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Tool-Bearing Hominid
Tool-Bearing Hominid
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Hey guys,

Hadn't been on an online date in a while so I decided to do some swiping. Matched with a girl a couple of days ago and sent some routine rapport-building texts.

She was a graphic designer in her early 20's. Interesting part was that in each of her pictures, her hair was a completely different color: sometimes white, sometimes brown, and even green in one of them. She was pretty cute.

After a couple rapport building texts I asked what her schedule was like to "snag a beverage" (Ive been trying to make my language over text more interesting and less obvious).

She told me she was actually free tonight, which was perfect for me, so we arranged to meet at a bar downtown.

The bar had a very low-key vibe: mostly wooden interior, wide beer selection, but was also classy: in a nice part of the city, dim lights, soft music, some cocktail options.

I meet her and we both order an IPA at the bar. I let her ask the bartender for her own drink and hesitate after ordering my own, but still wind up paying for both.

I then say "lets find a quiet place to chat". We find a couch and sit next to each other.

She's actually really funny and is making all of these puns and I make sure to call her a dork. She totally qualifies to me, but I like the light feel that our conversation has.

Even the normal boring screens that normally happen on a first date are cryptic in a joking way. We're speaking in all of these different voices and just being goofy.

Maybe 10 min in at a high point I grab her face and kiss her. I then pull back and resume conversation. Shes a little surprised but no resistance at all.

We talk for maybe 30 more min and I say "lets finish our drinks and get out of here". We make plans to walk in a park just around the corner.

As we both stand up from the couch I get up first and meet her standing. I then passionately kiss her and also grab her ass. She seems to like this :)

We both use the bathroom, leave, and then just outside the bar I go for the pull:

Me: you live around here, right?
Her: yeah
Me: we should go there.

Im working on making my pulls seem like "no big deals" because this is what girls want: in actuality, sex isn't normally a big deal to girls. It actually has been becoming less of a big deal to me too because Ive been getting it fairly regularly ;)

When I go for the pull I look down or dont make eye contact, speak somewhat more softly, and let the end of the sentence trail off a bit. Also, it helps if Im doing something at the same time, like paying the bill or walking. That makes it seem like I didnt even feel like the pull warranted me stopping what I was doing. Also, if its a "no" then I can just continue what Im doing. No awkward silences where the girl feels like she has to make a big decision.

Her: so funny thing is I actually live with my parents
Me: oh....
Her: yeah... but that's why I was asking where you lived!

At this point I remembered her very subtly screening my logistics. My logistics are bad, which is maybe why I didnt jump on this. Girls really are subtle with their hints and I need to get better at recognizing them.

I say "oh, cool!" but don't actually change the direction which we're walking (towards the park) or mention something like "alright lets go!" I just assume that we're going to my place now (in my mind). Very subtle.

We get to the entrance of the park and I say "lets actually keep walking this way". I then lead us to the direction of the subway (which is how I get home). We then take the subway and its still just implied that we are going back to my place. Never explicitly stated.

The subway ride is freakin long (told you my logistics are bad), so the challenging part is keeping her entertained the entire time. Somehow I pull it off and we arrive at my apartment.

In my room I get her some water, have her take her shoes off, and put on some music. Once I get the music going (Bill Evans on vinyl), its really a done deal ;)

I walk straight to her and we make out while I grab her ass. She's breathing heavily so I lead her to the bed and clothing starts to come off.

I am actually trying to quit watching porn, so I havent wanked it in like 4 days so Im famished and basically foaming at the mouth for her.

We roll around on the bed naked, passionately making out, and Im already hard. I eat her out for a bit and then go get a condom to straight rail her tight pussy.

We alternate between adapted missionary and doggy and she's having fun. The jazz music is still playing. I finish after like 45 min and then we lay there kissing and cuddling.

I think about kicking her out, but then the kissing gets passionate after a while. Uh oh, Im hard again. We go for a second round and its even better than the first. Boy did I need that...

It was getting late and I live far away, so I resigned to the fact that I was going to invite her to sleep over. I timidly offer her a pair of shorts, but she says she better get home (perfect!).

Anyways, she leaves and now I have just enough time to get some sleep before work in the morning. Good weeknight first date.

Cheers,

BigS
 

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Cro-Magnon Man
Cro-Magnon Man
Joined
Jul 24, 2015
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Slam dunk!
I think the key ihere was just letting it happen. She wanted to get laid from te get go and wouldn't have gotten on the train with you if she didn't.
You screened well. You lead well. You laid well.
 
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