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Originally posted in the first Girls Chase Forum on Friday, 17 September 2010
Quick post. Following a lay last night with a very high quality girl (conservative, beautiful, perfect body, good education & career, property owner), I got a buyer’s remorse text this morning where she was basically going into auto-rejection over the fast sex from last night. Background: this girl’s only been with I think one or two guys before, and never a foreigner. She was in a three year relationship that ended a year ago, and has been pretty consumed with work since then. She was very nervous around me and couldn’t even concentrate on what was on TV last night when I had her over at my place for dinner.
Here’s the text exchange and my thoughts:
First, I was amazed that she picked up on the word “gal” and used it in a text to me – she says she’s been learning a lot of English just from texting me. Clever girl.
Second, I was momentarily stumped. “Crap,” I thought. “I really like this girl. But I don’t want to capitulate too quickly and promise her anything. How do I turn this around?”
I finally sent this text:
I waited a few minutes, then read back over that text and realized it almost sounded like a “farewell” text, telling her I was glad for the time we spent together. So I sent her a follow-up:
She replied almost instantly to that one.
I set it up, and then she melted again:
If I had to guess the range of emotions she experienced over a twelve hour period, it looks like this:
All in all, think it’s played out very well for setting up a long-term relationship, which is what I’m looking at this girl for. She checks out on all the qualities and characteristics I look for, I moved quickly with her and dominated her and made her cum very hard many times the first night, shagged her twice, and she’s auto-investing quite a bit already. She’s also gone through the emotional range, hated me, then come back to loving me again, which bodes well for establishing a strong long-term bond. Happy with how this one’s proceeding.
Chase
Quick post. Following a lay last night with a very high quality girl (conservative, beautiful, perfect body, good education & career, property owner), I got a buyer’s remorse text this morning where she was basically going into auto-rejection over the fast sex from last night. Background: this girl’s only been with I think one or two guys before, and never a foreigner. She was in a three year relationship that ended a year ago, and has been pretty consumed with work since then. She was very nervous around me and couldn’t even concentrate on what was on TV last night when I had her over at my place for dinner.
Here’s the text exchange and my thoughts:
Architect said:Sorry for yesterday. I’m not ready for that. Seems too fast to me. I told you about Chinese girls. If you just want to find a gal for sex, I’m not you want. I want a real boyfriend who will marry me someday.
First, I was amazed that she picked up on the word “gal” and used it in a text to me – she says she’s been learning a lot of English just from texting me. Clever girl.
Second, I was momentarily stumped. “Crap,” I thought. “I really like this girl. But I don’t want to capitulate too quickly and promise her anything. How do I turn this around?”
I finally sent this text:
Chase said:Architect, good morning. Like I said… I am very picky! I am not just looking for sex – sex is something I really only enjoy with someone I care for. I like you a lot and am very glad we have spent the time together we have. I think you are a pretty amazing girl
I waited a few minutes, then read back over that text and realized it almost sounded like a “farewell” text, telling her I was glad for the time we spent together. So I sent her a follow-up:
Chase said:Let’s do something this weekend before you leave. We can meet at a restaurant if you don’t trust me
She replied almost instantly to that one.
Architect said:Ok. Maybe tomorrow night. I have class tomorrow. Are you free tomorrow?
I set it up, and then she melted again:
Chase said:Yes, I’m free. Let me know what time your class is finished and we can do something.
Architect said:It will finish at 4. Miss your eyes still. They look so soft.
Chase said:You will see them soon – but I like your eyes too… They are very shy eyes.
If I had to guess the range of emotions she experienced over a twelve hour period, it looks like this:
- Nervous: she was visibly EXTREMELY nervous at my place, filled with anticipation
- Excited: once I was fingering her with her panties off, her nervousness transitioned to excitement, because now she knew it was going to happen
- Blissful: after I shagged her for the second time and she had a boatload of very powerful orgasms, she was covering her mouth in bed to hide the huge smile on her face
- Embarrassed: the bliss didn’t last long, and she got dressed quickly. By the time we made it downstairs as I was walking her out, she didn’t want the other Chinese people to see us together and bade me good night
- Used: my instincts told me I should text her or call her last night, even though I usually wait until the following morning. My gut was probably right again in this case – she must’ve gone to bed feeling used, and woke up the next morning with it eating her up
- Resentful: by the time she texted me, she’d already made up her mind that all I wanted from her was sex and I had victimized her
- Relieved: my first text probably turned that all around and relieved her of ten or eleven hours of stressing out when I let her know that I liked her too and she wasn’t just another fuck to me
- Excited: my second text communicated to her that I wanted to see her before she leaves for work next week in another city, and then off to see her family for the holiday. I clearly want more than just a one-night stand
- Romanced: her last text tells me she’s allowing herself to fall for me again, attainability is restored, and she’s seeing my value once more – likely even HIGHER now, since I’ve taken her through a full range of emotions and to the point of auto-rejection and brought her back
All in all, think it’s played out very well for setting up a long-term relationship, which is what I’m looking at this girl for. She checks out on all the qualities and characteristics I look for, I moved quickly with her and dominated her and made her cum very hard many times the first night, shagged her twice, and she’s auto-investing quite a bit already. She’s also gone through the emotional range, hated me, then come back to loving me again, which bodes well for establishing a strong long-term bond. Happy with how this one’s proceeding.
Chase