O hey man, I actually forgot I started this conversation.
Sure, I will try to jot something down. Problem is I encountered this pattern more then once but it always came with a different flavour, so one incident will not cut it. There is one correlation however, in both examples the girls did not seem to like me in the beginning, but started becoming pretty obsessed later on, showing obvious attraction/curiosity. Maybe that has to do with something. I really don't know. Maybe I did not fit in their specific archetype or something.
Example 1: Girl I really liked some time ago (years).
I met a girl from social circle, at her job to be exact and we never had one on one time because there was tons of social pressure since it was a conservative environment and really busy. Finally me and friends orchestrated a situation where she and I were alone. The girl send off her girlfriend away with a lame excuse because I guess she wanted to get to know me, pretty much facilitating isolation. The girl was extremely nervous and obviously tried to please me in a really submissive way. However our time alone was cut short because of another customer who entered the store. Point was: it was almost impossible for me to get her alone. Just trust me on this. Soon another of her colleague came and I could forget about making a move there and then. I became impatient and basically asked her over facebook the same night if she wanted to go out and drink some coffee. I know full well that asking out over facebook is a dumb thing to do but the logistics were against me and I lost my patience. Girl ignored the text despite her obvious attraction. Which I did not understand. I saw her next week and played it cool, saw her being emotional so tried to persist again at the next opportunity, but she threw me under the bus among people in a REALLY harsh way. I however had great frame control at that moment and left coolly with a smile.
Thereafter I started ignoring her because I always had female attention and soon she started chasing after me hard. However I already was in autorejection since I did not see any progress in one month and distrusted her for playing games. A short while later I got into a relationship with another nice girl and this girl who rejected me became extremely angry to the point of crying when she learned about it. So yeah, that was quite confusing. A year later she was still chasey and flip flopping into autorejection when she saw me.
Example 2:
I actually wrote about this girl on a post before. So I will copy paste it:
"Usually this is pretty binary (0/1), but I can remember this one incident from quite some time ago on which I can still not put my finger. I noticed this girl keeping an eye on me covertly for some time. One day she gave me an obvious approach invitation (hovered next to me) which I used promptly, I deep dived well, had a good connection. I asked her out and she agreed very enthousiastically. I finished conversation on a good note and went about my business and not 2 minutes later she started verbally resisting me HARD publicly, pretty much backpedalling after our conversation was already over. (buyers remorse?) I was in no position to persist, so wrote her up as a lost cause. 10 minutes later I noticed her staring at me with a confused look (thinking and processing really hard) and I was creeped out because of the weirdness. She was a really nice girl but the behavior was all over the place and I had to think about my reputation. (Social circle)
Next time I saw her, she was VERY happy to see me (weird huh?), but I already had moved on, I guess I had autorejected myself, which in some cases is a healthy thing to do. Soon after I met some new girls, which she noticed and flew into autorejection pretty bad. Afterwards I noticed her going out of her way hovering around my workplace (she is not a colleague, but I noticed her across the street where she had no business) while also having tense bodylanguage. "
Point is, I do have my succes and when I am in the vicinity of girls I can always get a couple of good leads. Yesterday I had a waitress "bump" on to me accidentily after me catching her looking at me multiple times etc. My fundamentals are pretty good. Opening is no issue, closing is no issue. I am not some kind of bum. However with a couple of girls who I really liked in the past I had that bad pattern which had me scratching my head multiple times. When I see them some time later the same questions arise about what happened. This is without a doubt my greatest sticking point with some girls I really liked.
Thanks in advance