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Hey studs, I have an area that I am concerned about that I am not well versed with and I'm hoping someone can give me some direction. I'm starting a kinda long distance relationship with a girl and I don't really know how to work this. So I started seeing this beautiful girl about 4 months ago. We went on a few dates and had sex within the first 3 weeks, but then I had to go away for a month and a half in which I didn't have the ability to communicate with her often. I came back and we went on more dates and it was amazing but we weren't anything "official". I just had to leave again for a multitude of months, but have the ability to see her every 3ish weeks or so. I can tell she definitely cares for me but I feel like being so far away has negatively impacted our "relationship". How do I tell her that I would like to be able to see her as frequently as possible and that I want to continue what we have going on without seeming like a bitch? I was thinking of shooting her a call and saying something to the effect of:
"Hey I need you to do me a favor... I need you to be transparent with me. I really care about you and what we have, and I know that me being away isn't easy, but I want to be able continue this even though I'm so far away." and then give her a sort of plan about when I would be able to see her so that she could take off of work. Just a side note, I am a little concerned that I'm more invested in this relationship than she is, but only slightly so. Any advice is appreciated, thanks boys.
-Atlas
"Hey I need you to do me a favor... I need you to be transparent with me. I really care about you and what we have, and I know that me being away isn't easy, but I want to be able continue this even though I'm so far away." and then give her a sort of plan about when I would be able to see her so that she could take off of work. Just a side note, I am a little concerned that I'm more invested in this relationship than she is, but only slightly so. Any advice is appreciated, thanks boys.
-Atlas