A funny method I use to cold approach at the bar.. because I have a habit of being too intense at times..
I'll either walk to a seat next to the girl I want to talk to, or see if I can slide a chair next to her (makes it humorous too, which relaxes me). Before I sit down I'll ask "Hey, are you using this chair/is anyone sitting here?" (good eye contact & angled/side sexy smile)
Her: No
Me: Actually, I just needed an excuse to come talk to you.. I'm Ryan.. (light hearted or sexy smile, and typically a gentle touch)
If it's useful to anyone, there you go guys!
I'll either walk to a seat next to the girl I want to talk to, or see if I can slide a chair next to her (makes it humorous too, which relaxes me). Before I sit down I'll ask "Hey, are you using this chair/is anyone sitting here?" (good eye contact & angled/side sexy smile)
Her: No
Me: Actually, I just needed an excuse to come talk to you.. I'm Ryan.. (light hearted or sexy smile, and typically a gentle touch)
If it's useful to anyone, there you go guys!