I was recently going through the list of my past conquests. Being the geek that I am, I maintained over the years a file with some details about all the girls I took on a date. More specifically, I was looking to answer this particular question:
How many girls with whom I was on a date, and tried to bring to my home, actually refused to follow me?
I went through my list one by one to confirm what my memory was telling me. The answer is ZERO. Yes. All the girls that I tried to move from my date venue, to my home, actually followed me home, with no exception.
That was true, even in 2015 when I was still trying to learn all this. That was true, whether it was date 1, or date 4.
Of course, out of all who followed me home, there were a few who objected. And even that was surprisingly little.
But the vast majority of the time, I didn't have any sort of resistance to following me. So I tend to view these exceptions above as a token resistance - sort of a test of your manly resolve.
This lead me to conclude the following.
She likes you, she follows you.
And if she came on a date with you, chances are that she already likes you.
So if you are on a date with a girl and things are looking good, she will follow you. And it is up to you to decide where.
If you have a voice in your head telling you that you're not too sure about that, it is your mind trying to fuck up with you. Before I discovered how easy it was to take her home, I used to make up some loads of excuses of why I thought she was not ready to follow me.
She likes you, she follows you. So you better shut your inner voice, take a leap of faith, and take her home.
Guess what, once the girl is in your home, the perspective of a happy ending goes up significantly. By contrast, 100% of the girls you don't bring home will disappear into the void.
It's up to you.
Seppuku
How many girls with whom I was on a date, and tried to bring to my home, actually refused to follow me?
I went through my list one by one to confirm what my memory was telling me. The answer is ZERO. Yes. All the girls that I tried to move from my date venue, to my home, actually followed me home, with no exception.
That was true, even in 2015 when I was still trying to learn all this. That was true, whether it was date 1, or date 4.
Of course, out of all who followed me home, there were a few who objected. And even that was surprisingly little.
- In 2015, there was this girl (my first GF out of GirlsChase) who told me "Maybe not tonight? Maybe next week?". I replied in an assertive manner "It's too cold for a walk outside, and still too early. I'll take you to my home, and after 30 minutes will drive you back". Then proceeded as if the sale had been concluded. We went to my home, and ended up staying much more than the 30 minutes.
- There was a girl in late 2016, which I drove straight to my home right after our date. "Oh, don't tell me we are going to your home?" "Yes. I am telling you that we are going to my home", then she shut up. She eventually felt very comfortable there.
- More recently (2018) there was a girl I met at a coffee shop. After walking around in the mall, I told her that we could go and take a rest in my hotel room. "Are you crazy?" she replied, with a smile on her face, but following my lead nevertheless. I ignored, walked her straight to my hotel, and she didn't object one further second. She ended up with no clothes at the center of a king size bed.
But the vast majority of the time, I didn't have any sort of resistance to following me. So I tend to view these exceptions above as a token resistance - sort of a test of your manly resolve.
This lead me to conclude the following.
She likes you, she follows you.
And if she came on a date with you, chances are that she already likes you.
So if you are on a date with a girl and things are looking good, she will follow you. And it is up to you to decide where.
If you have a voice in your head telling you that you're not too sure about that, it is your mind trying to fuck up with you. Before I discovered how easy it was to take her home, I used to make up some loads of excuses of why I thought she was not ready to follow me.
She likes you, she follows you. So you better shut your inner voice, take a leap of faith, and take her home.
Guess what, once the girl is in your home, the perspective of a happy ending goes up significantly. By contrast, 100% of the girls you don't bring home will disappear into the void.
It's up to you.
Seppuku