27.8.2019 Lots of mini approaches

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I changed my game plan a bit. It's been 3 months of practice. Instead of instant dating, I decided to do number farming. I will start breaking down these mini approaches to see what can improve on. I did a total of 21 approaches starting at 3.30PM and finishing at 5.50PM. These numbers are shit but over time with FRs, I should be able to improve on these stats. I got blown out by most of these girls because daygame has become much harder in the last view years.

I could easily instant date one of them but they are never qualified, most of them have to go back to there own country. It's easier to just number farm and let them decide if they want to date me.

1st girl just walked away

2nd girl walked away but I followed and plowed a bit, but she was a no girl. (gut feeling) So i decided not to waste time. Listening to the interaction, I realize that I made the right decision.

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3rd girl Abby

F: Sorry, I just saw you from over there....and .....I thought you look very cute

HB: yeah ahh thank you

F: your from China right?

Next time: (you look like......... your from China)

HB: no

F: where you from?

HB: Taiwan, I'm in a rush because it's my lunchtime

F: oh, just 2 seconds, very quickly. I know you need to go to work and basically I need to work as well. I work in this area. I like to take your number and we go for coffee sometime.

HB

F: basically it's my lunch break as well. I saw you and I thought wow, you look very yeah

NEXT TIME NOTE: (look very pretty)

HB: thank you

F: no the way you look kind of thing. Can I take your number and we go for coffee sometime, yeah

+ take details

HB: ok

F: you take care yeah, I tex you. Bye-bye

NOTE: I stumbled a bit because there was no warm-up. I don't normally warm up, I just jump in. If it works, it works, if it doesn't then it doesn't matter. Too many girls to practice game on. I stumbled also because I haven't number farmed for a while unlike how I instant date.

+ She didn't text back, so I guess it's good she didn't waste my time

1 minute 34 seconds

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number 4

F: excuse me um, sorry..........I just saw you from over there.....and...........I think you look really cute

+hb confused

F: knee g duw gur yui ma, I sure knee hun ker eye

HB

F: knee jie narley joe some more?

F: you look like a tourist

HB; work

F: really you work but you look very young

HB: haha

F: you look like a student the way you are dressed.

F: what do you do, I'm thinking maybe

HB; waitress

F: like a Chinese restaurant

HB: yes

F: chicken chow mein, beef with black bean sauce, that kind of thing

HB: yeah

F: basically I'm working right now and I need to go back to work but I think you look very gorgeous and I don't have much time. So I like to take your number...and we go for coffee sometime

NOTE: very good doing the statement of intent. (you look very gorgeous)

HB: thank you

F; what's your number then, alright

+ take number

F: great, what you doing today, you look like your shopping or something.

HB: just buy something

F: like handbags and shoes

HB: blah

F: or just looking around for good looking men

NOTE: (good)

HB: blah

F; is it, so Michelle. I got your number. We definitely need to meet for coffee and I need to get going so. Take care bye-bye

NOTE: this one is good. Also when you took her number, you didn't run off and you built some connection

2 minutes and 14 seconds
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girl 5 walked off and I didn't chase her or plowed. Could have but didn't

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number 6

F; excuse me, I saw you from over there...and....I think you look really cute

NOTE: perfect

F: need jie though gor yui ma, war sure knee hun ker eye

hb shy nods

F: basically I'm working right now and I don't have much time...... but I like to take your number and we go for coffee some time.

NOTE slow down and pause more

HB: blah blah

F: sorry I can't hear you

NOTE: I got confused with her, I'm not sure if she is trying to reject me or not. She speaks so quietly, even in the audio recordings

F: are you like a tourist or are you?

HB: no

F: oh your studying here

HB; yeah

F: you look like you fashion or something, what do you study

HB: I study art

F: art, like Picasso. Can you draw like Picasso

HB: blah blah

F: your English is good by the way, you sound like you from china. Are you from China

HB: no from Malasia

F: knee how

+ she just speaks very quietly because I believe she is not confident with her English. works and study at the same time

+ this girl like me but she saw me approach other girls. I text her and she told me she was busy. I might have fucked it up or she wasn't interested in the first place. Around 2 minutes in my gut feeling tells me she is interested and that's why she was looking at where I was going. I then spotted her looking at me talking to other girls lol. It happens, what can you do
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number 7 is married but she was smiling. lasted 30 secs

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Number 8 OLIVIA

NOTE IMPORTANT: THE ONE WHO YOU SET A DATE WITH.


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Quick notes:
Korean
student

That's it
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direct

NOTE: perfect

HB

F: war sure knee hun ker eye, where you from, where you from?

HB: Korea

F: onion eye seye O

HB: haha yeah

F: haha

NOTE: Getting much confident. Good

F: my name is F by the way. You look like a tourist, you don't look like you live here

HB: yeah i live here

F: so are you a student, you look quite young

HB: yep I study here

F: I like your glasses, you look very stylish today

HB: thank you

F: basically I saw you from over there and think you look quite cute. I'm actually busy right now. I like to take your number and we go for coffee some time, how does that sound?

HB: ok

F: sure, okay good

F: yeah I'm still working, that's the problem. If not I take you around

NOTE: don't say (if not I take you around) less is more

F; what's your number?

+ Take details

F: my name is F. I see you later, yeah bye bye

minutes 2.22 and have date

NOTE: the reason why this one worked was your level of confidence, not so much the words you were saying. I think she just curious because the interaction is so short and she knows nothing about you.

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Yujin. Korean. looking for a job. been in Uk for 2 years. She tex me back and we are arranged a date

F: direct

HB: haha

F; where you from? you look like your from China or something

HB: oh no

F: Taiwan

HB: no

F: Korea

HB: yeah

F: onion eye seye O

HB: haha

F: what are you doing down here, you look like a student

HB: ahh I'm not student

F: what do you do then?

HB: I'm looking for a job in Uk

F: really, oh. So how you look so young

HB: I'm not young haha

F: but you look young, what the secret?

HB: er I don't know haha

F: you know what, I'm meant to be working right now but because you're quite pretty, so you kind of stopped me

HB: yeah

F: I like to basically take your number and we go for coffee sometime

HB: ahh yeah ok

F: yeah sounds good. okay

F: So how long you been in the UK for then?

HB: I think about 2 years

+ exchanging number

HB: do you in here

F: yes I live basically, do you know where Stratford is?

HB: yes I heard of it

F: basically I live in that area

F: whats your name then?

HB: Yujin

F: it's all your fought I'm late, it's because of you

HB: haha oh really haha

F: no problem no problem. I text you and we go to coffee some time

HB: yeah it's okay. take care bye bye

F: bye bye

This took about 2 minutes.

NOTE: still testing and measuring, to find out which one converts to more dates

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Ivy will be back next week to set a date. Maybe??? who knows

F: direct

F: war sure knee hun ker eye

F: where are you from?

HB: China?

F: wah sure knee hun pearl len

HB: thank you

NOTE: 3 types of SOIs. GOOD!!!

F; what you doing down here

HB: study

F; oh you studying, you look like you study fashion or something?

HB: haha film

F: basically I'm busy right now, I'm meant to be working so I just finished my lunch but I like to take your number and we go for a coffee sometime.

HB: em yes sure sure

F: ok right

HB: where r u from?

F: basically I was born here but my family from HK

F: whats you number

+ take number

F: because of you, I'm late haha

F: I got you details, I call you and we go for coffee sometime

HB: nice to meet you

both: bye bye

NOTE: you need to speak slower. You speak in a very rushed tone. Not good

2 minutes and 30 seconds

Goddamn!!!!!! I love reading this shit

Your getting better man! And I love that you keep grinding, you won't be stopped. Keep it up

Marcellus

Marcellus said:

Goddamn!!!!!! I love reading this shit

Your getting better man! And I love that you keep grinding, you won't be stopped. Keep it up

Marcellus

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Appreciate it

Yeah, it's difficult. Just got to keep grinding lol

Again well done for running street game in London, it aint easy

BUT, I cannot be bothered to read these FR's at ALL, I think it may be useful to just summarise them;

Who was the girl ?
What was the time / style of the approach ?
What went well ? Did you make her laugh ? Did she start to invest ?
Want went badly ?

Also include some information about your body language, voice etc ... and hers

At the end of all the summaries of the approaches you can then summarise what went well and what went badly in ALL the approaches.

All I got from this is you seem to ask for the number very very quickly without building attraction and rapport. How flaky are they ?

sumwunimetonce said:

Again well done for running street game in London, it aint easy

BUT, I cannot be bothered to read these FR's at ALL, I think it may be useful to just summarise them;

Who was the girl ?
What was the time / style of the approach ?
What went well ? Did you make her laugh ? Did she start to invest ?
Want went badly ?

Also include some information about your body language, voice etc ... and hers

At the end of all the summaries of the approaches you can then summarise what went well and what went badly in ALL the approaches.

All I got from this is you seem to ask for the number very very quickly without building attraction and rapport. How flaky are they ?

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Most of them are quite flaky. I only started to number farming, so I'm still experimenting. I find the overall day game has become harder in Central London. I feel by breaking it down into piece, eventually, I beable to figure what I need to add and what not to add.

I do feel like body language and tonality will just take care of itself over time. I do mention body language and tonality from time to time in my FRs. Which ones, I can not remember lol. I wrote too much.

In some ways, your right, my inner game or boundaries is not quite there yet. There is still a lot of unstifling that needs to happen before I center myself and develop core confidence. This in itself affects my conversion rate on number farming. I feel the only way round this is reference experience and chatting to more girls

Most of the things you mentioned is already in most of my FRs but in much, much more detail.

Because my reports are so bloody long, I don't get much feedback. I don't expect anyone to go through every one of my report lol. I do feel most of the pick up courses I looked at, is already in my subconscious and I just need to bring it out by talking to girls and writing detailed FRs. At the moment, there's too many sticking points to work on. There isn't one particular sticking point, there is many.

Cheersmate, thanks for the advice

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Yeah people are a bit shit at giving feedback so thats why i suggested the shorter format.

Try Tom Torero's stuff if you have not already. Summarise each approach with info on the stack -> attraction etc but only if relevant.

Might help get more responses

Great work here. Who's up for meeting in West Central London?
What I've learnt is that there's no need to take a number unless she agrees to a date first.
A nice girl would rather give her number than cause any confrontation. It's much easier to ignore texts and they like the validation anyway.
Not a criticism. The dedication above is respectable.