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most men will never have success with women because they are caught up in negative frames regarding women. they frame women as all power having. women just have frames. society even frames things in a way that pedastalizes women. do you think women are these ultra high self esteem women? no most hate themselves. So do most men. That's actually the reason most men won't get good. they're living in self hate like most women but without society telling them they're great. women are just confused about why some people think they're amazing and intrigued when some are not impressed.
but most guy can't treat women like equals. they treat them like superiors. this is a low value frame. treating women as inferiors is a high value narcissist style of game and definitely the most effective. but most guys will never be able to treat women as even equals.
there is a wealth of information telling you what high value men do. but there was a recent post saying approaching is low value. you think leo even hesitates to approach? fuck no. he is like ten times higher status than anyone who isn't another celebrity. i'll guarn-damn-tee that he approaches any girl he wants to. but from a low value frame you'll justify your own behavior as being high value and identify a high value behavior as being low value. this ensures you won't do it. you've already villainized this behavior. so you're fucked. that is why you'll never get good. because you can even open yourself up to the possibility you might be wrong.
it's crazy every forum has a handful of people who claim good results and they all will describe some form of inner game as being the underlying foundation for whatever style of outter game they use: structured, hybrid, natural. all require strong inner game and entitlement. this is getting good at honest signals, signals which are hard to fake. that means you have to internalize shit.
you must have a strong defined perception of your reality that is possible. when your head questions it you tell your head to shut the fuck up. you have to be strong about this shit. you should have the following frames to guide your reality:
sex is not wrong
girls love sex
girls love fucking me
i'm the shit
i'm fucking awesome
chicks wanna buy me stuff
chicks want my validation
every girl wants to fuck me, if she doesn't it's because of x, y, or z reason. with this one i can admit it is delusional. all girls don't want to fuck me. i still interpret everything they say as that they want to fuck me
i don't need any validation at this moment. be patient for success.
i'm the prize - women want to win me over. this one is super powerful. the world prize in your head pumps you up.
there's plenty more. but i would say everyone who is good at game believes most of those things. i know a lot of guys with game that don't realize chicks wanna buy them stuff, but that's the only one. some guys are so stuck in their head that they have to pay. but some of those guys still do well. it's not a death sentence, just a weak frame.
but most guy can't treat women like equals. they treat them like superiors. this is a low value frame. treating women as inferiors is a high value narcissist style of game and definitely the most effective. but most guys will never be able to treat women as even equals.
there is a wealth of information telling you what high value men do. but there was a recent post saying approaching is low value. you think leo even hesitates to approach? fuck no. he is like ten times higher status than anyone who isn't another celebrity. i'll guarn-damn-tee that he approaches any girl he wants to. but from a low value frame you'll justify your own behavior as being high value and identify a high value behavior as being low value. this ensures you won't do it. you've already villainized this behavior. so you're fucked. that is why you'll never get good. because you can even open yourself up to the possibility you might be wrong.
it's crazy every forum has a handful of people who claim good results and they all will describe some form of inner game as being the underlying foundation for whatever style of outter game they use: structured, hybrid, natural. all require strong inner game and entitlement. this is getting good at honest signals, signals which are hard to fake. that means you have to internalize shit.
you must have a strong defined perception of your reality that is possible. when your head questions it you tell your head to shut the fuck up. you have to be strong about this shit. you should have the following frames to guide your reality:
sex is not wrong
girls love sex
girls love fucking me
i'm the shit
i'm fucking awesome
chicks wanna buy me stuff
chicks want my validation
every girl wants to fuck me, if she doesn't it's because of x, y, or z reason. with this one i can admit it is delusional. all girls don't want to fuck me. i still interpret everything they say as that they want to fuck me
i don't need any validation at this moment. be patient for success.
i'm the prize - women want to win me over. this one is super powerful. the world prize in your head pumps you up.
there's plenty more. but i would say everyone who is good at game believes most of those things. i know a lot of guys with game that don't realize chicks wanna buy them stuff, but that's the only one. some guys are so stuck in their head that they have to pay. but some of those guys still do well. it's not a death sentence, just a weak frame.