Hey guys,
I've known this girl on/off for a couple of years. We've only ever made out, and that's two summers ago. Our first date I knew she wanted a ONS, but I was too nervous given my low notch count and pussied out. A few weeks go by and I realize I need to get her out of my mind, go completely NC, and get with more women. To my surprise, she reaches out to me months later apologizing for being so busy and that she wants to see me. Second date things are kept pretty cordial. End up dropping her off and we start making out. Finally been with enough women to where I know how to kiss because I think the first time must've been awful. I wanted to kiss her neck, but suddenly start thinking about another girl I was seeing who taught me how to kiss passionately lol. Anyway, she was really giddy afterwards and said that we should see each other again. Tried to set up another date, but shit fell through and it never panned out. Once again, I go NC for months, but I reach out this time around winter break since she sent the last message. She's really excited to hear from me, and I set things up for another date. I had to cancel but offer an alternative day that she can't do...
Around spring I reach out to see if she wants to meet in the summer, and she's again excited to hear from me. Even did some callback humor from our last date that was nearly a year ago! Once again life happens (busy becoming a doc), and I just couldn't reach out until by the time summer was basically over. Come winter break again I reach out again, and find out she's vacationing in Scottsdale. We tried to set up a date for when she got back, but couldn't lock down a date. My question for you guys is whether or not there's any upside to asking her for suggestions of what to do around Scottsdale since I'll be going there for my job soon? I honestly think I'd just be digging myself deeper into the dreaded friendzone, but I wanted to hear what you guys thought.
Thanks for reading,
psheer
I've known this girl on/off for a couple of years. We've only ever made out, and that's two summers ago. Our first date I knew she wanted a ONS, but I was too nervous given my low notch count and pussied out. A few weeks go by and I realize I need to get her out of my mind, go completely NC, and get with more women. To my surprise, she reaches out to me months later apologizing for being so busy and that she wants to see me. Second date things are kept pretty cordial. End up dropping her off and we start making out. Finally been with enough women to where I know how to kiss because I think the first time must've been awful. I wanted to kiss her neck, but suddenly start thinking about another girl I was seeing who taught me how to kiss passionately lol. Anyway, she was really giddy afterwards and said that we should see each other again. Tried to set up another date, but shit fell through and it never panned out. Once again, I go NC for months, but I reach out this time around winter break since she sent the last message. She's really excited to hear from me, and I set things up for another date. I had to cancel but offer an alternative day that she can't do...
Around spring I reach out to see if she wants to meet in the summer, and she's again excited to hear from me. Even did some callback humor from our last date that was nearly a year ago! Once again life happens (busy becoming a doc), and I just couldn't reach out until by the time summer was basically over. Come winter break again I reach out again, and find out she's vacationing in Scottsdale. We tried to set up a date for when she got back, but couldn't lock down a date. My question for you guys is whether or not there's any upside to asking her for suggestions of what to do around Scottsdale since I'll be going there for my job soon? I honestly think I'd just be digging myself deeper into the dreaded friendzone, but I wanted to hear what you guys thought.
Thanks for reading,
psheer