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So last night I was at a bar and it was jam packed. The first girl I approach was standing next to me all by herself. So took my shot and talk to her. I did a direct open (told her I came to talk to her because I thought she was cute) and she moved when I ask to move a few feet. Then some guy some guy she knew with his friend appear she introduced me. I started taking to the other guy than I walk away.
Later that night another girl was standing next to me with her friends. It took me a while before I summon enough courage to talk to her. It was only brief before she walked away with her friends. Now I know what I did wrong there. I waited to long, didn't deep dive, didn't show intent.
last girl I meet was someone I knew from a fitness class I took a few months ago. She was very warm and receptive. We talked I deep dive. Than a few minutes later she was talking with another guy. Mistake I made right there was not showing the intent and not flirting enough.
This has been a reoccurrence I talked to a girl at a bar for about a few minutes then she goes to another guy.
My question is other than my fundamentals. What do I need to improve to prevent this from happening again. Also if you notice any other mistakes that I made please tell me that would be helpful.
So last night I was at a bar and it was jam packed. The first girl I approach was standing next to me all by herself. So took my shot and talk to her. I did a direct open (told her I came to talk to her because I thought she was cute) and she moved when I ask to move a few feet. Then some guy some guy she knew with his friend appear she introduced me. I started taking to the other guy than I walk away.
Later that night another girl was standing next to me with her friends. It took me a while before I summon enough courage to talk to her. It was only brief before she walked away with her friends. Now I know what I did wrong there. I waited to long, didn't deep dive, didn't show intent.
last girl I meet was someone I knew from a fitness class I took a few months ago. She was very warm and receptive. We talked I deep dive. Than a few minutes later she was talking with another guy. Mistake I made right there was not showing the intent and not flirting enough.
This has been a reoccurrence I talked to a girl at a bar for about a few minutes then she goes to another guy.
My question is other than my fundamentals. What do I need to improve to prevent this from happening again. Also if you notice any other mistakes that I made please tell me that would be helpful.