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Dude's!! Am hoping ya can shed some light on this cause am starting to think my town is backwards. A was out in a club with a friend who was frustrated with a girl he went on a date with ghosting him. He seen her out an started texting her from a emotional an needy place. When he shown me the messages it was painful to read they were huge emotional bombs on a girl he just met. Needy, emotional, desperate... she not only replied but he's since went out with her again??
This isn't the only time he's done this apparently an recently another friend done something similar with a girl he only seen once or twice. Again desperate, needy chasing messages from scarcity mentality. She slept with him the next night?
When a get rejected or ghosted a don't text them, definitely not emotional, needy, desperate messages asking why they don't like me anymore. A might send a casual text a few days later such as if they don't respond to an ice breaker I'll follow up with a schedule text if we didn't get the next date set up. If they ignore me I next them.
Other than being the exception not the rule, how is this getting them results? Any thoughts dudes?
This isn't the only time he's done this apparently an recently another friend done something similar with a girl he only seen once or twice. Again desperate, needy chasing messages from scarcity mentality. She slept with him the next night?
When a get rejected or ghosted a don't text them, definitely not emotional, needy, desperate messages asking why they don't like me anymore. A might send a casual text a few days later such as if they don't respond to an ice breaker I'll follow up with a schedule text if we didn't get the next date set up. If they ignore me I next them.
Other than being the exception not the rule, how is this getting them results? Any thoughts dudes?