Ok so I am all for indirect because I find that it’s just more conducive to the kind of respect and treatment
I like from women pre and post sex.
The best indirect mindset I find is one of complete authenticity EXCEPT for the following:
1. You can’t physically escalate.
2. You can’t compliment
Other than that, be who you want to be. I personally do not agree that women lack confidence to escalate or make a
Move on you. That’s only for guys who are ugly or don’t have enough game to make women escalate on them. The same
Girl who you think is too shy or timid to escalate on you will rape the good looking guys shamelessly in front of everyone.
Girls know that they physically escalate. The issue is that there ashamed to be the ones who make the first move on
Ugly guys. Therefore you have to raise your value to such a degree that everyone around you perceives you as high
Value enough to not be a liability if they Escalate on you. This is totally unconscious btw. You might ask what about their
Concerns if you reject their advances. Women are funny in that if they want you bad enough it doesn’t enter their mind
That you might reject them, especially these days. They will think that you will say yes to them and this is only because
They can’t see it happening any other way because EVERYONE says yes to them. Trust me, they will not take it into
Consideration at all if you play it right. They will mindfuck themselves into thinking that you cannot resist them, their ego
Will be short circuited in a sense.
The second you escalate or show blatant sexual interest or act emotionally invested/mushy its over. The whole game in
This modality is about them recovering lost validation. This shit works really well in this day and age where most guys are
Thirsty, weak and far too generous with their affections/attention.
The key isn’t to be this cold asshole. You are a friend who wants nothing from her. You also don’t adapt to the friend role.
You don’t act like a real friend, you’re a friend only in name. No favors, leave her on seen, stand her up for chill sessions.
You are basically a bad friend who is fun to be around without overextending yourself.
I tell girls upfront I wouldn’t fuck them because I’m not interested in sex with anyone at the moment. It’s not them, it’s me, I’m just too busy focusing on other stuff but I have my pick if I want it. I don’t bring up sex, ever. I let them bring it up. When they bring it up I freely talk about other girls in positive ways when it pertains to them making the first move and being free/open Minded. What most guys shame in girls (sluttiness etc) I praise. I completely brainwash and condition girls to be what I think is cool and if they don’t wanna conform to it then I just assume they think I’m ugly and I pretty much don’t change anything about what I do.
At the end of the day, it’s hard to pull this style off for most guys because they’re penis is in firm control of their brain.
The key is to communicate confidence and total self possession. This is done by being totally authentic and yet cutting off your desire to have sex so badly.
Reward good behavior and punish bad behavior at first. Then you do not reward the good behavior sometimes. Bad behavior is always punished. You have to calibrate with the goal in mind of making her want you. That’s what most puas
Don’t talk about. They say to condition but not what to condition. You have to simply set a pattern where she expects good results from doing what you want, and then once she’s hooked you increase her neediness by simply holding back
Your reward until she does more of what you want.
It’s very simple, even idiots can do this. You just have to know what you’re doing and why.
I like from women pre and post sex.
The best indirect mindset I find is one of complete authenticity EXCEPT for the following:
1. You can’t physically escalate.
2. You can’t compliment
Other than that, be who you want to be. I personally do not agree that women lack confidence to escalate or make a
Move on you. That’s only for guys who are ugly or don’t have enough game to make women escalate on them. The same
Girl who you think is too shy or timid to escalate on you will rape the good looking guys shamelessly in front of everyone.
Girls know that they physically escalate. The issue is that there ashamed to be the ones who make the first move on
Ugly guys. Therefore you have to raise your value to such a degree that everyone around you perceives you as high
Value enough to not be a liability if they Escalate on you. This is totally unconscious btw. You might ask what about their
Concerns if you reject their advances. Women are funny in that if they want you bad enough it doesn’t enter their mind
That you might reject them, especially these days. They will think that you will say yes to them and this is only because
They can’t see it happening any other way because EVERYONE says yes to them. Trust me, they will not take it into
Consideration at all if you play it right. They will mindfuck themselves into thinking that you cannot resist them, their ego
Will be short circuited in a sense.
The second you escalate or show blatant sexual interest or act emotionally invested/mushy its over. The whole game in
This modality is about them recovering lost validation. This shit works really well in this day and age where most guys are
Thirsty, weak and far too generous with their affections/attention.
The key isn’t to be this cold asshole. You are a friend who wants nothing from her. You also don’t adapt to the friend role.
You don’t act like a real friend, you’re a friend only in name. No favors, leave her on seen, stand her up for chill sessions.
You are basically a bad friend who is fun to be around without overextending yourself.
I tell girls upfront I wouldn’t fuck them because I’m not interested in sex with anyone at the moment. It’s not them, it’s me, I’m just too busy focusing on other stuff but I have my pick if I want it. I don’t bring up sex, ever. I let them bring it up. When they bring it up I freely talk about other girls in positive ways when it pertains to them making the first move and being free/open Minded. What most guys shame in girls (sluttiness etc) I praise. I completely brainwash and condition girls to be what I think is cool and if they don’t wanna conform to it then I just assume they think I’m ugly and I pretty much don’t change anything about what I do.
At the end of the day, it’s hard to pull this style off for most guys because they’re penis is in firm control of their brain.
The key is to communicate confidence and total self possession. This is done by being totally authentic and yet cutting off your desire to have sex so badly.
Reward good behavior and punish bad behavior at first. Then you do not reward the good behavior sometimes. Bad behavior is always punished. You have to calibrate with the goal in mind of making her want you. That’s what most puas
Don’t talk about. They say to condition but not what to condition. You have to simply set a pattern where she expects good results from doing what you want, and then once she’s hooked you increase her neediness by simply holding back
Your reward until she does more of what you want.
It’s very simple, even idiots can do this. You just have to know what you’re doing and why.