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I've been friends with benefits of sorts with this girl for a few weeks. We meet up once a week or so, hang out for a bit, go back to one of our places, and spend the next few hours... Anyway, I made it clear from the beginning that I'm not into relationships, and she knows that I'm sleeping with other girls (she actually thinks I'm sleeping with a lot more girls than I actually am). But lately she's been turning a mostly physical thing into more of an emotional thing. She kisses me goodbye almost romantically, she asks if she can cuddle, she tries to spend time with me doing not physical things, and I'm not sure I'm liking where this is going.
I'm worried our acquaintances-with-benefits thing is turning into a relationship, and I want to make sure that doesn't happen while keeping and preferably escalating our acquaintances-with-benefits position. What's the general tactic for when a girl starts to get the feels or tries to turn a physical thing into a dating thing?
I'm worried our acquaintances-with-benefits thing is turning into a relationship, and I want to make sure that doesn't happen while keeping and preferably escalating our acquaintances-with-benefits position. What's the general tactic for when a girl starts to get the feels or tries to turn a physical thing into a dating thing?