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I've been thinking back on the past, and there were a handful of times where things were incredibly easy with women. They all had one thing in common, which I will say later.
The 1st girl was an asian girl I saw smoking in front of a hostel. I told her smoking kills and we had some playful banter. 2 minutes later we were going to grab food together
The 2nd girl was a beautiful brown haired polish girl. I had woken up in the middle of the night and went to grab something to eat. On the way back to my room, I ran into her group of 3 girls. I don't even remember what I said, (I was more interested in my food) but 5 minutes later her friends left and we got a drink, and it was game on.
3rd was a hot blonde german girl I met on a plane. She wanted my seat and I told her no, so she ended up sitting next to me. She was upset for about 10 minutes, and then she was twirling her hair and giving me doe eyes. She asked if I wanted to join the mile high club.
4th was a hotel worker who was sweet and nerdy. I teased her about being on the computer all day. She asked me out later that day.
Now, I'm not a guy with incredible game. In fact, I have like 0 cold approach skills. So how did I get these girls hooked so easily?
I didn't. They hooked themselves.
The one thing all of these stories have in common is that in each of these situations I didn't care. At all. The girls literally gamed themselves and all I had to do was not try.
What's the takeaway from this? It's difficult because these situations will only manifest rarely. I think the key is that if you can show disinterest and get her chasing early, that's where you want to be.
The 1st girl was an asian girl I saw smoking in front of a hostel. I told her smoking kills and we had some playful banter. 2 minutes later we were going to grab food together
The 2nd girl was a beautiful brown haired polish girl. I had woken up in the middle of the night and went to grab something to eat. On the way back to my room, I ran into her group of 3 girls. I don't even remember what I said, (I was more interested in my food) but 5 minutes later her friends left and we got a drink, and it was game on.
3rd was a hot blonde german girl I met on a plane. She wanted my seat and I told her no, so she ended up sitting next to me. She was upset for about 10 minutes, and then she was twirling her hair and giving me doe eyes. She asked if I wanted to join the mile high club.
4th was a hotel worker who was sweet and nerdy. I teased her about being on the computer all day. She asked me out later that day.
Now, I'm not a guy with incredible game. In fact, I have like 0 cold approach skills. So how did I get these girls hooked so easily?
I didn't. They hooked themselves.
The one thing all of these stories have in common is that in each of these situations I didn't care. At all. The girls literally gamed themselves and all I had to do was not try.
What's the takeaway from this? It's difficult because these situations will only manifest rarely. I think the key is that if you can show disinterest and get her chasing early, that's where you want to be.