So, I’m in a monogomous relationship with a girl and she’ll be moving away for college in a month and half. The college is a 10+ hour flight away. We were FWB at first but have been exclusive since April and got into it knowing she would be leaving.
I know long distance almost never works especially with that amount of distance and the length of our relationship, so I have no interest in doing that. The relationship has been more fulfilling than I thought it would be and I do care about her but the thought of being single once again is exciting.
Basically, we haven’t discussed what we are going to do. When and how do I bring it up? How do I gently deny her requests for long distance if she wants that? I also have a feeling she’ll want to remain in contact while she’s away, but to me that doesn’t seem like a great idea. So, how do I avoid falling into the friend role while she’s away but also leave the door open for her to want to see me in a FWB way when she comes back home on breaks?
Thank you
I know long distance almost never works especially with that amount of distance and the length of our relationship, so I have no interest in doing that. The relationship has been more fulfilling than I thought it would be and I do care about her but the thought of being single once again is exciting.
Basically, we haven’t discussed what we are going to do. When and how do I bring it up? How do I gently deny her requests for long distance if she wants that? I also have a feeling she’ll want to remain in contact while she’s away, but to me that doesn’t seem like a great idea. So, how do I avoid falling into the friend role while she’s away but also leave the door open for her to want to see me in a FWB way when she comes back home on breaks?
Thank you