Tiger you are so helpful, thanks for continuing to answer my follow up questions. And hey, no sweat on the “late response” anything within 24 hrs I would consider extremely fast man. I’m just great full with any response let alone the thought, detail, and speed of your response. I love it. And btw your response did get here in time, but I haven’t been able to comment on hectors vid yet, (gotta set up an account)
So today happened, and I’m not sure to think of how it went. I guess there’s positives and potentially negatives. First time I saw the girl this post is about she sped up and didnt look at, she was also with her sister. When we go into class though she didn’t get my attention to tell me anything like she usually does, about 70% of the time, but she did say some stuff really loudly. Just taking, but I felt it was directed at me. She said, “I just hare people who make dumb decisions or do stupid things.” (Felt it was directed at me because I do some crazy shit at school)
After the bell rang for lunch we went to lunch. (She didn’t wait talk to me or anything, which she does like 10-30% of the time, not too common.) at lunch I walk over to this table near her table, with this other girl that’s widely considered very hot and I talk to her, I’ve been doing this a while, and I’ll be honest regardless of how much they, the girls at this new table, have insulted me, told me they don’t like me, and to go away, I’m not very convinced whatsoever that they aren’t attracted to me. Even if they aren’t I still find it fun to go over there and see what outrageous shot I can come up with to say and then in return, it’s sort of a thing. They say I’m not funny and they don’t like me. Yet, every time I say something attempting to be funny they can’t help but bursting out into laughter. Also when I touch them just on the shoulder arm or back, they don’t react badly. They just let it happen.
That should give you an idea of the sort of thing I have with that table. But anyway, when we get back to class she says the same sort of thing about her disliking people who do stupid things, I hear this again but she wasn’t talking to me. Someone brings up me going to the table
Her: yea like he always does (eye roll)
Some other guy: yea, he gets it.
Her: he’s only trying to be funny
My friend: nah, he’s just trying to get uhhhh... a little something
Her: yea... a little something... that’s trying to be funny
Other guy: but he likes her
Her: hes trying to be funny
Me: I don’t find it funny that she was staring at my ass ( this was sort of a topic of conversation earlier because the girl at the other table during lunch was, and I called her out on it)
Her: yea, whatever your just trying to be funny.
Me: well then if your entertained by it, good for you.
Bell rings and our teacher comes in and we start talking to her about the event at lunch. Class ends and she hurried out the door. Throughout the rest of the day there were 3 more times I saw her but she didn’t say anything or wave. The first time she walked in on me working a group of girls and guys both, all of which have good reputations and she respects, I had them going even though I don’t know a few of them telling them a story about the teacher of the class they are in currently. This shows social prowess at least, I’m good at this sort of thing sometimes. Next time was just crossing her path in the crowded hallway, nothing odd there.
Next was a bit of an irregular one, I saw her after school at workouts, she was at the school gym with her sports team and I was there for soccer. She walked by the soccer guys when I was talking with some of the more popular upperclassmen, so she didn’t say anything again. Also since the soccer team and I were running our 7 miles that day we left and came back and I’m a freshmen and I was the first one back by about 10 minutes, sooooo, I don’t know if girls care about that sort of thing but that shows I’m hella athletic, being faster then the top seniors on the team and all.
So, that was today and I’m not 100% sure what to think about it. She didn’t acknowledge the fact that she blew me off/ flaked in me after she agreed to get together sometime over break, twice.
I know I probably didn’t handle the in class situation too well because I wasn’t cordial, but I just had to step in when she was pretty much telling me about myself like she knows what I’m about, it got to me, but I did keep my cool in my tone and expressions at least when talking to her.
Also I did take some of your other advice Regal Tiger. I thought about what you said about meeting and talking to more girls, and I’ve been able to think of about 10, at least, at my school that I’m at least somewhat attracted to and have talked to them at least a few times, but nothing much, just casual flirting I’d say. But hey that’s like 12 girls I could start talking to to lose the “your my best option mindset” and vamp up my preselectikn. 5 of which should be easy for to at least get a phone number since they already see me in a positive light.
Sorry cause this is a bit of a long one and I probably have a few pointless details in here, so again, any response will be taken with much gratitude. Thanks! If you’ve even read this far!
And also that Hanks for the recommendation in hectors book about being the big man on campus, sounds like something that would be right up my alley, cool shit, I’ll be sure to check it out, didn’t even know about it.