate it in a dominant manner? What do you say or do?
I know I have to establish a dominant frame outside the bedroom too. My demeanor is protective, warm, and almost treat them too well - I do ensure I'm getting compliance throughout all this, and I'm fairly busy chasing some personal goals, which offsets some of this overly 'niceness' for now.
Thanks for the advice!