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There's a girl in my class that I feel a good vibe going with. There's this natural tension between us.
I've been playing it aloof, and busting her balls a lot. She's been busting mine back, which I like.
Today, I casually invited her out over text, and she turned it down, saying we could go another time. I'm wondering if I misread her attraction, or maybe I'm not being attainable enough.
Attraction signs:
1) I've caught her looking at me out of the corner of my eye, or looking st something when I do.
2) She asks me a lot of questions.
3) Has gotten nervous around me during group work.
Attainability signs:
1) Her voice broke and trailed off when asking me something/ shit testing.
2) Generally doesn't push my boundaries. Seems maybe... intimidated.
Wildcard signs:
1) I'm socially stupid and everything I've learned is from dating websites like this one.
2) I'm a huge nerd.
3) I'm outspoken, and speak with authority.
I'm thinking I should just step back and let this one simmer for a bit. Be more friendly, and put a hold on the ball busting. I'd like to hear your thoughts. Thanks!
I've been playing it aloof, and busting her balls a lot. She's been busting mine back, which I like.
Today, I casually invited her out over text, and she turned it down, saying we could go another time. I'm wondering if I misread her attraction, or maybe I'm not being attainable enough.
Attraction signs:
1) I've caught her looking at me out of the corner of my eye, or looking st something when I do.
2) She asks me a lot of questions.
3) Has gotten nervous around me during group work.
Attainability signs:
1) Her voice broke and trailed off when asking me something/ shit testing.
2) Generally doesn't push my boundaries. Seems maybe... intimidated.
Wildcard signs:
1) I'm socially stupid and everything I've learned is from dating websites like this one.
2) I'm a huge nerd.
3) I'm outspoken, and speak with authority.
I'm thinking I should just step back and let this one simmer for a bit. Be more friendly, and put a hold on the ball busting. I'd like to hear your thoughts. Thanks!