Just want female friends, how?



Just want female friends, how?

Postby Ohdude » Thu Jun 13, 2019 3:05 pm

I want to make friends with women, I have no idea how to begin without her thinking I want a piece of her...
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Re: Just want female friends, how?

Postby Humanoutofelement » Sat Jun 15, 2019 7:13 pm

Well for me, they're usually girls that I was attracted to who were unattainable for one reason or another (higher social status than me, game is not that good, or whatever). Sometimes I might meet a girl in which I like her personality but I'm just not attracted to her physically. The easiest way is just to come out and friend-zone yourself, although that might make the dynamics of the relationship boring because you're eliminating any possibility of hooking up with her.
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Re: Just want female friends, how?

Postby naturalmikey » Sat Jun 15, 2019 10:32 pm

Girls that string you along are good "friend candidates." They can be found at parks, nightclubs, or on tinder. These are the girls that keep responding to your texts and calls but will not meet. Just tell them it's better to be friends. Then they will want to meet. Friends that are girls are very valuable. You'd always hear guys like Mystery and Cajun saying verbatim "I have a lot of female friends, and they tell me..." The way you learn from them is to be very open about your own sexuality, the more impressive the better. As you open up girls will open up with you about hooking up with guys on tinder or at night clubs or whatever. You can really learn from women in this way. If you're slaying it and showing her pics of girls you're fucking like she was your bro, she is highly likely to start pursuing you sexually. If this occurs I would play coy and try to withstand her advances. She is so stripped of your validation she may be completely validated and be done with you if you show interest. At most you should be torn on whether or not you're interested. Do not escalate unless she's begging you for sex. Unless she sees having sex with you as the only way to get your validation it's probably not gonna happen. This is just my experience in dealing with women who had originally at least had some interest in me, but at least with me were very wishywashy. I don't know if these are wishywashy girls or that's just how it is when girls just aren't that interested. I suspect these timewasters make a habit of wasting a lot of guys time though. But even if they have low sex drive, they are still having sex on occasion. Learn from these experiences. I've also questioned if having a very openly promiscuous friend may encourage they're promiscuity.

One thing I'll add that is funny is I've had girls show me pics of guys they hook up with. And these are chicks that did not hook up with me despite courtship. Anyway, sometimes the dudes they fuck are so dorky. I'm like holy shit I'm way better looking than this guy and I have game. It's like they say "attraction is not a choice."
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Re: Just want female friends, how?

Postby Ohdude » Sun Jun 16, 2019 7:25 pm

naturalmikey wrote:Girls that string you along are good "friend candidates." They can be found at parks, nightclubs, or on tinder. These are the girls that keep responding to your texts and calls but will not meet. Just tell them it's better to be friends. Then they will want to meet. Friends that are girls are very valuable. You'd always hear guys like Mystery and Cajun saying verbatim "I have a lot of female friends, and they tell me..." The way you learn from them is to be very open about your own sexuality, the more impressive the better. As you open up girls will open up with you about hooking up with guys on tinder or at night clubs or whatever. You can really learn from women in this way. If you're slaying it and showing her pics of girls you're fucking like she was your bro, she is highly likely to start pursuing you sexually. If this occurs I would play coy and try to withstand her advances. She is so stripped of your validation she may be completely validated and be done with you if you show interest. At most you should be torn on whether or not you're interested. Do not escalate unless she's begging you for sex. Unless she sees having sex with you as the only way to get your validation it's probably not gonna happen. This is just my experience in dealing with women who had originally at least had some interest in me, but at least with me were very wishywashy. I don't know if these are wishywashy girls or that's just how it is when girls just aren't that interested. I suspect these timewasters make a habit of wasting a lot of guys time though. But even if they have low sex drive, they are still having sex on occasion. Learn from these experiences. I've also questioned if having a very openly promiscuous friend may encourage they're promiscuity.

One thing I'll add that is funny is I've had girls show me pics of guys they hook up with. And these are chicks that did not hook up with me despite courtship. Anyway, sometimes the dudes they fuck are so dorky. I'm like holy shit I'm way better looking than this guy and I have game. It's like they say "attraction is not a choice."


That's funny. Thanks for your advice buddy.
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Re: Just want female friends, how?

Postby Fluxcapacitor » Wed Jun 19, 2019 7:28 pm

Friend zone them. Who cares if they think ya want some. They'll soon realise ya don't when ya don't escalate an just don't care. They may want a piece of you!

I've got girls in the friend zone who have chased me hard an some are still chasing years on. A don't lead them on, I let them know exactly where they stand an have rejected them when they've asked me if I wanted to go out. They choose to be in the friend zone to be around me, go figure!

Others are more mutual. Friendships just happen dude start talking an let them know it's platonic. If they push ya can choose if ya wanna take them as lovers. Just remember it's very difficult to go to being friends again after ya lovers!
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Re: Just want female friends, how?

Postby Ohdude » Thu Jun 20, 2019 2:30 pm

Thanks bro!
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