In " A tragic Story: How Did I Mess Up? "
viewtopic.php?f=3&t=9791I talked about how I almost lost Malika. A cute dark chick with a wonderful personality. I panicked when Brandon made a move on her on Friday and I became even more fearful when they traded numbers.
I got help from ya'll and I thank you for that. Turns out you were right guys, she didn't lose hope in me so fast.
I couldn't wait any more when I haden't heard from her Saturday, Sunday, and Monday. Tuesday I whatsapped her and she immediately starts telling me about Brandon. A sign she wanted me to be jealous. I had to stepup to the plate. Usually when I saw these signs I backed down. The girl's I felt I lost would still call to me but I never got the courage to stand up and push past the obstacles. When I realized this was probably my biggest problem I decided
NOT to let this girl go. I had nothing to lose. Either she gave me the pussy or not. I messaged her and asked her out.
Asking Her Out
Troy: BTW your hair looked nice today. I forgot to say
Malika: OHK....thanks
Troy: Mhm are you free after school tomorrow?
Malika: Yup
Troy: I'm going to chill after school tomorrow. Come on too?
Malika: Come where
Troy: In Spain
Malika: Ok
Troy: Great
I had a bit of banter with her before asking her out. IMO that set her in a good mood. I used a yes ladder in the bantering and got her laughing before this stage.
This Morning
I didn't sleep well last night because I was up completing school projects and cleaning my house. This morning I didn't feel like going to school because I was so tired so I got some sleep then spent the rest of the morning up to 2:00pm cleaning my house from head to toe.
Never bring a girl to your bachelor pad/home/apartment without having it clean. As the morning progressed I became nervous so I whatsapped a old friend asking him what to do.
Troy: Yo bro could you advise me on what to do when a girl is at my house. I'm having a gyal over later and want to fuck her. You think I should kiss her as she come inside? Or wait couple minutes...thanks. I owe you if you can help
Glenroy: lol ah. When she come in hug her and make she feel comfortable. Just gwann ( keep ) having a conversation with her and touch her
Troy: I am meeting her at school and walk go take a taxi. She ask where I was taking her and I said to chill
Glenroy: Get her in the mood
Troy: So make her laugh
Glenroy: Yeah
Troy: Do you think I should stop and get pizza before going home with her?
Glenroy: No. When you done do what you a do then you two buy
Troy: Ok. One more problem is my brother might come home while we a fuck.
Glenroy: You brother have a phone?
Troy: No. I'll have to change the lock temporarily. Sounds bad? I know. Better I have her at home instead of a bathroom in spain.
Glenroy: Lol yeah, that a true
I think his advise was on point so I followed it. After cleaning at 2:00pm I got ready and went to school. School finishes at 2:40 and I was right on time when the bell rung. Students were rushing through the gate and I would probably see her. I texted her
Troy: My class is finished. Meet me at the gate.
Malika: I'm in I.T. class
I don't text back; instead I go to her class and see her walking with a male friend. She pretends not to see me so I follow her onto the basketball court. She stands and talks with the coach for 5 minutes and I just sat on a desk and stared into space until she was ready. IMO it's better I wait till she came to me since she already saw me and kept walking away with her male friend without saying "Hi".
She comes to me and I wait till she speaks first. I don't remember what we spoke about ( I'll give it some thought and if I remember I'll put it below ). Basically we bantered all the way from school to in town. The walk is about 15 minutes. As Glenroy instructed, I followed;
just make her laugh till she gets horny. I had her laughing non-stop and I took that as a good sign.
In town I began to feel nervous and the conversation started to dry up. It was the first I'd be bringing a girl in a taxi. I just wanted it to flow and didn't want to face any objections as to why we were getting in a taxi so I cracked a joke and she laughed her head off. Like a gentleman I opened the door and let her go in first
(I believe that being a gentleman is very important).
In the taxi the conversation gets duller and her focus seemed to have shifted from me to the driver who was holding a interesting conversation with the passenger in the front seat.
I took out my phone and showed her pictures of Friday and got her smiling. Even though she was smiling she was a bit stiff. Her chest was moving up and down fast and she was breathing heavily like a horny girl. Luckily we weren't going far, in 10 minutes we reached my stop.
We walked down the road and I kept talking even though she was a bit too quiet. Sorry I can't remember what was said. I shared many jokes and I would have loved to share them with everyone.
There is a mango tree in my yard that has fruit bearing. Malika made a comment saying " when they ripe bring some for me ". I laughed and said " sure ". All the way I reassured her to come and I didn't look back.
It's very important not to look back when you give a girl a command. If she is attracted and comfortable she will follow. Looking back will only reassure her that you are unconfident in your ability to lead.
I pull the door and enter onto the veranda/porch and told her
Take off your shoes before entering. No shoes allowed inside.
Bonus points there! Getting compliance for the upcoming seduction. She has to remove a piece of clothing and right away she felt more at home.
I have 2 cats and surprisingly they were home today. Usually they would be out in the neighbours yards looking to catch the neighbours steak. Hint: Stealing the neighbours dinner. They were on the veranda sleeping and got up to greet me ( my cats are well trained ). I take them up and play with them for a minute and introduced Malika to them. Apparenttly she wasn't much of a cat lover but loved seeing me rock 2 cats in my arms. I drop them, washed my hands, and asked Malika if she wanted anything to drink. I
It was 3:30pm when we arrived home.
Troy: Want anything to drink?
Malika: No
Troy: To eat?
Malika: No!
Troy: Are you sure?
Malika: Yes! ( I purposefully asked that question to get a " yes " )
We move on to light conversation while I got myself a drink. When I looked at her she was busy with her phone. I asked her to put it away while I sat with her. I made sure to sit close to her, turn her head in my direction then I went for a kiss. She pulled away so I did the same and got up.
Remember what Chase said about push pull? That was going to be my number one savior. One step backwards and two steps forward. After being rejected to kiss her 5 times I asked her if she wanted to be toured around the house. She said " sure " so I walked her through all the rooms and made her know who lived in xyz room and what we do in abc room.
Me and my younger brother share rooms and I made sure to show her that room last. When we went in my room I showed her my bed and bros bed then I took a seat on mine and told her to come on in. She hesitated so I said " If you want to leave I can show you the door " and she came in and sat close to me. A bit too far away I should say so I slid over to her and put my right leg over her's.
For this part the conversation is very long so I'll cut that out mostly. In summary: I talked to her but wasn't sure how to go for the kiss. I know ya'll say " kiss her within 10 minutes of having her home. I delayed and played Candy Crush and Tap Tap with her. I challenged her saying
If I beat you on this game you have to do as I say but if you beat me I'll have to do as you say. My house, my rules.
She agreed and we played for about 20 minutes. It was 4:07pm and I haden't even kissed her. 37minutes alone and we were still doing friendly stuff; I begun to panic thinking I was now definitely in the friend zone.
I moved in for the kiss and she turned her head reaching for her phone. I pulled back big this time. I left the room, got some water and returned. I tried again and kept getting rejected. Everytime she said no or turned her head I stopped touching her or I left the room. Malika kept making excuses that she wasn't ready because her parents could call any second or her friends might need her. She held onto that damn phone so tight.
It's war time mates. No girl comes in my house and sits on my bed texting another man. Taking away her phone was the only option. I grabbed her phone, sat on my bed and told her if she wanted it she would have to come for it. Come get the damn phone gyal! ( A little rough, I know ). She jumped further on the bed and charged onto me for it. I hold onto her in hugging position with the phone behind her back and I lay down. We were in reversed missionary. Blah blah we flirt and I crack a couple jokes. I finally get to kiss her. Again everytime she pulls away I do the same. I even pushed her away while kissing her then pulled her back in and back out.
I'm playing with her brain mates. She does something I don't like so I push her away. She does something I like such as complimenting me and I pull her in and kiss her.
Big problem though was she wasn't kissing me back. I asked her why she won't kiss me and she told me it's a fear of kissing people or having their face close to her's.
It's now 5:30 and I only managed to kiss her. All this time we are in bed fully clothed rapped in each other's arms. I held her phone from her and she play fights for it. From missionary position to cow girl position we go fully clothed.
The Lay
Here is the part ya'll have been waiting for: The lay. At 5:40 I look at her deep in the eyes and say
Troy: Why are you still here if I'm not getting nothing?
Malika: Nothing like what? You didn't ask for anything.
Troy: I didn't know I had to spell it out.
Malika: No spell it out for me. Or give me the letter it starts with
Troy: I want the thing that starts with P and ends with Y ( pussy )
Malika: What's that? ( obviously pretending )
Troy: I want the V-A ( vagina )
Malika: You can get it. I'm going to get something from my bag. ( she gets up off my crotch and leaves the room )
Troy: ( she returns ) So come here. I'm not allowing you to have on that school uniform. Take it off and I'll give you a shorts.
Malika: I don't want this ( inspecting my pants ) I've got something better.
Troy: ( I turn away from her ) put it on.
When I turn back around she has on a blue short skirt. I got up went over to her and kiss her. She doesn't kiss back and instead sits on the bed. I sit on her lap then...
Troy: Aren't you giving me the thing?
Malika: What? My friend. We will be friend's forever.
Troy: ( you should have seen my face as I heard her say friend's forever ) What do you think of me?
Malika: I think you are a great nice friend. Fun company
Troy: That's all? What else?
Malika: You living a sad life. I'm sorry for you.
Troy: Is that how you thought of me all along?
Malika: Yes...and always will.
Troy: I'm throwing you out
Malika: Okay...get off me first ( I get off and she gets up )
Troy: ( I lean against the bed post )
Malika: Bye bye ( hearing those word reminded me of what Chase said about losing a girl at the last minute. Get your ass back in the game boy I said in my mind.
I get up and walk over to her while she was about to put on her clothes and held her waist. I take out my dick and put it in her hand. She looked at me and bit her lips.I lifted her skirt and touched her butt. Strange she had on a tights and panty earlier. Now I'm feeling pure flesh )
Troy:You have on no panty
Malika: Duh!!! I've been waiting for you to realize how long.
I held my dick, pulled up her skirt and made one big push into her pussy and she let out a moan. Immediately the gate pulled and I knew my siblings were out there. Damn not now. " Give me 5 minutes Malika ". I didn't have on a condom so took out my dick quickly. Shit!!! I put it on, lay her on the bed and begin pumping her again.
I don't know why I smelt a fowl odour from the fuck. Everytime I trusted I smelt condom mixed with some fluid. Who can tell me what I smelt?
Two minutes into trusting and I came. I switched condoms and went again for a minute before deciding to call it a day. One reason I stopped was because she was texting while I fucked her. That was like so offensive. Was I being boring? I put out my all and she just lay there staring at her phone. Well at first she was moning and hand her hand in her mouth. Then I broke the rhythem and she checked her phone.
She got up and I helped her gather her things. I looked outside at my siblings. I had changed the locks as said before just incase they had a key.
I looked at Malika and said
Troy: Sorry about that. Next time I'll give you a longer session.
Malika: What?...ok ( frieghtened look )
When I said that I knew something was " off ". I think the error there was telling her what my intentions were: I wanted her back again. IMO I should have waited till the following day before suggesting meeting again. What do you guys think?
We were still in my room; I look out through the window to make sure the coast was clear then took her to the backdoor and let her out. I gave her taxi fare and told her I couldn't follow her up the road, unfortunately, and that I would text her. We said bye and that was that.
We started at 5:50 and ended 5:57pm.
Post-Coital Tone ( Preventing Sex Regret )
One hour later I texted her:
Troy: Hey
I enjoyed the time spent with you. You are a great girl. I like that and I like you for your personality. I hope you are great. Smile
If you aren't home do reach safely. Kiss kiss.
Nobody has to know. secret okay.
Troy: ( I found this one from one of Chase's articles ) That was pretty wonderful. I'm starting to really like you quite a bit. I'm glad we met and are getting to know each other so well... you're a pretty great gal.
Malika: Ahmm...ok....I'm home though from about 10 minutes ago still
Troy: Okay goodnight
Malika: Ok
The End
So what did I do wrong from start to finish? I sure need to work on my rhythem and stamina. Any thing else? Thanks again to everyone who hwlped me get laid.
Troy
