This is almost a follow up to my previous post: viewtopic.php?f=3&t=21498 just want to make a separate discussion
And bang, another off-target!
Met her in the gym, quick 3 min talk, asked her on a date. she was "im busy but maybe next week" so not a good start, but I still got her number and texted her after 5-6 days asking how life was, she replied some "blabla" and I asked her out. She only replied next day saying "what about days a or b?" so good one there, I said lets do B, scheduled time and place.
3 hours before the date she cancelled with "I am tired today, let's do it some other time", me "sure no prb, let's talk when we have more energy"
Wtf guys, is my sample too low (not enough approaches) or I am def fucking up in some fundamentals..
Like I do admit that I am not very cocky when I approach, like I could take some chances to be more arrogant. example: the girl above commented something like "this is boring" when I said what my job was, I took it easy and kinda ignored it, but could have said like" so what do you do? oh god, and you say what I DO is boring!?"
Another: she glanced at her watch ones or twice when we were talking, should I go like "if I were you I wouldn't want to end a conversation with a guy like me" or something along these lines, so every time I get a shit test, throw it back at her with arrogance.
What you guys think?
Also, I could deep dive more, but again, I don't want to talk to her for 10 mins, especially in the gym, no time for that and I think breaks the mystery.
Cheers!
And bang, another off-target!
Met her in the gym, quick 3 min talk, asked her on a date. she was "im busy but maybe next week" so not a good start, but I still got her number and texted her after 5-6 days asking how life was, she replied some "blabla" and I asked her out. She only replied next day saying "what about days a or b?" so good one there, I said lets do B, scheduled time and place.
3 hours before the date she cancelled with "I am tired today, let's do it some other time", me "sure no prb, let's talk when we have more energy"
Wtf guys, is my sample too low (not enough approaches) or I am def fucking up in some fundamentals..
Like I do admit that I am not very cocky when I approach, like I could take some chances to be more arrogant. example: the girl above commented something like "this is boring" when I said what my job was, I took it easy and kinda ignored it, but could have said like" so what do you do? oh god, and you say what I DO is boring!?"
Another: she glanced at her watch ones or twice when we were talking, should I go like "if I were you I wouldn't want to end a conversation with a guy like me" or something along these lines, so every time I get a shit test, throw it back at her with arrogance.
What you guys think?
Also, I could deep dive more, but again, I don't want to talk to her for 10 mins, especially in the gym, no time for that and I think breaks the mystery.
Cheers!