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Hey guys,
So I met this girl yesterday and we hit things off pretty quickly. In fact, (like most of my relationships really) she reached out to me first. I pretty quickly suggested a meetup at a place near me, but logistics happened where she suggested to just come over to my place and have dinner/drinks tonight.
So, of course, this seems like a great plan, yet it's not really a scenario I'm used to. I like the quick meetup and then invite her over to my place, and then escalate within my place in 10 or less minutes. By having her come over, I feel there's the risk of escalating too quickly or not escalating quickly enough (seeing as it's mostly advised to escalate quickly once in an intimate location like my apartment) and once she does get settled in, there's no more "intimate" location. I could see the bedroom being the location to treat as that location for the mood switch window, but I have a studio apartment so not really anything that will trigger that same feeling.
Of course, I could be over thinking it and should just assume a girl coming over right away is good, but much like many things in seduction or women, the right thing can sometimes be counter-intuitive.
Also, any general advice about how to handle a date situation like this would be appreciated.
Thanks in advance guys,
Michelangelo
So I met this girl yesterday and we hit things off pretty quickly. In fact, (like most of my relationships really) she reached out to me first. I pretty quickly suggested a meetup at a place near me, but logistics happened where she suggested to just come over to my place and have dinner/drinks tonight.
So, of course, this seems like a great plan, yet it's not really a scenario I'm used to. I like the quick meetup and then invite her over to my place, and then escalate within my place in 10 or less minutes. By having her come over, I feel there's the risk of escalating too quickly or not escalating quickly enough (seeing as it's mostly advised to escalate quickly once in an intimate location like my apartment) and once she does get settled in, there's no more "intimate" location. I could see the bedroom being the location to treat as that location for the mood switch window, but I have a studio apartment so not really anything that will trigger that same feeling.
Of course, I could be over thinking it and should just assume a girl coming over right away is good, but much like many things in seduction or women, the right thing can sometimes be counter-intuitive.
Also, any general advice about how to handle a date situation like this would be appreciated.
Thanks in advance guys,
Michelangelo