Hey guys,
Recently I asked a girl to a dace at my medical school. She agreed and its one week away so we've been texting here and there.
In order to remove pressure from the day of the dance in terms of us having sex afterwards, I called her today and proposed that we hang out in my apartment before that day:
That last question....is the subject of my post. I didnt have any clear idea of what we were "going to do" because in actuality my plan is just to fuck her.
Obviously, I cant say that....
I have read the articles on GC about pulling, and they advocate for sating anything. From "i have a really cool ceiling" to "i have a view i want to show you" to "lets grab a night cap/a REAL cocktail".
These "excuses" have always sounded fine to me, but it never comes out naturally because I know im not being honest. Plus, I still get a little anxious when going for the pull.
So heres what i said:
I could feel the gears of her logical mind running. This is because literally im going to pour her a drink and fuck her.
Therefore, Im looking for help regarding what to say during the pull. I dont want to activate her logical mind or anti-slut defense.
Does anyone have any suggestions for this problem? Saying anything but the truth just feels WRONG to me!
Please help,
BigS
Recently I asked a girl to a dace at my medical school. She agreed and its one week away so we've been texting here and there.
In order to remove pressure from the day of the dance in terms of us having sex afterwards, I called her today and proposed that we hang out in my apartment before that day:
Me: deep dive, chit chat
Her: warm to me, laughing
Me: lets hang out before the day of the dance.
Her: okay, when?
Me: umm, when are you free?
Her: we could do Friday
Me: okay great
Her: what are we going to do?
That last question....is the subject of my post. I didnt have any clear idea of what we were "going to do" because in actuality my plan is just to fuck her.
Obviously, I cant say that....
I have read the articles on GC about pulling, and they advocate for sating anything. From "i have a really cool ceiling" to "i have a view i want to show you" to "lets grab a night cap/a REAL cocktail".
These "excuses" have always sounded fine to me, but it never comes out naturally because I know im not being honest. Plus, I still get a little anxious when going for the pull.
So heres what i said:
Me: we'll get a drink and figure it out from there
Her: ....okay
I could feel the gears of her logical mind running. This is because literally im going to pour her a drink and fuck her.
Therefore, Im looking for help regarding what to say during the pull. I dont want to activate her logical mind or anti-slut defense.
Does anyone have any suggestions for this problem? Saying anything but the truth just feels WRONG to me!
Please help,
BigS