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I'm referring to Chases article on commitment points:
https://www.girlschase.com/content/commitment-points-why-you-must-avoid
In the past, I've always tried to mirror my girls' level of commitment. If she wasn't texting a bunch of guys or partying, then I wasn't doing the same with girls. However, like Chases article says, this isn't enough when your girl has men hitting on her everyday. To create a balance, you must make a point of going out, meeting and flirting with new girls. It seems so odd though, having to meet new girls to keep your girl attracted!
In a long term relationship, or marriage for that matter, how do you go about keeping your strength and her attraction in light of your commitment to each other? Where do you draw the line of pushing the boundaries of your commitment too far where she might suspect you of cheating and lose trust in you or not enough where she loses attraction for you?
https://www.girlschase.com/content/commitment-points-why-you-must-avoid
In the past, I've always tried to mirror my girls' level of commitment. If she wasn't texting a bunch of guys or partying, then I wasn't doing the same with girls. However, like Chases article says, this isn't enough when your girl has men hitting on her everyday. To create a balance, you must make a point of going out, meeting and flirting with new girls. It seems so odd though, having to meet new girls to keep your girl attracted!
In a long term relationship, or marriage for that matter, how do you go about keeping your strength and her attraction in light of your commitment to each other? Where do you draw the line of pushing the boundaries of your commitment too far where she might suspect you of cheating and lose trust in you or not enough where she loses attraction for you?