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back from a game hiatus when i was involved in a monogamous relationship and did a very minimal amount of cheating.
it took me a minute to get good again. part of it was me getting back in shape. i think the confidence boost helped as much as anything.
i have a better clarity i feel than i ever did in the past. having a year long relationship while having a knowledge of game gave me a much deeper understanding of women. beautiful women in particular as my ex is a 22 year old stunner.
first off my stats. i'm 6'1 170 pounds, good face, tan skin, blue eyes. i fall into a category that a lot of women would call "my type." i'm in a good position but i'm not rare. where i live i am competing with other guys that look like me and better. but i'm also not going to delude myself into thinking it's all my game.
one thing i never took into account before was the fact that i could intimidate women. i am bigger and stronger and have a deep voice with breaking rapport. i've started acknowledging that fact. normally girls actually lighten up a bit if they are standoffish at first. i'm just like "sorry if i'm intimidating i know i'm a lot bigger than you." normally men are intimidated by goodlooking women. this is a nice way to flip the script.
qualifying the girl is something else i've been doing a lot more of. i know every guy is just trying to fuck. so it's important to make her feel special and that you really like her. so i let them know i like their humor, witt, intelligience, and even their looks. i used to never compliment looks before sex. but in the modern day chicks really need to know you find them attractive. such low self esteem.
bitterness is the number one game killer. you must love women. coming out of a breakup and being redpilled i started to hate women for being women. it's like getting mad at a bee for stinging you or a snake for biting you. i had to get bitterness out of my life and reestablish a love for women.
direct game - here i'm going straight up i like you i think you're pretty with a lot of sexual subcomms and fast escalation. this works really well on girls who are not as hot as i could get. basically girls that can initially see me as a win. i rewatched rsd tim the flawless natural and used a lot of that type of game. works very well.
but i like being chased. in my experience the most beautiful women will chase earlier and harder. the key is tying your approval to her need for validation. i'll give a short field report to illustrate one such encounter. this is extreme and rare for me.
i was at the bar on monday (actual laboy day). it was like 10 pm. this girl from accross the pool table was staring so hard i thought i was delusional. i was walking passed her and stopped and said something. she was like "you're scaring me." I'm like "because i'm so big and scary ahah." anyway she asks for a drink and i said no so she said don't talk to me. i went to the bathroom and when i came back she came up to say something. i think she was going to be rude. so i said "go. leave me alone." and i pointed away.then she came up to me outside asking some stupid question. anyway the whole night i would push her away and she would keep chasing back. we hooked up within an hour and then went to her house and had sex all night. i'm pretty sure she was a high end escort. very attractive but very odd. i actually told her i thought she was a prostitute in the uber to her house. she didn't get that mad.
something else i'm realizing is if a woman older than 24 isn't immediately dtf she is most likely a time waster. you're wasting your time on less hot girls if you're messing with 25+ girls. younger girls are hotter and much more chill. they're not so damaged and bitter.
it took me a minute to get good again. part of it was me getting back in shape. i think the confidence boost helped as much as anything.
i have a better clarity i feel than i ever did in the past. having a year long relationship while having a knowledge of game gave me a much deeper understanding of women. beautiful women in particular as my ex is a 22 year old stunner.
first off my stats. i'm 6'1 170 pounds, good face, tan skin, blue eyes. i fall into a category that a lot of women would call "my type." i'm in a good position but i'm not rare. where i live i am competing with other guys that look like me and better. but i'm also not going to delude myself into thinking it's all my game.
one thing i never took into account before was the fact that i could intimidate women. i am bigger and stronger and have a deep voice with breaking rapport. i've started acknowledging that fact. normally girls actually lighten up a bit if they are standoffish at first. i'm just like "sorry if i'm intimidating i know i'm a lot bigger than you." normally men are intimidated by goodlooking women. this is a nice way to flip the script.
qualifying the girl is something else i've been doing a lot more of. i know every guy is just trying to fuck. so it's important to make her feel special and that you really like her. so i let them know i like their humor, witt, intelligience, and even their looks. i used to never compliment looks before sex. but in the modern day chicks really need to know you find them attractive. such low self esteem.
bitterness is the number one game killer. you must love women. coming out of a breakup and being redpilled i started to hate women for being women. it's like getting mad at a bee for stinging you or a snake for biting you. i had to get bitterness out of my life and reestablish a love for women.
direct game - here i'm going straight up i like you i think you're pretty with a lot of sexual subcomms and fast escalation. this works really well on girls who are not as hot as i could get. basically girls that can initially see me as a win. i rewatched rsd tim the flawless natural and used a lot of that type of game. works very well.
but i like being chased. in my experience the most beautiful women will chase earlier and harder. the key is tying your approval to her need for validation. i'll give a short field report to illustrate one such encounter. this is extreme and rare for me.
i was at the bar on monday (actual laboy day). it was like 10 pm. this girl from accross the pool table was staring so hard i thought i was delusional. i was walking passed her and stopped and said something. she was like "you're scaring me." I'm like "because i'm so big and scary ahah." anyway she asks for a drink and i said no so she said don't talk to me. i went to the bathroom and when i came back she came up to say something. i think she was going to be rude. so i said "go. leave me alone." and i pointed away.then she came up to me outside asking some stupid question. anyway the whole night i would push her away and she would keep chasing back. we hooked up within an hour and then went to her house and had sex all night. i'm pretty sure she was a high end escort. very attractive but very odd. i actually told her i thought she was a prostitute in the uber to her house. she didn't get that mad.
something else i'm realizing is if a woman older than 24 isn't immediately dtf she is most likely a time waster. you're wasting your time on less hot girls if you're messing with 25+ girls. younger girls are hotter and much more chill. they're not so damaged and bitter.