Hey guys,
Ive been pretty busy with school recently, so I havent done many approaches. I got off work early today so I went to a public square to do cold approaches. I am working on banter with girls and also being a dominant leader so I can derail girls from their logical schedules to go on dates right then and there.
On my second approach I see a really cute girl looking stylish with shoulder-length black hair, a black shirt, leather jacket, and jeans with rips at the knees. Target acquired.
I made sure to make strong eye contact and give a playful smile when delivering this opener. I am working on having a strong nonverbal sexual frame.
She keeps walking:
Im trying to make her qualify to me as someone who can relax and go with the flow.
From doing several insta-dates Ive learned that this is token resistance and girls will be happy to go on a date if you just push through it in a calm and dominant way. My mindset is "i know whats best for you, now let me show you."
On our walk we do the boring screening of where we work, how many siblings we have, etc.
I keep it playful though and am able to set up a little chase frame, which she enjoys:
We get to the coffee shop and she gives me more resistance about how she's getting hers in a to-go-cup:
However, when we get them I kind of pussy out and let her lead us out of the shop. I couldve made the connection so much stronger if I had made us sit down. But im not perfect....
Once we leave the shop she's still really flirty:
She says she's taking me to a store in the lobby of her work and says she's the one leading the date now. I say "oh shit, okay." I figure its fine to let her lead as long as we still have the frame that its a date.
Once we get to her work i experiment with an "us against the world" frame:
We walk around the retail store but I actually feel the excitement fizzle out. I think this might be because we were in her work and her logical mind got turned on again.
After a few minutes perusing clothing I tell her I actually have to leave. I am then facing her on the street and I see an escalation window:
She then smiles, grabs my hand and waltz's away.
Conclusion
I consider this a pretty good insta-date for my current skill level. The date was very fast paced because I think she was getting a kick out of the adrenaline rush and trying to counter my boldness with her energy by keeping everything moving fast.
I really enjoy this style of game though and want to improve on managing the pace of the date and countering resistance. Any thoughts/suggestions are welcome
Cheers,
BigS
Ive been pretty busy with school recently, so I havent done many approaches. I got off work early today so I went to a public square to do cold approaches. I am working on banter with girls and also being a dominant leader so I can derail girls from their logical schedules to go on dates right then and there.
On my second approach I see a really cute girl looking stylish with shoulder-length black hair, a black shirt, leather jacket, and jeans with rips at the knees. Target acquired.
I made sure to make strong eye contact and give a playful smile when delivering this opener. I am working on having a strong nonverbal sexual frame.
She keeps walking:
Im trying to make her qualify to me as someone who can relax and go with the flow.
Me: lets grab a coffee this way- i know a great place!
Her: i have work!
Me: lets grab a coffee
Her: mayyyybe
Me: come on, itll be fun
Her: okay i have 15 minutes!
From doing several insta-dates Ive learned that this is token resistance and girls will be happy to go on a date if you just push through it in a calm and dominant way. My mindset is "i know whats best for you, now let me show you."
On our walk we do the boring screening of where we work, how many siblings we have, etc.
I keep it playful though and am able to set up a little chase frame, which she enjoys:
We get to the coffee shop and she gives me more resistance about how she's getting hers in a to-go-cup:
However, when we get them I kind of pussy out and let her lead us out of the shop. I couldve made the connection so much stronger if I had made us sit down. But im not perfect....
Once we leave the shop she's still really flirty:
Her: i wanna show you somewhere
Me: careful, idk if youre a serial killer
Her: haha, youre so annoying! [shoulder jab]
She says she's taking me to a store in the lobby of her work and says she's the one leading the date now. I say "oh shit, okay." I figure its fine to let her lead as long as we still have the frame that its a date.
Once we get to her work i experiment with an "us against the world" frame:
We walk around the retail store but I actually feel the excitement fizzle out. I think this might be because we were in her work and her logical mind got turned on again.
After a few minutes perusing clothing I tell her I actually have to leave. I am then facing her on the street and I see an escalation window:
She then smiles, grabs my hand and waltz's away.
Conclusion
I consider this a pretty good insta-date for my current skill level. The date was very fast paced because I think she was getting a kick out of the adrenaline rush and trying to counter my boldness with her energy by keeping everything moving fast.
I really enjoy this style of game though and want to improve on managing the pace of the date and countering resistance. Any thoughts/suggestions are welcome
Cheers,
BigS
