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Hello
So I’ve had this question for a while now and I wasn’t able to find an exact article that addresses it.
Long story short, I’ve been hanging out with this girl as friends for a good two years, but two months ago something happened that made us admit to each other that we liked each other all along and that *bummer* she’s been talking to a man for around a year.
At that moment I couldn’t imagine leaving her be so I told her that she should choose and to my surprise the next day she chose me. So at that point I asked her to tell the guy shes been seeing that she’s leaving but she told me it’s hard as he’s only ever been good to her and she doesn’t want to break his heart.
Now fast forward two months of us thinking we’re doine then going back and I’m still confused and anxious about this whole relationship.
I don’t want to be the cause for her to end her relationship with the man ( mind you they only went on dates and talked endlessly on text but did nothing else ) and at the same time we like each other a lot and we think we have potential for a successful relationship.
All that’s running through my mind atm is that if she can cheat with her emotions on this man she might do that in the future to me, I’m not sure how likely that is and how to proceed with my thoughts or actions
And I would really appreciate professional insight
So I’ve had this question for a while now and I wasn’t able to find an exact article that addresses it.
Long story short, I’ve been hanging out with this girl as friends for a good two years, but two months ago something happened that made us admit to each other that we liked each other all along and that *bummer* she’s been talking to a man for around a year.
At that moment I couldn’t imagine leaving her be so I told her that she should choose and to my surprise the next day she chose me. So at that point I asked her to tell the guy shes been seeing that she’s leaving but she told me it’s hard as he’s only ever been good to her and she doesn’t want to break his heart.
Now fast forward two months of us thinking we’re doine then going back and I’m still confused and anxious about this whole relationship.
I don’t want to be the cause for her to end her relationship with the man ( mind you they only went on dates and talked endlessly on text but did nothing else ) and at the same time we like each other a lot and we think we have potential for a successful relationship.
All that’s running through my mind atm is that if she can cheat with her emotions on this man she might do that in the future to me, I’m not sure how likely that is and how to proceed with my thoughts or actions
And I would really appreciate professional insight