I was just reading a couple articles from Alek like the one on Fractionation.
While the first articles I had read from Alek didn't resonate with me -the approach of telling girls "I know you girls like sex" seemed childish- I got renewed respect for him after reading a bit more.
In the comments he goes against the very grain of what this website teaches as he says "avoid building rapport and emotional connections" if you're going for casual sex / quick pulls.
It got me thinking: though I never premeditatedly used sexual talk many of my quick lays hadn't built any verbal connection indeed (obviously one could say, by its very nature "quick" doesn't entail longer convo).
Some of the times it was mostly physical, some other times not even that: just capitalizing on underlying attraction / interest and moving towards home.
But what about a more typical "date" or during a day time approach?
IS SEX TALK TALK EFFECTIVE IN DATING AND DURING DAY?
The question is not if it can work, obviously it can: we all know everything can work, at least a few times and at least in some occasions.
The question is if can work as well as it does in a club/bar approach and if it is as effective as deep diving.
I have a few ideas but... What are your thoughts?
While the first articles I had read from Alek didn't resonate with me -the approach of telling girls "I know you girls like sex" seemed childish- I got renewed respect for him after reading a bit more.
In the comments he goes against the very grain of what this website teaches as he says "avoid building rapport and emotional connections" if you're going for casual sex / quick pulls.
It got me thinking: though I never premeditatedly used sexual talk many of my quick lays hadn't built any verbal connection indeed (obviously one could say, by its very nature "quick" doesn't entail longer convo).
Some of the times it was mostly physical, some other times not even that: just capitalizing on underlying attraction / interest and moving towards home.
But what about a more typical "date" or during a day time approach?
IS SEX TALK TALK EFFECTIVE IN DATING AND DURING DAY?
The question is not if it can work, obviously it can: we all know everything can work, at least a few times and at least in some occasions.
The question is if can work as well as it does in a club/bar approach and if it is as effective as deep diving.
I have a few ideas but... What are your thoughts?