Oh, man, I shouldnʼt even be wasting my time answering, but here goes nothing...
strictlyincreasing said:
The GC veterans have said many time that inner game and this self belief stuff is all hype.
You got me all wrong. Iʼm not one of those touchy-feely yo-yos blowing sunshine up your ass with some “just be confident and presto, youʼll get girls” bullshit. No, confidence — or, I should probably say, trying to make yourself confident — alone isnʼt going to work. It takes more than that.
However, such an abysmal
lack of confidence that you actually think that at baseline youʼre a 2/10 — that is, within probably the bottom 0.1% of all human beings in terms of attractiveness, — is going to
instantly repulse all but the most self‑hating women around, regardless of their attractiveness.
You have to understand that women are biologically programmed to be attracted to men who get sex quickly and easily, and conversely repulsed by men who have a lot of trouble getting sex. (The reason is because in prehistoric times, polygamous men could potentially give them far more grandchildren than monogamous men, so attraction to polygamy became hard‑wired through evolution.)
The very fact that you get pussy is more attractive to women than height, than muscles, than facial features, than jawbones, than money, or anything else.
But how can they tell you get pussy?
Itʼs in your behavior. Itʼs buried in very unconscious cues that you give off without realizing it. Itʼs remarkably difficult and perhaps even impossible to fully control some of these cues consciously.
Now, what do you think youʼre going to be doing to those unconscious signals by firmly believing that 99.9% of men are more attractive than you? VERY GOOD!!!
strictlyincreasing said:
I have aggressive hair loss, am ethnic and am not tall. This puts me at a 2.
Oh, God.
Listen, man, first chick I ever seduced, I hate using numbers, but Iʼd call a 6 or 7, and half my age, and I didnʼt spend a penny on her, and had her on my cock on the first date. While Iʼm not “ethnic”, I
am horseshoe bald, scrawny, and not tall, either. Stop whining. Quit your “poor little me” bullshit. Wear a bandana or something.
Iʼm guessing youʼre one of those lost souls who goes on about haircels and framecels and ricecels and currycels and Chads and Stacys and cock carousels...
Which means you probably have some
remarkably cynical and dysfunctional mental models surrounding women and sex. You need to seriously fix your head or youʼll
never get laid and your “incel” bullshit will become a self‑fulfilling prophecy. Women can sense how you perceive them and yourself and you
will repulse them with these sorts of attitudes.
I donʼt know if this applies to you, but I know that typically “incels” tend to viciously disparage women for being promiscuous. Well, reality check: human beings, including females, are promiscuous — itʼs in our nature. But women
are extremely sensitive to social judgement, and what this means is that, if she senses that youʼre going to judge her for being promiscuous,
she will hide her sexuality from you. Donʼt punish women for doing the very thing you want them to do for you!!