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I'm not the best looking guy. I'm probably closer to the worst. As a barometer, note that I need to use doctored photos to get matches on dating apps. Anyway, I've really been struggling to get anywhere with the women that I meet through the apps. But, when I come on here and read the FRs and LRs, I see that a lot of them involve the woman giving the guy a clear approach invitation or even opening him. The almost romantic idea I have from GC is that of a mysterious guy with no special looks forming a special connection with a particular woman, making her feel so much lust and passion that it's just inevitable that she gets together with this guy, who would otherwise seem unassuming and regular. But even Hector, in one of his videos, explained that women probably already like you, but you do not notice. In the video he shows how the liking is based only on the guy's looks. On top of that, as I've mentioned before, the GC veterans on here have great looks. Many of them are tall and have a full head of hair past the age of 23, for example.
On the other hand, Chase's by now legendary articles give a lot of scientific evidence on why looks aren't important. But - I'm just playing devil's advocate - perhaps it might be possible to find scientific articles supporting the opposite belief. So what's the right answer and what is holding back the guys on here who aren't doing so well? Am I right to go looking (no pun intended) at looks or is the prevailing view on GC - though it may be from good looking guys - the correct one? Thanks and hoping for a good discussion!
On the other hand, Chase's by now legendary articles give a lot of scientific evidence on why looks aren't important. But - I'm just playing devil's advocate - perhaps it might be possible to find scientific articles supporting the opposite belief. So what's the right answer and what is holding back the guys on here who aren't doing so well? Am I right to go looking (no pun intended) at looks or is the prevailing view on GC - though it may be from good looking guys - the correct one? Thanks and hoping for a good discussion!