Sometimes, if you handle her tests and framing right, she will just throw herself into your bed before your know it.
I have been here in the Philippines for a week of vacation, spending a few days in Manila, then in Cebu the second metropolis of the country.
Initial exchange on Tinder
As per my usual online dating process, I met Jackie on Tinder on September 13. A seemingly beautiful filipina. Her profile reads “Not into hookups. Looking for friendships”, her main picture is shot from the side, showing her profile, and on her second picture she is shutting her eyes downward. The exchange goes like this:
The date
She finally breaks the deadlock and confirms she's coming. We actually meet around 1pm. She’s beautiful, in a mini skirt, nice smooth legs and sexy lips. She accepts my hand right away and follow my lead. I take her for lunch to a Japanese restaurant. While we wait for the food, she’s asking many questions but not waiting for answers, signs that she’s very excited. She’s touchy and fix some dirt on my tee shirt. She has sunglasses, and asks why I'm staring at her. "I want to see your eyes at last" and she finally removes the sunglasses.
I also proceed to some deep diving, and get through a lot of more tests:
About time to take her to her office. She asks for pictures together, and we proceed to a selfie session. We grab a cab and go to her office nearby. In the cab, I proceed to a little bit of push:
Before leaving the taxi, she briefly kisses me on the mouth.
Later the same night - Self Pull
The timing of the date (lunch just before going to her work) was too short for a pull. So I thought about proposing her an after-work follow up at midnight. However in the evening I don’t feel well (a little feverish) from my cold and decide it’s a little risky to attempt anything tonight, and better rest and be in shape for an early coffee with her the next day. Later on however, after she finished her evening shift (midnight), we text and she explains that she must stay at the office and sleep there - because it’s unsafe to take the jeepney at this time of the night, and taxi out of budget for her. There’s about 50 people doing the same. It’s plenty of smelly feet, and snoring people there, LOL.
So she comes over to my hotel room. When she is in my room, I initially avoid to be too much over her (that would be creepy) and adopt a neutral body language, keep reading stuff on my tablet while she changes clothes. She’s soon in underwear and I really like what I see although I remain discreet about it. Thanks to the paracetamol I've been taking, I am much better than earlier in the evening and ready for action.
My music still playing on my macbook, I shut down the lights and we’re now both in bed, side by side. She complains she feels cold. I take her hand in mine, place her closer to me, her head on my shoulder, my arms around her. Next, I’m kissing her neck and my hand running over her almost bare ass - under the panties. I have this *little* moment of doubt. Although she looks very much like a girl, this is no sure proof of anything, especially in Cebu, Philippines. I press my thigh between her legs… and there is no dick here - LOL. She’s quickly getting very horny, from her loud breathing. She’s stroking my dick, then asking “do you like me to lick you?” “Yes of course” I say. She gives me a very hungry blowjob. She really enjoy it, and for me it’s exciting, she’s doing very well. Next, I put my condom on and take her. It's a very hot and passionate sex, she's extremely horny, moans loud and shouts her pleasure. She will come 6 times in the following 20 minutes, then it's me. It must be around 2am now, we sleep.
She has a very sexy, feminine body, extremely sensual. Very pretty boobs and relatively large, feminine round ass. Definitely my second most beautiful girl this year after Miss Z in June. She will come over to my room the following two night and we have more and more passionate hot sex. On her own account, she "didn't expect we would have sex that first night" but "didn't know [my] touch would be so erotic". Ah girls, LOL
I have been here in the Philippines for a week of vacation, spending a few days in Manila, then in Cebu the second metropolis of the country.
Initial exchange on Tinder
As per my usual online dating process, I met Jackie on Tinder on September 13. A seemingly beautiful filipina. Her profile reads “Not into hookups. Looking for friendships”, her main picture is shot from the side, showing her profile, and on her second picture she is shutting her eyes downward. The exchange goes like this:
Her tests starts in the morning of next day, before we meet.Me: Hey Jackie how are you? You can call me Seppuku
Her: Hello Seppuku, nice to meet you
Me: Hello, nice meeting you too. What's your occupation here in Cebu?
Her: I work for XXXXX
Me: OK, good job I guess
Her: Yeah I guess. Been with them for 6 years, so maybe
Me: Then it’s a good job
Me: You just added this 3rd picture? But still can’t see your eyes (she has colored lenses)
Me: Your first picture makes for an elegant and attractive right side
Her: I’ll take that as a compliment
Her: My eyes are hidden because I like mystery
Me: It is a compliment. Now, you’re building anticipation around seeing your eyes in real
Her: It’s for you to find out
Me: Yes indeed. That can be arranged
Logistics discussion. She has work from 3pm to midnight. Too late for today, so meeting agreed the next day at 11:30am in my usual coffee shop. Later she adds me to Whatsapp and her profile pic shows her eyes.
Me: Nice eyes
Her: Thanks
Me: No more mystery now
Her: Cancelled lunch?
Me: There are other mysteries to uncover
Her: I have intermittent internet connection. If you want to meet me today, contact me on my local number.
Her: (30 minutes later) If you can’t I will understand. Have a great day.
Me: (breaking silence) I will be at the coffee shop at 11:30am like we said. If you want to meet me today, just be there. No need for local number
Her: I don’t go to Ayala often. Don’t know where is the place
Me: I don’t believe you. It’s OK. Have a nice day! (The Ayala center is one of the largest and most popular mall in the city)
The date
She finally breaks the deadlock and confirms she's coming. We actually meet around 1pm. She’s beautiful, in a mini skirt, nice smooth legs and sexy lips. She accepts my hand right away and follow my lead. I take her for lunch to a Japanese restaurant. While we wait for the food, she’s asking many questions but not waiting for answers, signs that she’s very excited. She’s touchy and fix some dirt on my tee shirt. She has sunglasses, and asks why I'm staring at her. "I want to see your eyes at last" and she finally removes the sunglasses.
I also proceed to some deep diving, and get through a lot of more tests:
Some subtle sexual framing:Her: How many girls did you date since Monday? (i.e. since I arrived in Cebu)
Me: Two, plus you, equal three (said with no hesitation or delay. I'm a no bullshit man and congruent with myself)
Her: Oh so then you’re fucking a different girl every day
Me: Who said about fucking? I said date (leaving the mystery here)
Her: How many wives do you have?
Me (smiling): Six. One for the Monday, one for the Tuesday, …, one for the Saturday. And on Sunday I rest, like in the Bible.
(much better than "do you have a girlfriend". She assumes I have many. My response is cocky and enormous, keeping her guessing.
Her: It’s our first and last date
Me: Yes it is (smiling, looking into her eyes, confident body language)
Masterful, LOL! I’m sending several messages with these three words:
"I’m not afraid of losing you and won’t be chasing your ass"
"I don’t take your bullshit at face value"
But also building up tension: maybe it’s me who really intends not to see her again.
Rejecting various frames:Me: given our text this morning, I assumed this meeting wouldn't happen. So I didn’t shave.
Her (touching my 2 days beard): It’s alright!
Me: It’s alright, because now we’re just discussing. But if we were *closer*... (as I say that, I approach my face within 1 inch of hers, like right cheek vs right cheek)
Her: (smiling)
She arranges her bra in a visible manner. A girl drawing your attention to her feminine shapes is a girl who likes you.Her: I’ve been in a very bad relationship (ex boyfriend, blah blah blah)
Me: It’s your expectations hurting you. I have a gradual approach to relationships. Jumping into a committed relationship overnight is a mistake! (Kiss goodbye to the boyfriend frame, but she now tries the "friends" frame.)
Her: Yes, it is. Better to be friends first.
Me: No bullshit. Friendship between a man and woman does not exist. There’s always one wanting to fuck the other!
Her: We can be friends now!
Me: Hahaha. I just told you about it (rejecting body language)
Me: Yes, arrange your boobs. Your going to attract lots of male interest.
Her: (...) I have small boobs. (Love it. She’s preparing the ground to have her boobs accepted)
About time to take her to her office. She asks for pictures together, and we proceed to a selfie session. We grab a cab and go to her office nearby. In the cab, I proceed to a little bit of push:
Me: Jackie, the ladyboy of Cebu!
Her: (pretending to be upset) You can ask the taxi to drop me here!
Me: Don’t pretend that you’re upset! It’s a joke, and you know it (I force her hand into mine)
Before leaving the taxi, she briefly kisses me on the mouth.
Later the same night - Self Pull
The timing of the date (lunch just before going to her work) was too short for a pull. So I thought about proposing her an after-work follow up at midnight. However in the evening I don’t feel well (a little feverish) from my cold and decide it’s a little risky to attempt anything tonight, and better rest and be in shape for an early coffee with her the next day. Later on however, after she finished her evening shift (midnight), we text and she explains that she must stay at the office and sleep there - because it’s unsafe to take the jeepney at this time of the night, and taxi out of budget for her. There’s about 50 people doing the same. It’s plenty of smelly feet, and snoring people there, LOL.
Her: would you be so kind as to provide me with a bed for tonight?
Me: I have one very large bed here
Her: Sure?
Me: No.
Me (after 15 seconds): You need to see first if you like it. (Send her a picture of my king size bed)
Me: I’m not sleeping on the floor
Her: Stop fooling me
So she comes over to my hotel room. When she is in my room, I initially avoid to be too much over her (that would be creepy) and adopt a neutral body language, keep reading stuff on my tablet while she changes clothes. She’s soon in underwear and I really like what I see although I remain discreet about it. Thanks to the paracetamol I've been taking, I am much better than earlier in the evening and ready for action.
My music still playing on my macbook, I shut down the lights and we’re now both in bed, side by side. She complains she feels cold. I take her hand in mine, place her closer to me, her head on my shoulder, my arms around her. Next, I’m kissing her neck and my hand running over her almost bare ass - under the panties. I have this *little* moment of doubt. Although she looks very much like a girl, this is no sure proof of anything, especially in Cebu, Philippines. I press my thigh between her legs… and there is no dick here - LOL. She’s quickly getting very horny, from her loud breathing. She’s stroking my dick, then asking “do you like me to lick you?” “Yes of course” I say. She gives me a very hungry blowjob. She really enjoy it, and for me it’s exciting, she’s doing very well. Next, I put my condom on and take her. It's a very hot and passionate sex, she's extremely horny, moans loud and shouts her pleasure. She will come 6 times in the following 20 minutes, then it's me. It must be around 2am now, we sleep.
She has a very sexy, feminine body, extremely sensual. Very pretty boobs and relatively large, feminine round ass. Definitely my second most beautiful girl this year after Miss Z in June. She will come over to my room the following two night and we have more and more passionate hot sex. On her own account, she "didn't expect we would have sex that first night" but "didn't know [my] touch would be so erotic". Ah girls, LOL