I gave a field report, and some other posts there, but I got just lambasted for being "creepy." I was genuinely trying to learm=n, though, and hope here here you'l be more supportive. I talking about an interaction with a female doctor that was an epiphany for me, and went well, by my lights, but got criticized, I repeat, for being "creepy," which is kinda oxy moronic in a pickup forum; I will see her again on Friday, which I am looking forward to, but wouldn't count as a field report, given I have already seen her. I have dabbled for years, but I think I have finally started to figure out just how important body language is, in interaction; I never experienced this before because I never into a long -enough conversation with a stranger, to experience this, but with a doctor, having an otherwise normal conversation, I was able to effect attraction, and that was a first. I don't have any confidence in hooking strangers off the street, still, but I do think that I know now how to spark attraction, once a conversation is started, and that leads to lessening the number of kinks in my game. I never tried slowing down whilst talking to a woman, and it worked well. Keep in mind, security was called on me years back at a college, when I tried to kino escalate. I think I'm a little more calibrated, now...