LR  Social Circle Extraction

Hue

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After a pretty good shift at work I leave to my old bar in a sociable mood. Because of how I am expected to talk with my tables now I leave pretty "warmed up" to talk to people. I also have been reading more Robert Greene and seeing the effect of playing by some of the rules of life (;

Also during my shift some friends came into see me. One was a really hot girl who was holding me by my arm as I "escorted her" to the bathroom. This helped with preselection among my coworkers the rest of the shift.

When I'm there I'm greeted by one of my favorite gay friends who's with a big party of people who've just come back from a concert. I talk to a girl from the concert who signaled to me her boyfriend is about to move away so they are getting the best of eachother while he's still around. I also get introduced to two of her friends who seem quite interested in me.

We switch bars and talk. I allude to going into a deeper conversation later on with one of the girls and she's very intrigued. It was about getting into graduate school and I said all I have to sell is my story. She asked what it was and I said we don't have time now, but maybe once we're sitting down.

At the bar it's karaoke night. I hop between conversations with multiple people and several different girls. I can tell the girls are looking at me now when I'm not talking to them, so preselection is building. One girl sings a karaoke song with her friend and looks and points directly at me, for a prolonged period, during the part it's talking about taking someone home that night.

I see this hot blonde girl with a crazy good ass who I know from this bar and a group that's out together. I go over and greet her friend, then her, then the girl in the group who hates me. The last girl was being a bitch when I started to walk up, but I killed her with kindness and immediately warmed her up.

I talk to the blonde about some realizations I've had from my recent vacation, and qualify her on how I like that she's compassionate in her job as a teacher in inner-city schools, and that she probably has to think hard about how to reach her kids that don't want to hear her message. I can tell she's getting warmed up to me and letting her hair down. I'm still doing stuff like teasing her about her pigtails (that she has to wear for work with her length of hair) and being fun and flirty. The qualification about what she does she was really into because 1). the fact I even remembered what she does for one of her jobs and 2). it was a genuine compliment so you can tell the difference.

While I'm ahead I eject to another hipster girl who I've taken a liking to. She's hot, but kinda immature to be honest. I do my best with talking to her and realize I'm kinda getting drunk actually. I can't lift this conversation off the ground, and it's getting late. I try talking to the girl who was singing to me but she seems nervous talking to me so I eject from that too. Preselection is still working for me with my "hop from girl to girl" strategy but it's getting time I make a decision on who I actually want. I've been looking for personalities a lot more recently, too.

So I decide to go back to the blonde girl, who's bitchy friend has just left her. I know that she would have been a cockblock so I jump on the opportunity with her being gone. Next thing I know we're making out. I can't remember the exact steps. She's embarrassed that we're kissing because she doesn't want her friend to notice. I tell her we can go somewhere more private and with cheaper alcohol, and invite her over. We make out 2-3 more times.

We call an uber and cuddle up in the back seat, talking with the driver. Once inside we almost immediately start going at it. I have whiskey dick and can't get it up. She sucks my dick for like 20 minutes straight, like a total champ, and I finally do. I ravaged the fucking shit out of her. We fuck probably 5 times. There's scratches all over my body, and the shower the next morning was quite painful.

For good measure with her friend, I woke up before her, bought breakfast, and gave her some when I got home. I want to reset my repuation of being a player who pumps and dumps girls, as there's a couple people spinning that narrative on me.

We fuck again and I bust all over her stomach. We talk about plenty of stuff and have good conversation - I could easily see having her as a FB. I make extra sure to say I'm not kissing and telling so she has nothing to worry about with her friend and she thanks me for this.


The vibe I got from the whole night was that once people know you get laid, and they think you're hot, they want to fuck you. Kind of that simple. There are social pressures that will push them away from actually fucking you, and it's your job to navigate those pressures, dissolve them, and swoon her onto your dick.

This involves a good amount of empathy to how the girl is feeling and why. That takes time, experience, and kindness to build and figure out. Since being genuinely nicer to people, I realize that's what many people want: genuine kindness. Lots of fake nice guys and fake nice girls out here simply smiling at people or giving shallow compliments. Focus on finding the beauty in people and qualifying them once you see it, and be dazzled as they start to let their hair down around you.

Cheers.


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