This is my first ever FR write-up. This is a FR of my 2nd meet up with GPGirl. Golden Pony because her hair is golden brown and she wears it in a pony tail flowing behind her. She's a HB8 fitness model type, 22yo. https://www.instagram.com/nina.1702/?hl=en
I say only HB8 because while I think she has a 9 or 10/10 face, plus fit body, her personality is rather rigid (not flowy and traditionally feminine) and she doesn't have the curves that I really like on a woman. This was a pretty spontaneous meet up. On Thursday she flaked on me.
Then on Friday we ran into each other in town while I was sitting on a bench eating döner after a gym workout. 5x4 @ 175kgs on trap bar dead lifts. T-levels soaring. I went into a cosmetics store for 5 minutes and we chatted while she shopped for shampoo (Jesus her indecisiveness on what to buy was hilarious, glad I'm not a woman in that regard, lol). Smoothest part was some hand on hand kino commenting how her eyes matched her hair, which matched a jacket she was wearing, but that her red nails threw it all off. I would have stayed longer but I was heading off to coach a practice. 10 minutes after I leave she texts me this:
Which led to our meet up this evening (I'm in Germany). She drives to meet me. I initiate a hug greeting and she gives me a very light, timid, hug. I lead her along a path through this open field high up on the side of a hill, a short drive from my apartment. It has gorgeous views of the rolling hills past our small town at the base of the hill winding its way through the valley. She has never been there before. I give her shit about being a travel agent and not even knowing the nice spots in her own town. To be fair though I'm a sunset connoisseur and know tons of good spots in the area with views on views on views.
I lead her up and around to the soccer field that my club uses for baseball practice. She knows that I'm going to teach her how to throw a baseball, but I never told her where we were going to do it. We use the back entrance and I unlock it so we can go in and sit in the dugout. I proceed to teach her how to throw a baseball. Lots of purposeful touch. Positive reinforcement. Having a fun time. I am the teacher. She is the student. Great frame to be in. She's opening up. Expressing herself.
We spend about 30 minutes at the field before we leave. As we leave, but before we walk through this mini path through foliage to get back to the open field, I lightly grab her chin and turn her face towards mine and go in for a kiss. Kiss for like 30 seconds, no tongue, I end it before she does. Either right before the kiss or immediately after the kiss something came up and I replied maybe you can come over sometime and teach me German, to which she replied yes she would like that. [Should I have pulled the trigger there and invited her home (3 minute drive away from where we were)?]
We walk back into the field. We kiss again for a bit but this time she ends it before I do. We walk halfway down the hill to a level area and I suggest we sit and watch the sunset (probably 30 minutes to go at that point). She sits down on the grass and I jog down to my car to get a bag I brought with some blankets in it (plus wine and dark chocolate, I know I'm a hopeless(ful) romantic lol).
I walk back up the hill with the bag. When I'm 80% of the way towards her she says 'Run!'. I act like I can't understand her, putting a hand to my ear, saying 'What?'. Kind of funny because while her English is good, I do have to double take occasionally when she speaks English. She repeats herself more emphatically. I act like I'm going to lay down in the grass and yell up to her to come carry me. She laughs. I walk up to her, take out the blanket, and lay it down.
She initially doesn't move over to sit on it, when I invite her to. I sit in the middle of the blanket. After a minute she says move over and playfully pushes me, I scootch over so now we're side by side, shoulder to shoulder. I pull out the wine, but she says she doesn't like red wine, so I don't even bother with pulling out the chocolate. I put my arm around her at one point. I go in for another kiss and she turns her head so I just kiss her cheek and then act like nothing happened.
After a bit I sit behind her, beginning to massage her back, she says how she doesn't like back massages, they hurt a bit. She doesn't stop my touch or move away from it though, so I don't view this as a general 'please stop touching me'. I ask her what she does like. She says how she likes when people run their fingers lightly along her skin. I proceed to do that on her forearm. In general on dates I usually experiment to see if a girl responds well to massages, playing with her hair, or the light touch GPGirl likes. I like all three of those and challenge the girl to please me so it's not just me giving her pleasure.
GPGirl wasn't touching me much in reponse so maybe I should have dialed back my kino a bit, though she seemed to enjoy my touch. I'm super kinestetic though and touch has truly become a language in and of itself for me. Maybe I need to work on the balance of it though, speaking vs. listening. She was leaning back against me between my legs though so I figured she wouldn't be sitting like that if she didn't want to be touched at all. At one point I swoop my arms and pick her up and put her on my lap for 30 seconds then lift her off and place her back in front of me.
The conversation is pretty good. Talking about where we'd live if we could live anywhere. Dream job. How she doesn't know what she wants to do. Saying she needs to think about it more. I go into my brief spiel about how it isn't a matter of thinking, but rather a matter of feeling. Without going into my whole philosophy about this, I believe that one must spend time in silent solitude if you truly want to recieve your divine purpose (could be meditation, could be prayer, could be watching a sunset lol). Sometimes it comes as a grand plan, you see the peak you're destined to reach. Othertimes you only get a slight urge to take a step towards something small. Only realizing later on down the path that life has you walking up a big mountain. We also talk about fitness and guy/girl bodies. Like what I think makes for a feminine body and what she looks for in a man's body.
The sun goes below the clouds at the horizon and she says she should leave because she is meeting up with her best friend and wants to shower and eat before doing so. We walk down to our cars. I suggest we go back to my place so she can teach me some German on my white board. She's not into it. She goes to hug me bye and I go to push her up against her car so I can kiss her (playfully though, not super agressive out of no where), but she resists that so I back off and start leaning back against my car. We talk for a minute, I suggest we can write later and perhaps meet up after she hangs out with her friend for a bit. She seems open to this, but not very enthusiastic about it. I blow her a kiss from my reclined standing position and we get in our respective cars. In total we spent an hour and a half with each other.
My only regret is not knowing if she would have come home with me at the initial teach me German suggestion before we watched the sunset. Like I said before, I love sunsets, and watching one has intrinsic value for me, and watching it with a beautiful girl adds to the experience. So if I could have had some certainty of taking the girl home to my place and fucking like animals I would have pulled the trigger with that, but the vibe I get from her is that it would take some work to open her up to that so I went the relaxing sunset route instead, which provided some good conversational deep dives and body to body kino, some sexual tension, without much escalation though.
Honestly I wasn't going to write her the rest of tonight. Then I got home and up to my apartment and saw that the clouds had taken on a new life of their own with color. I regretted not staying a bit longer at the sunset spot. I take a quick video and send it to her saying:
Maybe I shouldn't have replied to her last message. The 'we can hangout at your own risk' is putting the ball in her court perhaps, giving her the frame, a mistake. Maybe I should have double texted her an hour or two later saying how cool the moon looks or just a casual what’s up. Not really about that though because I wake up kind of early tomorrow to coach/train and like to be able to sleep-in with the girl if I’m gonna be up all night banging and don’t want to be tired for coaching.
In general, I know I need to be more tactful and calibrated with my kino too. It can come across as too strong to some girls. Definitely not in an assault/too forceful type of way, because I'm very cognizant about backing off when there is resistance. When I was first starting out with game I had no idea how to touch girls, didn't touch them at all, and got friendzoned, so now in the subsequent years I've probably gone a bit too far in the other direction. Too much touch.
And my texting. Oh lord. I feel like I’m clueless, super logical, unable to speak cat and really know what a girl is meaning to say lol.
Thank you to everyone who read up to this point! Now, any general thoughts/pointers or recommendations for how to proceed this week?
Like when to send her a message.
What to send.
How to get the meet up.
What kind of meet up to suggest (Language class at my place? Movie at my place? Etc.)
If you want to read more about how I met this girl you can do so below and the lead up to the 2nd meet up flake a couple days ago ->
I'm living in a small town in Germany for the summer. Here, being from 'Merica basically makes you a small-time celebrity. I saw GPGirl (link to Nina's instagram account) at a party in May and danced with her a bit. Was trying to get a buddy to dance with the friend she was with, but that didn't work out and the friend dragged her away from me. Fast forward to an outdoor festival on Aug. 10th. I see her there and at one point make eye contact on the dancefloor, but she quickly looks away. I try a couple more times to make eye contact, but she doesn't give me any more. I figured she wasn't interested.
A couple hours later she's dancing with two friends, one of whom fancies me (but also fancies tons of guys in general). GPGirl taps me on the shoulder and I turn around seeing her with the two friends, thinking she wanted to get my attention so that I would make a move on her friend. So I go spin her friend around, dance with her for like 30 seconds, then return to my friends a few yards away. The next day I message the friend on Instagram saying 'Yea ask GPGirl what she thinks about me
she's really pretty and has an attractive energy about her'.
Two days later I get a message saying, 'It's me, GPGirl from last Saturday I was never expecting that you would remember me after our little conversation in May...but nice to hear'. We exchange a few messages and she gives me her number. We immediately set up a meet up after I suggest we go for a walk together. She replies 'How about tomorrow? (Wednesday)'. I actually already had another date set up for 8pm, but agree to meet her at 6:30pm saying that I can only stay for an hour. My thinking is that with only an hour it gives me enough time to generate enough comfort to get the 2nd meet up to be at my place for a movie or something.
The next day she messages me in the afternoon saying she feels bad and asks if we can find another day for our walk, suggesting maybe tomorrow during her lunch break if she feels good again. I'm free at that time and agree. The next morning she messages saying she doesn't feel better and I'm like cool, hope you start feeling better soon. Later that evening she asks if I have time the next day for a walk. I say, 'not tomorrow...but definitely a day next week'. Probably should have said 'but maybe a day...' instead of definitely.
We agree to meet up the following Tuesday evening at 8pm for an ice cream. The evening before she asks if we can change the ice cream to a walk and meet earlier at 6:30pm. I say I don't finish coaching until 7pm so the earliest I could meet is 7:30pm. She ends up picking me up at 7:30pm and drives us to the place where we'll walk. The moment I sit down in the car I ask who are you, jokingly reintroducing myself to her, shaking her hand, as a way to break the ice, do some kino, and get the interaction going on a fun note. Maybe I should have made some excuse and seen if she wanted to come up to my flat? Also, side note, I like hugging a girl as a greeting usually for a 1st meet up, but that is awkward as fuck in a car hahaha. I navigate her to our walking spot (winding country side road through open fields with great views). We're talking in a mix of German and English, majority in English, her English is much better than my German.
15 minutes in she's been lighting me up with detective like questions and I've been doing my best to remain playful, dodging questions, flipping them, teasing her, giving genuine answers occasionally (Germans are so mechanical on average lol). Some light kino like touching on the arms. We go further down the road than I had ever been and see that there's a path into a field leading to big wooden steps with a hunting box at the top (idk the proper name for it). We climb that, doesn't feel super sturdy and end up talking on the outdoor portion at the top. Amazing views all around, pretty girl standing next to me and all.
More kino, playing with her hands, body to body contact. She's mirroring my body language. I go in for a kiss and she turns so I give her a not so smooth cheek/side of head kiss. I immediately return to the conversation as if nothing happened. The sun is setting and up on the platform it is kind of windy, she only has a jean jacket on (I should have brought blankets!!) and says she's getting cold. We climb back down, myself walking in front of her on the stairs. When my feet hit the ground, she grabs onto my neck/shoulders from behind, maybe thinking I'll walk forward a couple steps carrying her and gently let her onto the ground. I turn it into a full on piggyback ride for a minute, even squatting down with her on my back, showing off my leg strength.
At one point on the platform she checked her phone and sent a message, saying it was her guy cousin. I just ignored her while she was doing that. I don't check my phone when I'm hanging out in a girl's precense and expect the same from the girl. Halfway back to the car, she checks her phone again, which I thought was weird because we were at a point where the view was the best, sun was almost at the horizon, best part of the sunset
She says she's cold and tired and wants to go home so she can sleep because she wakes up at 7am the next day for work (which I believe for a number of reasons, though maybe a girl could call in sick one day if she spent the night with an alpha) and I don't argue because it kind of is cold (even for me who does some cold immersion training) and I forgot to bring blankets or have her bring blankets. I fucking love sunsets though and almost had a mind to be like, nah I'm going to stay here and I'll walk home it's fine. Probably would have been a more alpha move.
Instead it feels like she's in a rush as we head back to her car. She drops me off 10 minutes before 9pm. She tells me we can do this again sometime, though she's leaving in a couple days for a week vacation.. My gut tells me she sonned me and left to meet up with someone else at 9pm (Germans are punctual). Putting two together with the initial text she got at like 8pm, a 2nd text at like 8:30pm and then beginning to rush to drop me back off.
That was Tuesday evening. Now it's Friday and she leaves for a week at a beach. I sent her a message along the lines of 'Have fun on your trip!' this morning. I figure the week at the beach may reset whatever impression she has of me and I can resume contact and go for a 2nd meet up when she gets back.
I say only HB8 because while I think she has a 9 or 10/10 face, plus fit body, her personality is rather rigid (not flowy and traditionally feminine) and she doesn't have the curves that I really like on a woman. This was a pretty spontaneous meet up. On Thursday she flaked on me.
Then on Friday we ran into each other in town while I was sitting on a bench eating döner after a gym workout. 5x4 @ 175kgs on trap bar dead lifts. T-levels soaring. I went into a cosmetics store for 5 minutes and we chatted while she shopped for shampoo (Jesus her indecisiveness on what to buy was hilarious, glad I'm not a woman in that regard, lol). Smoothest part was some hand on hand kino commenting how her eyes matched her hair, which matched a jacket she was wearing, but that her red nails threw it all off. I would have stayed longer but I was heading off to coach a practice. 10 minutes after I leave she texts me this:
Which led to our meet up this evening (I'm in Germany). She drives to meet me. I initiate a hug greeting and she gives me a very light, timid, hug. I lead her along a path through this open field high up on the side of a hill, a short drive from my apartment. It has gorgeous views of the rolling hills past our small town at the base of the hill winding its way through the valley. She has never been there before. I give her shit about being a travel agent and not even knowing the nice spots in her own town. To be fair though I'm a sunset connoisseur and know tons of good spots in the area with views on views on views.
I lead her up and around to the soccer field that my club uses for baseball practice. She knows that I'm going to teach her how to throw a baseball, but I never told her where we were going to do it. We use the back entrance and I unlock it so we can go in and sit in the dugout. I proceed to teach her how to throw a baseball. Lots of purposeful touch. Positive reinforcement. Having a fun time. I am the teacher. She is the student. Great frame to be in. She's opening up. Expressing herself.
We spend about 30 minutes at the field before we leave. As we leave, but before we walk through this mini path through foliage to get back to the open field, I lightly grab her chin and turn her face towards mine and go in for a kiss. Kiss for like 30 seconds, no tongue, I end it before she does. Either right before the kiss or immediately after the kiss something came up and I replied maybe you can come over sometime and teach me German, to which she replied yes she would like that. [Should I have pulled the trigger there and invited her home (3 minute drive away from where we were)?]
We walk back into the field. We kiss again for a bit but this time she ends it before I do. We walk halfway down the hill to a level area and I suggest we sit and watch the sunset (probably 30 minutes to go at that point). She sits down on the grass and I jog down to my car to get a bag I brought with some blankets in it (plus wine and dark chocolate, I know I'm a hopeless(ful) romantic lol).
I walk back up the hill with the bag. When I'm 80% of the way towards her she says 'Run!'. I act like I can't understand her, putting a hand to my ear, saying 'What?'. Kind of funny because while her English is good, I do have to double take occasionally when she speaks English. She repeats herself more emphatically. I act like I'm going to lay down in the grass and yell up to her to come carry me. She laughs. I walk up to her, take out the blanket, and lay it down.
She initially doesn't move over to sit on it, when I invite her to. I sit in the middle of the blanket. After a minute she says move over and playfully pushes me, I scootch over so now we're side by side, shoulder to shoulder. I pull out the wine, but she says she doesn't like red wine, so I don't even bother with pulling out the chocolate. I put my arm around her at one point. I go in for another kiss and she turns her head so I just kiss her cheek and then act like nothing happened.
After a bit I sit behind her, beginning to massage her back, she says how she doesn't like back massages, they hurt a bit. She doesn't stop my touch or move away from it though, so I don't view this as a general 'please stop touching me'. I ask her what she does like. She says how she likes when people run their fingers lightly along her skin. I proceed to do that on her forearm. In general on dates I usually experiment to see if a girl responds well to massages, playing with her hair, or the light touch GPGirl likes. I like all three of those and challenge the girl to please me so it's not just me giving her pleasure.
GPGirl wasn't touching me much in reponse so maybe I should have dialed back my kino a bit, though she seemed to enjoy my touch. I'm super kinestetic though and touch has truly become a language in and of itself for me. Maybe I need to work on the balance of it though, speaking vs. listening. She was leaning back against me between my legs though so I figured she wouldn't be sitting like that if she didn't want to be touched at all. At one point I swoop my arms and pick her up and put her on my lap for 30 seconds then lift her off and place her back in front of me.
The conversation is pretty good. Talking about where we'd live if we could live anywhere. Dream job. How she doesn't know what she wants to do. Saying she needs to think about it more. I go into my brief spiel about how it isn't a matter of thinking, but rather a matter of feeling. Without going into my whole philosophy about this, I believe that one must spend time in silent solitude if you truly want to recieve your divine purpose (could be meditation, could be prayer, could be watching a sunset lol). Sometimes it comes as a grand plan, you see the peak you're destined to reach. Othertimes you only get a slight urge to take a step towards something small. Only realizing later on down the path that life has you walking up a big mountain. We also talk about fitness and guy/girl bodies. Like what I think makes for a feminine body and what she looks for in a man's body.
The sun goes below the clouds at the horizon and she says she should leave because she is meeting up with her best friend and wants to shower and eat before doing so. We walk down to our cars. I suggest we go back to my place so she can teach me some German on my white board. She's not into it. She goes to hug me bye and I go to push her up against her car so I can kiss her (playfully though, not super agressive out of no where), but she resists that so I back off and start leaning back against my car. We talk for a minute, I suggest we can write later and perhaps meet up after she hangs out with her friend for a bit. She seems open to this, but not very enthusiastic about it. I blow her a kiss from my reclined standing position and we get in our respective cars. In total we spent an hour and a half with each other.
My only regret is not knowing if she would have come home with me at the initial teach me German suggestion before we watched the sunset. Like I said before, I love sunsets, and watching one has intrinsic value for me, and watching it with a beautiful girl adds to the experience. So if I could have had some certainty of taking the girl home to my place and fucking like animals I would have pulled the trigger with that, but the vibe I get from her is that it would take some work to open her up to that so I went the relaxing sunset route instead, which provided some good conversational deep dives and body to body kino, some sexual tension, without much escalation though.
Honestly I wasn't going to write her the rest of tonight. Then I got home and up to my apartment and saw that the clouds had taken on a new life of their own with color. I regretted not staying a bit longer at the sunset spot. I take a quick video and send it to her saying:
Maybe I shouldn't have replied to her last message. The 'we can hangout at your own risk' is putting the ball in her court perhaps, giving her the frame, a mistake. Maybe I should have double texted her an hour or two later saying how cool the moon looks or just a casual what’s up. Not really about that though because I wake up kind of early tomorrow to coach/train and like to be able to sleep-in with the girl if I’m gonna be up all night banging and don’t want to be tired for coaching.
In general, I know I need to be more tactful and calibrated with my kino too. It can come across as too strong to some girls. Definitely not in an assault/too forceful type of way, because I'm very cognizant about backing off when there is resistance. When I was first starting out with game I had no idea how to touch girls, didn't touch them at all, and got friendzoned, so now in the subsequent years I've probably gone a bit too far in the other direction. Too much touch.
And my texting. Oh lord. I feel like I’m clueless, super logical, unable to speak cat and really know what a girl is meaning to say lol.
Thank you to everyone who read up to this point! Now, any general thoughts/pointers or recommendations for how to proceed this week?
Like when to send her a message.
What to send.
How to get the meet up.
What kind of meet up to suggest (Language class at my place? Movie at my place? Etc.)
If you want to read more about how I met this girl you can do so below and the lead up to the 2nd meet up flake a couple days ago ->
I'm living in a small town in Germany for the summer. Here, being from 'Merica basically makes you a small-time celebrity. I saw GPGirl (link to Nina's instagram account) at a party in May and danced with her a bit. Was trying to get a buddy to dance with the friend she was with, but that didn't work out and the friend dragged her away from me. Fast forward to an outdoor festival on Aug. 10th. I see her there and at one point make eye contact on the dancefloor, but she quickly looks away. I try a couple more times to make eye contact, but she doesn't give me any more. I figured she wasn't interested.
A couple hours later she's dancing with two friends, one of whom fancies me (but also fancies tons of guys in general). GPGirl taps me on the shoulder and I turn around seeing her with the two friends, thinking she wanted to get my attention so that I would make a move on her friend. So I go spin her friend around, dance with her for like 30 seconds, then return to my friends a few yards away. The next day I message the friend on Instagram saying 'Yea ask GPGirl what she thinks about me
she's really pretty and has an attractive energy about her'. Two days later I get a message saying, 'It's me, GPGirl from last Saturday I was never expecting that you would remember me after our little conversation in May...but nice to hear
'. We exchange a few messages and she gives me her number. We immediately set up a meet up after I suggest we go for a walk together. She replies 'How about tomorrow? (Wednesday)'. I actually already had another date set up for 8pm, but agree to meet her at 6:30pm saying that I can only stay for an hour. My thinking is that with only an hour it gives me enough time to generate enough comfort to get the 2nd meet up to be at my place for a movie or something.The next day she messages me in the afternoon saying she feels bad and asks if we can find another day for our walk, suggesting maybe tomorrow during her lunch break if she feels good again. I'm free at that time and agree. The next morning she messages saying she doesn't feel better and I'm like cool, hope you start feeling better soon. Later that evening she asks if I have time the next day for a walk. I say, 'not tomorrow...but definitely a day next week
'. Probably should have said 'but maybe a day...' instead of definitely.We agree to meet up the following Tuesday evening at 8pm for an ice cream. The evening before she asks if we can change the ice cream to a walk and meet earlier at 6:30pm. I say I don't finish coaching until 7pm so the earliest I could meet is 7:30pm. She ends up picking me up at 7:30pm and drives us to the place where we'll walk. The moment I sit down in the car I ask who are you, jokingly reintroducing myself to her, shaking her hand, as a way to break the ice, do some kino, and get the interaction going on a fun note. Maybe I should have made some excuse and seen if she wanted to come up to my flat? Also, side note, I like hugging a girl as a greeting usually for a 1st meet up, but that is awkward as fuck in a car hahaha. I navigate her to our walking spot (winding country side road through open fields with great views). We're talking in a mix of German and English, majority in English, her English is much better than my German.
15 minutes in she's been lighting me up with detective like questions and I've been doing my best to remain playful, dodging questions, flipping them, teasing her, giving genuine answers occasionally (Germans are so mechanical on average lol). Some light kino like touching on the arms. We go further down the road than I had ever been and see that there's a path into a field leading to big wooden steps with a hunting box at the top (idk the proper name for it). We climb that, doesn't feel super sturdy and end up talking on the outdoor portion at the top. Amazing views all around, pretty girl standing next to me and all.
More kino, playing with her hands, body to body contact. She's mirroring my body language. I go in for a kiss and she turns so I give her a not so smooth cheek/side of head kiss. I immediately return to the conversation as if nothing happened. The sun is setting and up on the platform it is kind of windy, she only has a jean jacket on (I should have brought blankets!!) and says she's getting cold. We climb back down, myself walking in front of her on the stairs. When my feet hit the ground, she grabs onto my neck/shoulders from behind, maybe thinking I'll walk forward a couple steps carrying her and gently let her onto the ground. I turn it into a full on piggyback ride for a minute, even squatting down with her on my back, showing off my leg strength.
At one point on the platform she checked her phone and sent a message, saying it was her guy cousin. I just ignored her while she was doing that. I don't check my phone when I'm hanging out in a girl's precense and expect the same from the girl. Halfway back to the car, she checks her phone again, which I thought was weird because we were at a point where the view was the best, sun was almost at the horizon, best part of the sunset
She says she's cold and tired and wants to go home so she can sleep because she wakes up at 7am the next day for work (which I believe for a number of reasons, though maybe a girl could call in sick one day if she spent the night with an alpha) and I don't argue because it kind of is cold (even for me who does some cold immersion training) and I forgot to bring blankets or have her bring blankets. I fucking love sunsets though and almost had a mind to be like, nah I'm going to stay here and I'll walk home it's fine. Probably would have been a more alpha move.
Instead it feels like she's in a rush as we head back to her car. She drops me off 10 minutes before 9pm. She tells me we can do this again sometime, though she's leaving in a couple days for a week vacation.. My gut tells me she sonned me and left to meet up with someone else at 9pm (Germans are punctual). Putting two together with the initial text she got at like 8pm, a 2nd text at like 8:30pm and then beginning to rush to drop me back off.
That was Tuesday evening. Now it's Friday and she leaves for a week at a beach. I sent her a message along the lines of 'Have fun on your trip!' this morning. I figure the week at the beach may reset whatever impression she has of me and I can resume contact and go for a 2nd meet up when she gets back.