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My apologies if this should go in the general forum, but I felt it more appropriate to go with relationships first three paragraphs are back story/situation
Following on from my post regarding "resolving a huge mistake" I wasn't able to resolve it, and in turn the relationship ended. She beat me to the punch so I wasn't able to deliver the break up in person as I wanted to because I felt she deserved that but it ended on a phone call where I mostly listened while she cried, said things to try and hurt me, ended it saying she wasn't emotionally ready for a relationship, she thought she was but she's not. That she wouldn't be ready for a while and that I deserved better and said she'd get in touch later in the week to give me my stuff back.
I decided I'd do the send off in person, rather than on the phone and I thought we'd end everything on good terms. Days after breaking up she's out at a club and dancing hand in hand with another guy in front of me. I was totally pissed off and after about an hour I couldn't stomach it and had to walk away. She'd have got the reaction she wanted but I couldn't be around that any longer.
I've since cooled down and still think I need to deliver a proper send off to show that I'm in control of my emotions, that incident hasn't bothered me and I'm still the same amazing guy and I handled everything very well.
I was thinking of something along the lines of "I wanted to say this in person, I know this is difficult. I still care for you and I always will. We'll always be a little part of each other's lives. We've got a lot of great memories together and I just want the best for you.
Not really sure how to end it? Not really sure if I should say I'll always care for her? Don't even know how to deliver it after she rubbed a rebound in my face, I honestly feel that's unacceptable but I can't do anything about it now really, especially without appearing emotional/bothered about it no matter how I deliver it. Any thoughts and/or advice?
SilenceintheSnow
Following on from my post regarding "resolving a huge mistake" I wasn't able to resolve it, and in turn the relationship ended. She beat me to the punch so I wasn't able to deliver the break up in person as I wanted to because I felt she deserved that but it ended on a phone call where I mostly listened while she cried, said things to try and hurt me, ended it saying she wasn't emotionally ready for a relationship, she thought she was but she's not. That she wouldn't be ready for a while and that I deserved better and said she'd get in touch later in the week to give me my stuff back.
I decided I'd do the send off in person, rather than on the phone and I thought we'd end everything on good terms. Days after breaking up she's out at a club and dancing hand in hand with another guy in front of me. I was totally pissed off and after about an hour I couldn't stomach it and had to walk away. She'd have got the reaction she wanted but I couldn't be around that any longer.
I've since cooled down and still think I need to deliver a proper send off to show that I'm in control of my emotions, that incident hasn't bothered me and I'm still the same amazing guy and I handled everything very well.
I was thinking of something along the lines of "I wanted to say this in person, I know this is difficult. I still care for you and I always will. We'll always be a little part of each other's lives. We've got a lot of great memories together and I just want the best for you.
Not really sure how to end it? Not really sure if I should say I'll always care for her? Don't even know how to deliver it after she rubbed a rebound in my face, I honestly feel that's unacceptable but I can't do anything about it now really, especially without appearing emotional/bothered about it no matter how I deliver it. Any thoughts and/or advice?
SilenceintheSnow