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this is the number one indicator of how invested in you she is. when she stops complying she has lost at least some of her feelings for you. walk away first, even if it’s just a soft next.
Fuck This said:Keys next to you are no big deal..."it'll cost you a kiss"
naturalmikey said:Fuck This said:Keys next to you are no big deal..."it'll cost you a kiss"
this would have to be done very tongue in cheek. and then if she doesn't do it she's not complying. you want to build compliance ladders. a kiss is pretty close to the top of a compliance ladder. a chick isn't just going to comply to a kiss when she hasn't complied to anything else, especially if she's already put you in the frame of someone she can ask to do things for her.
without context this sounds terribly uncalibrated.
Fuck This said:naturalmikey said:Fuck This said:Keys next to you are no big deal..."it'll cost you a kiss"
this would have to be done very tongue in cheek. and then if she doesn't do it she's not complying. you want to build compliance ladders. a kiss is pretty close to the top of a compliance ladder. a chick isn't just going to comply to a kiss when she hasn't complied to anything else, especially if she's already put you in the frame of someone she can ask to do things for her.
without context this sounds terribly uncalibrated.
Well I kissed a woman I'd never met in person before 3.5 years ago and woke up with her this morning so your mileage may vary.
a woman won't leave her keys laying about if she feels uncomfortable or guarded about a man. The request to hand her her keys please is akin to "Please pass the salt" in my book. It is up to me as the man to set an effusive baseline and be ripe with physical affection in our interaction. I certainly wouldn't say it to a stranger, although the right one might just gobble it up . Suffice to say, I wouldn't say that to a woman who I thought would say "no".